Sonke sihlala emphakathini futhi sincike kakhulu emibonweni yabantu abasizungezile. Ukuncoma okumnandi, okushiwo ekuseni okungaziwa kakhulu, kungaphakamisa isimo sosuku lonke, futhi ukuphawula okujwayelekile mayelana nobunzima bokubukeka kungangezeleli hhayi kuphela isimo somoya, kodwa futhi kwehlisa ukuzethemba kwethu.
Ukuzethemba kwabesifazane - intokazi ithakazelekile kakhulu. Izazi zezengqondo zikholelwa ukuthi owesifazana azifundise ngokwakhe engakwazi. Abantu abaseduze kwakhe bazithemba kwakhe. Uma ungajabuli, njalo ukugxeka kabi, lokhu kuyisizathu esibi sokucabanga nokubona ukuthi inkinga yokuzethemba okuphansi ikhona. Ukuthatha inkinga - isinyathelo sokuqala esiya kwikhambi laso eliphumelelayo. Ukubona ukuthi ukuzithemba kwakho kwehla, qala ukwenza. Okokuqala, ubuyekeze indawo yakho esondele kakhulu.
Imvelo ehloniphekile yowesifazane - isiqinisekiso sokuzithemba kwakhe okuphezulu!
Owesifazane kufanele axhumane nalabo abamthandayo. Abangani, izihlobo, abaphathi, ozakwabo, omakhelwane, abazali kumele bathande futhi bahloniphe lona wesifazane, bancome ubufazi bakhe, badwebe, bathumele, bakhanyise indawo ethokomele noma bakhuthaze amadoda apholile noma akhuthaze amadoda apholile noma akhuthaze amadoda apholile noma akhuthaze amadoda apholile noma akhuthaze amadoda apholile noma akhuthaze amadoda apholile noma akhuthaze amadoda apholile noma akhuthaze amadoda apholile noma akhuthaze amadoda apholile noma akhuthaze amadoda apholile noma akhuthaze amadoda apholile noma akhuthaze amadoda apholile noma akhuthaze amadoda apholile noma akhuthaze amadoda apholile noma akhuthaze amadoda apholile noma akhuthaze amadoda apholile noma akhuthaze amadoda apholile noma akhuthaze amadoda apholile noma akhuthaze amadoda apholile noma akhuthaze amadoda apholile noma akhuthaze amadoda akhuthazayo. Ngaphansi kwezimo lapho owesifazane kufanele axhumane nalabo abagxekayo futhi, ngakho-ke, wehlise ukuzethemba kwakhe. Kuyabhubhisa. Ngasikhathi sinye, uhlobo "lokugxeka" alunandaba. Amacebo, amazwana oLulcer, amahlaya noma ama-aphorisms ase-Ironic akonakalisayo ngokuzethemba kwabesifazane ngezinga elifanayo.
Akunandaba noma ngabe uluhlobo luni lobuhlobo owesifazane oluqukethe umuntu oligxekayo, kuzofanela azikhiphe embuthanweni wokuxhumana. Akekho umyeni noma umqashi noma intombi eseduze akufanele ayigxeke futhi ihlaze umfazi. Noma amagama noma izenzo. Kuzofanele uhlanganyele nawo wonke umuntu othoba ukuzethemba kwakho. Xhumana kuphela nalabo abakuthanda! Futhi uzokwazisa ngokushesha kakhulu ukuthi isimo sakho sengqondo ngawe siguqukile.
Vumela ube nguwe!
Owesifazane kufanele azilalele. Uma efuna ukuxoxa nezintombi noma adle ushokoledi, udinga ukukhokhela lezi zinjabulo ezincane futhi ungafafazi umlotha wekhanda ukuze uchithe amawashi namakhilogremu angezekile. Akunandaba ukuthi yikuphi ukuphakama kwakho nesisindo, umbala wamehlo nobudala. Kubalulekile ukuthi uzizwe ujabule, futhi kulokhu ulalele izifiso zakho futhi uzikhulise kaningi!
Zinakekele!
Owesifazane omuhle uthola izincomo eziningi. Uyaphawuleka, uyavuma, kufakwa esibonelweni. Ukusuka kulokhu kukhuphuka kwemizwa, amehlo avuthayo, amakhilogremu ancibilikisa futhi ukuzethemba kuyanda. Kuyiqiniso, akusizi ngalutho ukuthi ungakuthuki isikhathi i-manicure noma ingubo eneminyaka eyishumi, uma unesibambo esigcinwe kahle, futhi ingubo ihlala kahle, igcizelele kahle izinzuzo zesibalo.
