Ngokushesha noma ngokuhamba kwesikhathi inethiwekhi evulekile (hhayi kuphela) ingxoxo mayelana nobuntu besifazane kanye nabesifazane baphendukela ku-skock. Ngakolunye uhlangothi, amadoda athukuthele, nabanye abesifazane abanolaka, banamafutha amafutha "anambitha", ndawo ndawo lapho bekhohliwe bechaza kahle abaphikisi.
Umgibeli wethu uthathe isinqumo sokusondela eqinisweni futhi wachitha isivivinyo esicishe ube yingozi: ubuze abesifazane ukuthi bathuthe eceleni futhi bangaphawula, futhi amadoda aphendulwa ngokungathi sína embuzweni "Kuyini ubufazi?"
Nansi umphumela: Ubuntu besifazane yilapho abesilisa kungejwayelekile! Ubufazi - kuze kube umshado wokuqala ojabulisayo.
Abafana bathi ngokuzithalo lokho ubufazi kungenxa yamadoda amabi. Lokho kungaba ngezinyathelo ezimbalwa zokuhamba. Ubuntu besifazane isifiso sokubushelela imikhuba yezindlu kanye nezenhlalo eye yathuthuka ngaphambi kokukhululwa kwabesifazane, ngokuya ngemigomo yokulingana ngokobulili. Ubuntu besifazane bungumlando, ekuqaleni, ukunyakaza kokulingana kwalaba ihlelo lobuqili ngokukhanga ngebuningi lobuhlakani ngezingcingo kanye neziqubulo zomphakathi ekulweni nenhlokodolobha yomhlaba. Ubuntu besifazane buyisifiso sokuhleka usulu, okuphambene nezifiso zengqondo, ngenxa yokungapheleli kwesimo. Ubufazi besimanje ukuqhubeka komzabalazo wokulingana kwabesifazane ngemuva kokuphumelela kwangempela. Ubuntu besifazane yilapho abesifazane nabesilisa benamalungelo alinganayo, kanti amadoda abophekile ukuba anikeze abesifazane. Ubufazi buyinhlangano yezenhlalo yezepolitiki, inhloso yokuthi yikuphi ukuqedwa kobulili kuzo zonke izindawo zomphakathi. Ubufazi buwumbono wokuphakama kwabesifazane ngaphezu kwabesilisa.
Kusala kuphela ukwazi ukuthi i-World Backstage ikhipha imali. Ubufazi bayisifiso sabesifazane (kwakunguBaba) ukuba babe yindoda kanye ne-hysteria ngenxa yokuthi yini okufanele bayibhale. Ubufazi - umzabalazo welungelo lokubhala ukuma.
Guys, wena - lapha (inkinga yokuchama mpo isikhathi eside kuxazululwe). Ubufazi bukhona lapho owesifazane ethathwa izindima zabesilisa ngokwesiko - hhayi esidingo esinonya (akekho umuntu oseceleni), kodwa ngokuzithandela nangezinyathelo zabo. Kufaka phakathi, yebo, ukuthwala amandla adonsela phansi. Ubufazi yilapho owesifazane ememeza ngaso sonke isikhathi ukuthi nginguyebo, nakho konke uqobo. Futhi ngemuva kwemizuzu emi-5 ihlanjalazwa - uyindoda, ungeyena yini umuntu? Nalesi sifazane esihlekisayo kukho konke. Ubuntu besifazane buthela isondo lokuqala elivuthiwe, bese uphuma endaweni ethile))). Ubuntu besifazane yilapho owesifazane enqaba isimo sonkulunkulukazi ovuna isimo se-dongoy elilinganayo. Ubuntu besifazane yilapho umuntu wesifazane ehamba nomuntu wesifazane, ophethe ibhodlela lamanzi ayinhlanu futhi akadumazi ukuthi akamnikezeli. Ubuntu besifazane yilapho abesifazane bezakhela ilungelo lokukhonza ebuthweni. Ubufazi bakulungile kowesifazane ukuthi basebenze nge-grinder, kanti umuntu wenza imisebenzi yasendlini.
Ngokuvamile, uma uwe, phakamisa ikhanda lakho: futhi amadoda aphumule - ayazi, kungazelelwe kwakuwubufazi. Ubuntu besifazane yilapho umcabango 'wokulingana' uthemba ukuqaphela kokuba khona komehluko wezocansi. Into enjengale. Ohlangothini olubuyela emuva lwendondo yokuphakama kwabesilisa. Ngokweqile. Ubufazi buwumbono ohlanganisa abathwali bukhali, ezingeni le-neurosis, ezinkingeni zokuzethemba. Ubuntu besifazane buwukulimala kwamasiko noma ngofuzo. Ubuntu besifazane - ngokweqile kwama-hormone amadoda emzimbeni wesifazane. Ulwele ukulingana .... Futhi asikho isifiso sokuqonda ukuthi sehlukile. Ubuntu besifazane yilapho owesifazane engafuni ukudlala indima yabesifazane, futhi amadoda awakwazi. )) FANINISM - umzabalazo wabesifazane wokulingana. Kepha ukulingana kuchaze nokwenqaba amalungelo okubangelwa izici zomzimba. Ubufazi buyisifo esivuka emakhanda abanye besifazane abakhule, njengombuso, emindenini engaphelele futhi baqonda kabi ukuthi kukhona owesilisa, futhi lokho konke lokhu kukhulelwe kangaka. Futhi ngenxa yalokho, sinemiphumela ... Abesifazane baqamba amanga, futhi amadoda awohloka ...
Ubufazi, kuyavela, ukulwa nencwadi yezincwadi ze-biology. Ngakho-ke bhala. Ubuntu besifazane yilapho amachwane okulahla ebangemuva kangangokuba le ndoda ayidingeki.
Futhi sabhala ngobani "ngamachwane" ?! Ubuntu besifazane yilapho ukulingana kwamalungelo abo bonke abantu, ngaphandle kokubheka phansi kanye nokunye ukungezwani. Ubufazi yilapho i-maya ilsinichno akekho obonisa ukuthi angeke akwenze. Ubuntu besifazane yilapho owesifazane efuna ukuqashelwa nokuhlonipha ubuntu bakhe, hhayi ubulili obukhona kanye nobandlululo oluhlobene. Ubuntu besifazane ukukhululwa kwabesifazane. Nabesilisa nabo). Ubufazi, ifilosofi, indlela yokuphila, ungabiza ngendlela othanda ngayo, kepha isisekelo sobuntu besifazane singumqondo wokulingana komphakathi, kwezenhlalo nakwezepolitiki phakathi kwabo bonke abantu, kungakhathalekile ukuthi bonke abantu bangokobulili.
Amakhukhi kuleli thebula! Eduze kwesichazamazwi, kepha ngomuzwa omuhle. Lona yi-IdeEology kanye nomkhuba wokuphela kokuguqukela okuhle nokuhlukile kwezenhlalo.
Futhi le yimbiza kajamu emkhakheni omkhulu. Njengomfana nginikeza incazelo yami, yize, mhlawumbe, bambalwa abantu abavumelana nami: ubufazi bumayelana nothando.
Lapha sasinyundelwa. Kahle? Lesi yisampula. Wena ngokwakho uyabona okwenzekayo ekubukeni kwabesilisa nokungasebenzi. Kepha nokho, iningi labameleli bephansi eliqinile, ngokusobala, namanje baphupha abanezinwele nabakakhulelwe eduze kwesitofu. Futhi abesifazane kuphela abakhethayo.
