Cishe akekho umuntu owayengakhathazeki ngosuku lokuqala. Kunemicabango eminingi ekhanda, iningi lawo elisemayelana nokuthi ungabukeki kanjani oyisiphukuphuku futhi angavunyelwana ngaphambi kokhethwe. Eqinisweni, okuwukuphela kwento okudingeka ukwenze ukuwathatha nje ezandleni zakho bese wehlisa umoya. Phonsa wonke ama-stereotypes ekhanda lami, ngoba usuku lwanamuhla akulona lwangaphambili, futhi sekuyisikhathi eside imithetho eminingi iphelelwe yisikhathi.
Usuku njenge-parade
Amantombazane anzima ukuzama ukudala isithombe ngosuku lokuqala futhi azame ukunamathela kukho konke ukufakwa kwezingodo ezifashini - uma isithende siphansi, uma kukhona ukwakheka, uma kukhona ukwakheka, khona-ke. Imikhawulo eminingi kakhulu, futhi ayinamsebenzi. Futhi ayisasebenzi nenombolo yemithombo ephakamisa ukuthi amadoda athanda / angawathandi izipikili ezinde / ezimfishane, ukwakheka okukhanyayo / okungekho, njll.Futhi manje, ukunakwa - nabesilisa, futhi, abantu abanokuthandwa kwabo nokuncamelayo, futhi wonke umuntu unokwabo. Amadoda athile afana nabesifazane abagqoke izigqoko, abanye - amaBalaunes angenabulungiswa. Futhi uma kungasebenzi kwi-manicure salon, ngeke abheke umbala we-varnish. Ngokuqondene nezithende, uma kungukukhula okuphansi futhi akunzima kulesi sihloko, khona-ke izithende ziyindaba yokunambitha.
Kepha akukhona ngisho nako. Umongo wosuku lokuqala ngumhlangano nomuntu ophilayo wangempela onokunambitheka kanye nesitayela sawo, indlela yakho yokuphila kanye nombono wakho. Kungenzeka yini ukuba nokwenza umqondo ukhohlise i-Uhager, uzama ukukwenza okuthandayo futhi uvumelane nento enhle yakhe, yini, ngendlela, ayikacaci? Ngakho-ke, ingxabano encane nenjabulo - faka lokho ozizwa ungcono kakhulu.
Ngoba isidlo sakusihlwa ukhokha kuphela indoda
Indoda ekuqaleni inikezela indawo kuze kube manje, ukuze intokazi yamukele ukunikezwa noma ukwenqaba. Ukunakwa okuhle umsolwa kunikeza indawo enhle yokukhetha, ucingo oluphakathi kwi-cafe, nezinyawo noma eziphakanyisiwe zikumema ukuthi uhambe epaki. Kepha uma usuku luhlelwe ngabantu abadala ezimele, khona-ke isinqumo sokuhamba samukelwa ndawonye, ncamashi, njengalowo nokuthi ungakhokha kanjani umthethosivivinywa.
By the way, lo mthetho uyamangalisa ngokuphelele, kepha uhlanganisa impilo. Ngalokho Abesifazane abaningi babuze izinkundla: "Ingabe kungokwemvelo ukuzikhokhela?". Imibono yomphakathi ivame ukuhlukaniswa - abanye bakhombisa umuntu ngembiza, abanye kowesifazane basakaza ilebula "yokuqukethwe". Futhi akukho mpendulo eyiyo kulo mbuzo - lapha ngalinye linquma ngokwakhe.
Bekudla ukubhekisela ekuhlonipheni, khona-ke akukho lutho lwe-vite ngoba owesilisa uzokhokha lo Mthethosivivinywa - isenzo esinjalo esivela engxenyeni yakhe asiphoqi umfazi. Usuvele "wahlambalaza" kuye ngomphakathi wakhe nesikhathi esichithwa kumuntu. Kepha uma ukhululekile ukukhokhela ngokwakho, khona-ke kwenze - futhi vumela umuntu afune, uyacabanga.
Izihloko zezingxoxo kufanele zibe "lula"
Yini ebingaba yisiwula ukwedlula ukucabanga ngohlelo lwengxoxo kosuku? Kwezepolitiki - akunakwenzeka, inkolo yiTaboo, inhlebo nezinkinga emsebenzini - ayikho. Kancane njengengxoxo. Mayelana nezingxoxo, unganamathela kuphela imithetho ejwayelekile: ungakunaki ukusabela kwe-interlocutor yakho kulokho okushoyo, futhi futhi ungazami nje ukukhuluma, kodwa futhi ulalele omunye. Konke, kulokhu kuphele yonke imikhawulo.Taboo ekuqabuleni nangokobulili
Imithetho yezocansi nokuqabulana kuyaphila futhi kuze kube namuhla, kepha ingabe kufanelekile? Uma ugxumela embhedeni ngasikhathi sinye - le ndoda izoyibona lula, idonsa isikhathi eside - izolahlekelwa yintshisekelo. Yonke indawo lapho izifiso zibhekwa kuphela, kuthiwani ngowesifazane? Ngabe azikho izintandokazi zaphansi ezibuthakathaka kanye "nohlu lwezifiso"?
Eqinisweni, lesi sihloko sinciphile kakhulu. Isibonelo, uma umuntu engenazo izinhloso ezinkulu, futhi nje azibeka umgomo wokulala nomuntu wesifazane othize, noma ngabe efika engxenyeni yakhe ngonyaka wobuhlobo bakhe, uzolishiya intokazi yakhe ayifanele. Ngakolunye uhlangothi, le ndaba yazi amacala amaningi omshado ojabulisayo, lapho ubulili buba khona ngosuku lokuqala.
Ngakho-ke, akufanele ubeke imingcele ecacile ngale ndaba, kepha uzizwe nje isimo nendoda. Uma unomuzwa wokuthi ukusondelana kobusuku bokuqala naye kujwayelekile, uyakufuna, bese wenza ngokufakwa kwakho, okuphambene nalokho.