Wena kahle!
Impilo iqukethe injabulo enkulu nencane, ama-chagrins kanye nokutholwa. Kwesinye isikhathi ngokukhululeka noma ngokuzithandela, sicasulwa abathandekayo, sinikeza izethembiso esingakwazi ukuzifeza, zibe kude nomhlangano obalulekile, ukhohlwe ukushayela abazali. Abathandekayo bethu abahlali bathola ukwesekwa okudingekayo, uthando, ukunakekelwa. Ukubona ukuphutha, sikulungele ukugxeka futhi sithole umuzwa ojulile wecala, obhubhisa i-psyche yethu nabanciphise. Ukuze kwenzeke, noma ngabe yiliphi iphutha ongaqiniseki ngokwakho. Wenze kahle ngakho konke! Kholelwa ngokuqonda ku-Miss yakho, vuma nsuku zonke futhi njalo ngemizuzu. Futhi uthole isizathu esenza kwenzeke. Mhlawumbe ukhathele futhi awunawo amandla anele?
Kopisha amandla!
Wonke umuntu wesifazane uphelele kusukela azalwa. Igcwele amandla, okumele kwanele wonke umuntu: emndenini, ezinganeni, izintombi, izinto zokuzilibazisa. Uma amandla awanele, kungenzeka, ahlulekile futhi lona wesifazane azizwa engajabule futhi engafaneleki. Ukuphuma enkingeni futhi uphakamise ukuzethemba, udinga ukuthola amandla akho. Bhala ama-20 ezimfanelo zakho ezinhle futhi ufunde kabusha uhlu nsuku zonke, ubanjwe nezimfanelo zalo ezintsha. Vula amathalenta akho ngokudweba, ukucula, ukuthunga, ukugoqa, i-psychology, ukuhamba. Thola okwenza kangcono kunabanye, futhi uwuthuthukise. Thola uthisha ofanelekile ku-sphere esiseduze nawe futhi uyathakazelisa. Njengoba usudonse ulwazi, ubakhombise futhi ukhule ngokomoya. Lapho nje ubona lokho entweni ethile enekhono kakhulu, uzoyeka ukuziqhenya ngokwakho futhi uzoziqhenya ngathi.
Funa abantu abanomqondo ofanayo!
Uma uthanda okuthile, thola labo ababelana ngentshiseko yakho. Abantu ababodwa ababandakanyeka emsebenzini owodwa bayakwazi ukukhuthaza futhi banikeze amandla amahle. Bangafunda ulwazi olusha, imibono ethokozisayo, izindlela ezahlukahlukene zokuzisebenzisa. Ukuba sendaweni enobungane, uzozizwa ukhululekile kakhulu. Futhi-ke, ukuzethemba kuzokhula!
Cela usizo futhi usize abanye!
Uma udinga usizo, ukusekela noma ulwazi lomuntu kanye nesipiliyoni, unganqikazi ukubuza. Imvamisa abesifazane abayitholi okufunwa kuphela ngoba abakwazi ukubuza. Akekho umuntu ongafunda ngocingo ngezidingo zakho, uma ungatsheli ngabo. Futhi noma ungahlali unikeza usizo, akwethusa. Uma wenqaba, vele ubuze okufanayo ngicela omunye umuntu. Emhlabeni, izinkulungwane zabantu abakulungele ukukusiza. Uphenduke nje kumuntu. Futhi okuphambene nalokho, uma othile ecele, okungeke kube nzima kuwe, ukuwenze. Ukubonga umfokazi kuzokufaka ikhadi lokuhlanganisa eKarma nangesikhathi esifanele kuzobuyisa ibhonasi emnandi.
Ukumamatheka!
Ngakho-ke, lokho kungenzeki, ukumamatheka nokukhululwa kwesimo, umuntu, isikhwama esilahlekile esinemali enkulu. Akukho okubiza izinyembezi zakho. Khumbula lokho, ngisho nokumomotheka ngomshini, uthumela isinali lobuchopho, elijabule. Ubuchopho buvusa umzimba ukuthi ujabule, futhi manje usuqala ukumamatheka ngobuqotho, ububanzi futhi ngempela!