Yonke imibhangqwana ejabule ngokulinganayo ngokulinganayo, yamemezela uma ibhubesi likhulu. Futhi kwakukhona okuthile okulungile. Okungenani, izici ezijwayelekile zokuziphatha kwemibhangqwana ejabule ekuxhumaneni nomphakathi zikhona. Sibale abayisishiyagalombili.
Abazilandeli okwabo nokwabanye abantu
Azinasizathu sokukholelwa ukuthi ngokuqinisekile umlingani ulwela ukubuyela entshisekelweni yakhe yangaphambili, futhi akathandeki kakhulu, impilo yomuntu siqu yendoda kwesobunxele yashiya intombazane eshiye isoka. Ngenxa yokuthi banomuzwa wokuthi banothando oluthandekayo noma bathandwayo kwi-wavelength efanayo, futhi ukubandakanyeka okungokomzwelo okukhona njengamanje ebudlelwaneni akushiyi isikhala semizwelo mayelana nemotani. Ngabe lezo zimizwa lapho ukhumbula ukuthi wakopela kanjani ngasikhathi sinye ngengxenye yepropathi, kufaka phakathi ama-dumplings ayi-12 kanye ne-pilewcase, noma indlela aphula kanjani inkomishi yakho oyithandayo ngentukuthelo.
Azilwi komunye nomunye
Lokho wukuthi, "saya eMinsk naseVilnius, ngiya eMinsk naseVilnius, lapha sithola indlela ngemuva kokuzama ukuyisika" - lokhu kujwayelekile. Kepha ukuzitholela i-wagen ngendlela "Mina ne- @ Futhi lokhu kuvame ukwenzeka kumasampula amabili: Ukungaqiniseki okuthile ebudlelwaneni bebonke noma umhlukumezi wokulawula umlingani. Kuwuphawu lwenjabulo enkulu nothando oluhambisanayo.
Ababiki amaphasiwedi ngamunye
Futhi ungabaniki. Azidingi ukuhlasela okungadingekile kwesikhala somuntu siqu nokukwenqatshwa okuphelele kwemingcele yabo. Banele kwalolo nyaka, olucatshangwa ukuthi luya ocansini, ukuvalelisa nezingxoxo eziqotho. Ukuqaphelisisa kabi ngemingcele yabo yabanye abantu ngokuvamile kuwuphawu futhi kungenye yezizathu zokungakwazi ukwakha ubudlelwano obunempilo.
Kuma-avatar abo kuphela imifanekiso yomuntu siqu, hhayi ukubhangqa
Ngaphezu kwalokho, mhlawumbe isikhathi esifushane se-euphoria kusuka eqinisweni lokuthi ngemuva kweminyaka emihlanu yesizungu umuntu atholakele, noma emshadweni. Isifiso sokukhuluma ngaphansi kwe-avatar ejwayelekile - kuphela egameni lika- "We" - lokhu futhi ngemingcele yomuntu siqu nokulawula. Akumangazi ukuthi zivame ukuguqula i-avatar ngokuvamile labo abasebenzisi abazizwa bephelelwe yithemba, njengoba ubudlelwano buba ngaphandle, futhi bazama ukwenza umlingo wezimpawu, noma ngabe uyakuphika okwenzekayo. Futhi maduze nje sibona ushintsho esimweni ku- "free" noma "konke kunzima."
Uhlu lwabangani babo alufani
Wonke umuntu angahle abe nombuthano wawo wokuxhumana, ohlangana nombuthano wokuxhumana kwabalingani ngombhangqwana noma amagama amaningi. Futhi imfuneko yokududuza bonke abafana namantombazane angaziwa ukuthi, thethelela, anecdotal. Uma umuntu efuna ukuzizwa esehlangothini, usazokwenza. Futhi uma konke kusebudlelwaneni, akufuni. Futhi ngaphezu kwalokho ukuze uhlole enye yokuxhumana nabathandi abangahle abe misterms ngeke baze engqondweni.
Abafihli ezinye izikhala
Yebo, banokungaboni ngaso linye ngezinkinga zemibono - mhlawumbe. Kepha bayahloniphana ngokwanele ukugwema amahlazo bekungadingeki ukubeka izihlungi zokuthola ukufinyelela kokuthunyelwe, lapho ekugcineni afuna ukukhuluma khona.
Balele bomile futhi baphindaphinda
Hhayi ngokuyisisekelo, kepha ngoba nje bavame ukuthanda amahlaya afanayo, kanti ezinye zezintshisekelo zabo zihlangana. Futhi yebo, bayathakazelisa omunye komunye ukuze bafunde udonga nomunye futhi abafaki amarekhodi ozakwethu kusuka kuteyipu yabo.
Abakhonona ngomunye nomunye
Hhayi ngoba "isihlakala esingcolile sangaphansi sikhuthazelele." Futhi hhayi ngoba abakaze baxabane. Futhi ngenxa yokuthi abazizwa bengalawuli isimo kakhulu kangangokuba ngifuna ukucela usizo emphakathini - okungenani ekuzameni umhlukumezi. Futhi ngenxa yokuthi abafuni ukuhlazisana, baxoxa ngezimali zomlingani wakho emhlabeni wonke. Vele, asikhulumi ngamabhayisekili mayelana namacala ahlekisayo abikwe kahle futhi abekelwe imvume yeqembu lesibili.
Umbhalo Umbhali: Lilith Mazikina
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