Abekho abantu abaphelele ngokuphelele ngesimo se-priori, okusho ukuthi akunangqondo ukufuna umuntu ozokwanelisa izicelo eziya ku-100%. Ngobudlelwano, abantu bahlala begqoka ngokuntuleka komunye - bavale amehlo abo ngoba nje izinzuzo endodeni yakhe ethandekayo.
Uma kungekho zimizwa esisele kothile ohlala eduzane, futhi umuntu uqobo nowomkhuba wakhe ukhipha kuye ngokwakhe - khona-ke akukho okumele kwenziwe naye. Kepha uma naphezu kwayo yonke imikhuba yakhe ecasulayo, yondla umuntu ozizwa, khona-ke udinga nje ukusebenza kancane futhi ubheke konke okunye.Qonda ukuthi yini oyiphutha
Ngokungangabazeki, eminye yemikhuba yabantu ingacasula kusuka phansi kwemali engenayo, kepha noma ngabe kuyisiphetho esincane esivela kumuntu kudala isivunguvungu kuwe, kufanelekile ukucabanga ngakho. Kungenzeka ukuthi lobu buntu bunezimpande ezijulile ezidinga ukudingidwa futhi kuqedwe.
Isibonelo, ngokweqiniso izolo, akaphendulanga umyalezo wakho isikhathi eside futhi waqala ukumcasula. Eqinisweni, ukucasuka akusona isenzo sakhe, kodwa emicabangweni yakho ngezizathu ezingaba khona zalokhu kuziphatha. Ucabanga ukuthi akanendaba nawe, yena, ngokuqinisekile, ngokunganaki umyalezo ... lapho kuvela umyalezo ... lapho kuvela izimo ezifanayo, zincike nje kungxoxo yekhaya nawe, akunakwenzeka ukuba yikho Umuntu uyakuthanda futhi unaka kakhulu ukunakwa ngokwanele, impela nje ngalowomzuzu wayematasa, njll.
Ungalokothi uncintisane nezintombi kulowo mdlalo ozoba kubi kakhulu
Ngeshwa, abesifazane abaningi bahlushwa yilokhu. Bazohlangana phezu kwenkomishi yetiye futhi baqala: "Futhi izolo yayala izitsha zezintaba izolo futhi ayizange igeze!", "Nabangane bami bahlala nodoti omningi ngemuva kwale nkampani!", "Kanye nezami ..." . Ukuthatha imithetho yomdlalo nokuqhubeka nokukhuluma ngesithandwa sakho esimweni esinjalo, maduze nje zonke izinzuzo zakhe zizoya kuhlelo lwakamuva, futhi emfanekisweni okhethiwe wakho uzobona kuphela ukuthambekela kwamaphutha.Ungalwa nomkhuba omubi onjalo, ngaphandle kokuhlukanisa nezintombi. Ngokuzayo nje ngokuzayo, lapho wonke umuntu esondelana eqala ukukhononda nge-sloppy nokungelutho kwabayeni bakhe, akhulume ngesitayela: "Hawu, futhi izolo ngishiye. Kepha ngokuvamile, unayo indlu nokunakekela, evame ukungiphonsa ngezinto ezihlukile! ". Ngakho-ke, wena nothandekayo wakho emehlweni akho musa ukuthoba, futhi nabangane, qhubeka ube segagasi elifanayo.
Funa ama-pluses kumaminithi akhe
Ithemba elihlukile lihlukile ekuphutheni ukuthi okokuqala ngisho nakubi ngisho nokubi kugcwala okuhle futhi kujabulise lapho kuvela khona i-pessimist. Uma intandokazi yakho inenqwaba yamaphutha, lapho-ke esikhundleni sokuthukuthela noma ukuwabona, ukususa okuthandayo.
Akunakuphindeka yini kwinqubo yokulungisa futhi ayinalutho ngaphambi kwalo? Ngokuphelele, unethuba lokwenza konke njengoba ufisa ngokwakho - ngendlela oyithandayo futhi ngaphandle kokhetho oluhle lwephepha lwangemuva nezinye izinto!
Ingabe kuyindlela engenakuguqukayo? Kepha ngeke akule ngothuli, futhi unga-oda uhlelo lokuhlanza ngokwakho, kwesinye isikhathi luzivumela ukuzilibazisa, uma uphuma nakancane! Akakhulumi kakhulu? Kuyamangaza, kungenzeka, uyindoda yebhizinisi - kuzoba nenkinga - ngeke aphikisane, kepha vele ahambe athathe isinqumo.
Khumbula, azikho izimo zokungena ngaphakathi, kwesinye isikhathi ngezinye izikhathi ezintweni ezifanayo okudingeka zibheke ezinhlangothini ezahlukene, ikakhulukazi ebudlelwaneni.