Inkinobho yokusetha kabusha: Ungaphumula kanjani kahle ukuze uphumule ngempela

Unemisebenzi emithathu, amakati amabili, idrama, umbuthano esithombeni, abangane abangamashumi amahlanu kanye nobungani nokuqeqeshwa ku-Aikido ngamaSonto. Awuveli kulabo abachitha isikhathi kwimibukiso ye-TV futhi bayikhafulela ophahleni! Kahle, ngeze. Ngamunye wethu udinga ukungahambi kahle.

Ngikholwe, udinga iholide - noma ngabe ungacabangi kanjalo

Ama-introverts akufanele afunde ukunqamula empilweni yomphakathi futhi akhokhise amabhethri abo kuphela - angakwenza eqenjini le-nursery. Ama-extravert anzima ngokwengeziwe. Abantu abajwayele ukudonsa amandla ekuxhumaneni nabanye, ngendlela efanayo bakhungathekile futhi badinga ukuphumula kukho konke nakho konke, kepha uma bangakunaki lokhu, futhi uma bengakuboni lokhu, futhi uma bengakunaki amasiginali ukuthi umzimba ubathumela. Ngokusho kokuhlolwa kwe-Air Force, ama-68% abantu ayaqiniseka ukuthi badinga ukuphumula ngaphezulu. Futhi ukuphumula - akusho ukudansa izinsuku, njenge-sloth enkulu.

Yini okufanele uyenze ukuze uphumule?

Abaphenyi baxoxa nabantu abayizinkulungwane eziyi-18 emazweni angaphezu kwe-130 futhi benza uhlobo lokukalwa kwezigaba eziphumulayo. Ukulala, ukungabikho kokukhohlisa okunethezeka, kepha umsebenzi obalulekile, awuzange ungene ohlwini. Itende labaholi ekwehleni bubukeka kanjena: Ukufundwa, abagibeli bemvelo, ukuhlala ekhaya kuphela, ukulalela umculo, ukuhamba, ukugeza, ukugeza, amaphupho, ama-TV nokuzindla.

Qaphela ukuthi kulokhu kulinganiselwa kwakungekho ndawo yezinto ezihehayo ezihehayo njengokudla komndeni, ukudla kothando namaqembu nabangane. Kuphela okwesihlanu kuphela kwabaphenduli okusho wonke la makilasi. Kuluhlu, umndeni nabangane batholakala phakathi kwemidlalo nezilwane kanye nenkomishi yekhofi. Ukuxhumana nabanye kungakhuthaza futhi kujabulise, kepha sibuyisela amandla edwa.

Akusikho imifino, azungeze -

Ngokweqiniso, ukukalwa kwemisebenzi yokuhlehlela kubukeka njengengxenye yeSonto elithukuthele.

Futhi ngandlela thile kudida. Sihlala singakhululeki ukuvuma ukuthi ngempelasonto sivimbela kakhulu "onkulunkulu baseMelika" futhi saqala ukugeza ngamagwebu, ngenkathi umhlaba wonke unamaqembu amaqembu azokwakheka, waya naye inkulumo ku-minerogy. Noma okungenani wasebenza ngehora lehora.

Ukuqashwa kwaphakade kanye ne-hyperactivity kwakhiwa kwihlelo, futhi abaningi baze bagxilise emsebenzini wabo, baqonda kahle isikhathi sokuphumula. Ngokwe-Psychology Namuhla, amadoda kungenzeka kakhulu kunabesifazane, uthuli emehlweni futhi benza sengathi baqashwe ngokweqile. UBella Deppaolo umcwaningi ubuze iqembu lezifundo ezixubile ukuba zilinganise ubungako kanye nekhwalithi yokuphumula kwabo, futhi iningi lamadoda lathi laliphumule "ngaphansi kwesilinganiso". Kepha kwakuyingxenye yokuqala yokuhlolwa. Ingxenye yesibili yayiqukethe ukugcwalisa imibuzo enesimilo sosuku, lapho abahlanganyeli bocwaningo begubha zonke izindaba zabo ngosuku. Ukuhlaziywa kwalezi zinto zemibuzo kukhombisile lokho eqinisweni, amadoda aphumule kakhulu kunabesifazane.

Kunabantu abasebenza nge-mega-abasebenzayo nabasebenza kakhulu abakwazi ukusebenzela ngokuphelele, bachitha amahora amane kuphela ngosuku embhedeni futhi cishe abaze bahlale bodwa nabo. Ngokusho kososayensi, bacishe babe ngu-1%. Bonke abanye bangase benze sengathi yilokho okungokwakhetha, bafuna malini, kepha ngaphandle kokuphumula bayosheshe bafane njani ama-dude avela kusisindo sefilimu "ama-Zombies ama-zombies".