Njalo ngosuku olusha lukwenza ube, intombazane eyigugu futhi enhle kunazo zonke, unkulunkulukazi kanye nendlovukazi, ukunyundela ikhanda. Ngoba umsebenzi-umsebenzi, isikhathi-sekwephuzile-aaa! Kepha manje yeka. Yima, khuluma! Bheka. Futhi ubone ukuthi konke kuhlelekile ebudlelwaneni bakho nothandekayo wakho.
Uma ungenaso isikhathi esanele kuwe - funda uchwepheshe womkhiqizo - uCatherine Kononov. Uyakuthanda akekho omunye umuntu owaziyo ukumbulala impilo yakhe uqobo nomsebenzi wakhe. Futhi manje siyakwazi ukuyivimbela kanjani. Ngizobe ngithembekile - angisiyena ubuhlakani bokusebenza kahle futhi ngibheke umona kubantu abanakho konke okuhle, kupelwe ngokucacile nangokuthula. Muva nje ukuhlala nomngani futhi uqhoshe ngezibonakaliso zakhe, bathi, bheka - ngingumuntu ohleliwe. Lapho anginike khona impendulo ethile: abantu bahlele konke sekuvele babekelwe emakhanda abo futhi akudingeki. Elinye iphuzu - ngiyawuthanda umsebenzi wami: ngingumuntu ongavamile owafunda ngokukhethekile, manje osebenza. Futhi kunikeza imiphumela ethile: Kuyathakazelisa ukusungulwa kwami kanye nokwakheka kweFinmodel, nezinhlelo zokuqeqeshwa zikhula, futhi neqembu elizosebenza. Futhi lapha kungenzeka ukuletha uhlu lwezeluleko ukwenza ngcono imisebenzi yabo, kodwa ngikhuluma ngomunye.Mayelana nokuthi ungambulali kanjani impilo yomuntu siqu esihogweni.Ngisanda kuvuka kusuka ohambweni lwebhizinisi lezinsuku ezinhlanu futhi ngabona ukuthi ngisangibukhali futhi. Omunye wabaqeqeshi bebhizinisi lami emicimbini yabo bathanda ukubuza, bathi, uyimali noma ubudlelwane bebhizinisi. Futhi ngibuza abesifazane benzaAholics - nawe ngomsebenzi noma ubudlelwano? Bengijwayele ukufana - ngihlangana nomuntu x futhi ngiphume encwadini yokupheka. Nobuhlakani mina ngiyi-Milots, ubulili kanye nogqozi. Emasontweni ambalwa kamuva, ngiba nesithukuthezi ukuba ngibe ngumfazi wasekhaya ofudumele phambili nge-freelancer futhi ufuna ukuba ngumuntu osomabhizinisi. Futhi ngikhafulela incwadi enezindlela zokupheka eshalofini eliphezulu kakhulu nakulahlwa, ngithi, ungaziphekela futhi uvame ukuwathola, uma kungenjalo ngithanda i-Housemaker kuwe. Futhi anginawo amandla emidlalweni yokudlala indima futhi uma ufuna ukuchitha isikhathi esithe xaxa nami - noma ake ngibe nomkhiqizo wakho ozokwakha, noma ungisize ngebhizinisi. Ngakho-ke, iziphi iziphetho engizenzele zona:Zijabulise, bese ugcine umhlaba
Kwanele ukusebenza ukuze kusihlwa kunamandla anele kuphela ngaphambi kokuzama ukulala, ukuwa kuye nokulala - ukulala - bengihamba. Ngokuhamba kwesikhathi, akukho okukhethwa kukho. Ngiyakhumbula lapho ngithola izinhlelo ze-SPA kuma-Thai Salons, intombi yami enhle yathi - kuyisiwula ukuchitha imali, kungaba ngcono ukutshala imali ngomongo (ngitshele ukuthi ngubani umngani wakho wangasese futhi yena uzoba yizwi lakho langaphakathi). Kepha njengoba kwenzeka, kuyintokozo encane yabesifazane - njengokugcotshwa kwe-massage, i-manicure, imibuthano ezitolo zekhofi, i-cinema eyisiphukuphuku futhi ihamba emgwaqweni wenhlokodolobha - yenza umhlaba uqhamuke, obaluleke kakhulu, kufaka phakathi sebenza. Okukhipha: Phumula. Zicabange emgwaqweni njengoba ebuntwaneni. Ukuthunga kuyo yonke imali yomholo kungabi nalutho ngokwezinto ezinengqondo, kepha kumnandi entombini yakho encane. Kinder-emangele ukuzithenga.Indoda kumele ijabule kuwe
