Izindaba ezimnandi zalabo abangenazo (noma cha) esikoleni, njengeTaylor Swift. Izazi zezenhlalo kanye nezazi zezengqondo ezivela e-American University of Virginia zithole ukuthi ngokuhamba kwesikhathi, kuwusizo kakhulu ukuba nabangane abaseduze noma ababili abasondelene naphansi.
Yikhwalithi, hhayi inani labangane entabeni yobusha - ukhiye engcupheni ephansi yokudangala nokholo uqobo eminyakeni eyalandela.
Abaphenyi beminyaka eyishumi - kusuka eminyakeni eyi-15 kuye kwangama-25 ubudala - baphawula futhi baxoxa nentsha eyi-169. Minyaka yonke, abafana namantombazane bagcwalisa imibuzo yokuphendula imibuzo ngenani labangane abaseduze nabajwayelene nje, kanye nesimo sabo sengqondo kanye nemizwa yabo. Amaphepha emibuzo agcwalisa abangane bawo, ngakho-ke abaphenyi bakwazile ukubala izinga lenhloso yokuthandwa kwentsha yokuhlola.
Kwavela ukuthi iminyaka engama-20 yezindlovukazi namakhosi amabhola wesikole - labo abaningi abaphendulayo baphupha ngabangane - bakhombisa izinga eliphakeme kakhulu lokukhathazeka, bavame ukwehla ngenxa yokuzethemba. Futhi labo abangazange bakujabulele abathandwayo ezixukwini, kepha nokho bangaziqhayisa okungenani umngane oyedwa osondelene naye, bakhulela ukuzola okuzolile ngokwengeziwe, okulinganiselayo nabakude nama-plums. Ngaphezu kwalokho, lokhu kuxhumana kwalandelelwa kungakhathalekile ukuthi kwenzekani kubasubandela ekubeni bathola iziqu, abaye bafunda kuye, ababesebenza nokuthi bangakanani.
Ngakho-ke ngokuhamba kwesikhathi, umgwaqo wonke umgwaqo wonke ugcwele imodeli yezindiza enezimpande ezinhle kakhulu, uvela endaweni enenzuzo enkulu kunenkanyezi, amaphupho abo okuzalwa kokuthola isikole sonke.
Ubuningi be-Admirers ababuyiseli ukuxhumeka okuqinile okunobungane nhlobo - futhi manje, lapho ngisho nabantu abadala kwesinye isikhathi bathambekele ekulinganiswe ngenani labangane ekuxhumaneni nomphakathi, kufanelekile ukukhumbula.
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