Buza cishe noma yimuphi umfazi osemusha ukuba abhale into ngezinto eziyishumi azizondayo, futhi izinto ezine kweziyishumi zizoba yilokho azizondayo.
Ukuze ubuthakathaka, ubuwula, ngokwehluleka, ngoba iqiniso lokuthi umama noma umfazi omubi. Abaningi balotshwa ngokwemibandela yezimfanelo, amayunithi akhishwa ngokungananazi: "Ngiyazizonda."
Yize ngakunye okufundwayo nokuzwakalayo kwezeluleko zezengqondo zezengqondo ezivela ku-TV: "Zithande nje, futhi konke kuzolunga futhi kulungile empilweni."
Ngemuva kwalezi zeluleko, zizonda ngokwengeziwe. Manje iqiniso lokuthi abakwazi ukuzithanda. Kepha lokhu, njengoba sikhumbula kusuka kwifomula ejwayelekile, kalula.
Eqinisweni, akusebenzi. Akekho noyedwa emhlabeni, yebo yena uqobo, ngisho nonina nendodakazi enegazi, akakwazi ukuphoqelelwa ukuba azithande. Uthando noma kuvela, noma cha.
Ungazama ukuyeka ukuzizonda ngokwakho. Kepha ukuzindla phambi kwesibuko ngeke kusize. Futhi akukho ukupela komlingo kulokhu.
Dinga unodoli. Noma yisiphi isilwane esingcono. Lo doll uClumsy, oyisiphukuphuku, akabekezeleli. Unawo wonke lawo maphutha wena (nomunye umuntu) azizonda. Kungani ungazange uyishaye, ungamhlathi, ungayinciphisi ukudla okumnandi nohambo, aphupha ngalo iminyaka emithathu? Lokhu kuhle, ukujezisa lowo ongenawo amandla anele, ulwazi, noma yini. Mtshele ngokuzwakalayo. Cabanga intokazi yakhe endala. Imfanelo yowesifazane wakudala iyafana, ngenxa yaba kubi kuphela, ngoba ukuguga kuthathe amandla avela kuye, manje ubhekana nokuncane, awunawo, musa! Kuyadingeka ukujezise, ngoba uzofana. Ingabe kujwayelekile, azonde umuntu onjengawe? Kuthiwani ngokuxabana?
Futhi manje isalukazi yingane. Unamandla futhi uhlakaniphe, akazange akwenze, futhi kwakungeyena umuntu ongakuvikela, ungajezisa intombazane ephaketheni ukuthi mangakanani umphefumulo. Ngakho-ke lokho akukaze kube nesibindi ukumamatheka! Noma kunjalo, ukujabulela futhi ujabulele injabulo, kanjalo nejele. By the way, intombazane ikhala, inzonde? Uma uzizonda lapho sikhala lapho sikhala, khona-ke kuyadingeka, lokhu kuyangekayo, lapho othile ebuhlungu ekhala, niyazi ukuthi kuyanengekayo.
Kungokwemvelo ukuzonda umuntu omubi.
Noma cha?
Uyazi ukuthi yini oyikho ngempela?
Imvamisa, ubani okhalela, ikhonsoli. Hug ukuze ukuvikela. Ukusho ukuthi kunzima ukwenzeka, futhi kudumaza kakhulu lapho ngingeke ngikwazi ukuphatha, futhi kwesinye isikhathi kuyasiza ukuhamba kuphela ngezinyathelo ezincane, futhi kwesinye isikhathi abukho abanye abantu abahlambalaza abangalungile, futhi abanakwethenjwa. Kuyaduduza ukuthi ngubani okhala. Kudingeka kakhulu.
Bese uthatha leli thoyizi nawe, ngokomqondo noma ngempela. Uzoba mncane, njengowesifazane omdala nale ngane. Lapho wesaba, uhlakaniphe futhi ulinyazwa, uzokhokha. Futhi uyaduduza, oyisiphukuphuku no-clumsy, futhi uqiniseke ukuthi usiza usizo. Kunzima ngoba ukubhekana nakho, futhi ekhasini elincane kunazo zonke, mhlawumbe kuzoba lula.
Futhi isizathu sokuyeka ukuzonda eyodwa kuphela. Zonda ngokungajwayelekile. Ikakhulu ngobuthakathaka, ubuwula, i-clumsy noma lokho okuhlukumezayo. Noma ngubani. Futhi wena, yebo, nanoma ngubani.
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