Lapho useNhloko KPI, izinqubo, amaphutha athile neminye imibuzo engu-33 yokuzindla, kuphakeme, amathuba awo akuwona amandla amahle kunawo wonke umuntu osondelene nomuntu osondelene nomuntu osondelene nomuntu osondelene naye. Futhi kubukeka sengathi kuqonda konke, kepha ekhaya ePajamas. Ngokwami, kwadingeka ngikhiqize umkhuba wokuzithumela ku-makeup kanye nezingubo ngaphambi kokufika kokuthembekile. Yebo, uyangithanda noma ngubani, kepha nakhu muhle futhi ujabule kakhulu kune-T-shirt-utshwala, ugongolo ekhanda nasebomvu kwikhompyutha. Okukhipha: Kwenzekani emsebenzini, ngaphambi kokuhlangana nendoda, yenza ikhefu, bheka uchungechunge oluyisiphukuphuku futhi wenze ubuhle. Noma uhlala ndawonye. Ikakhulukazi uma uhlala ndawonye.Main for dynamics ebudlelwaneni - wena
Waffle, yedwa futhi uhlaleLapho bobabili bebuzwa yizinto, kulula kakhulu ukugibela ku- "Ake sibheke uchungechunge, sizokwazi ukulethwa kokudla kanye nokulala." Futhi nsuku zonke. Indoda ngeke ize nohlelo lwamasiko futhi, ikakhulukazi zama ukukudonsa kwenye indawo. Futhi ebukeka isikhathi eside ngezimo ezifanayo (yize kubhebhetheke kakhulu) - kuholela ekuthathweni nasekulahlekelweni yi-spark. Okukhipha: Ngabe ufuna ukunyakaza? Qalisa futhi uphikisane, kungani udinga ukufika endaweni ethile kusuka kusofa.Ibanga phakathi kwe-m no g njengebanga phakathi kwama-magnets
Eminyakeni embalwa edlule, ngafunda incwadi emangalisayo ngoMars noVenus embhedeni. Kwakunengxenye ephathelene nomhume nokuthi amadoda adinga ukunikeza ithuba lokuba yedwa. Futhi ngalokhu ngafinyelela esiphethweni esingalungile, bathi, kude esimweni esinjalo, okungcono. Kepha hhayi ngempela: ake ucabange ngama-marthets amabili - uma ubazalela, khona-ke kuzoba nokuheha okuqinile phakathi kwabo, nangemva kokude bazokulahlekelwa yiliphi inzalo komunye nomunye. Okukhipha: Konke kufanele kube ngokulinganisela - futhi kungahlukaniswa, futhi kude. Ngaphandle kwalokho, akukho lutho oluhle oluzophuma.Inhlonipho ngomuntu wakho - lokhu kuwe, hhayi kuye
"He, yena nje," ngachaza ukuthi kungani ubudlelwano bami budliwe. Benginesiqiniseko sokuthi angikhethi nje lawo madoda, abuthakathaka, athembekile, angenakwenzeka ukuhlonipha futhi anconywe kakhulu, ngoba abuthakathaka kunami. Nkosi, ungaba kanjani isiwula esinjalo? Ukuhlonipha umuntu kuyindaba yowesifazane. Noma yimuphi umuntu unamaphuzu abuthakathaka namaphoyinti abuhlungu, futhi njengoba le ndoda ibuye ibe ngumuntu, bese ithola indlela yokufakazela ukuthi akayona elula. Kepha kwesokudla nakwephambene - kulolo na nalunye kukhona okuvelele nokufanele ukukhulekelwa. Okukhipha: Ufuna ubudlelwane obujwayelekile - funa izinzuzo futhi ulondoloze isinyathelo sendoda. Ufuna ukukhombisa ukuthi uyipholile futhi eqinile? Iya ebhokisini.Umbhali we-Article: Ekaterina Kononova