UPavel Zygmantich: Kungani kungekho muntu odinga ukuqalwa kwabesilisa

I-VKontakte public iqiniseka ngenkuthalo ukuthi abaningi (uma kungezona zonke) izinkinga zamadoda anamuhla ezenzeka ngenxa yokuntuleka kwalokhu kuqalwa kwabesilisa kwabesilisa.

"Yini engingayisho? Phambi kwethu, umzekeliso omangalisayo wezwi elithi "wezwa ukukhala, kepha angazi ukuthi," kusho uPavel Pavel Zygmantovich.

Kalula nje, ukushicilela akulungile.

Umlando omncane

Ake siqale ngokubaluleke kakhulu. Okungukuthi: Imicikilisho yokuqalisa ngefomu elihlanzekile ikhona kuphela kubazingeli be-gathet.

Kusezizweni ezinjalo kunomjikelezo ogcwele - ukuhlekisa okukhethekile, ukuvezwa kwehlathi ehlathini, ukuphonsa lapho, ukuhlela, ukufuya idolobhana, ukuhanjiswa, ukuphuma ngokulingisa kwezithunywa , ukuhlolwa komlilo noma okungamelana nomlilo, ukulahlekelwa yigama elidala futhi uthole igama elisha njalonjalo.

Ayikho into enjalo phakathi kwabantu bezolimo. Lapho abazingeli - abaqoqi bevumile khona ngempela abafana babo, izizwe zezolimo zizithulule ngobuhle ngamanzi noma nje kunika amahlandla ambalwa.

Esikhundleni somlilo - wathambekela. Esikhundleni sokuhlukunyezwa - ukusakaza ngokwesiko noma ukusoka.

Ngaphezu kwalokho, kunephethini elicacile - izinga lokukhula kwentuthuko yabantu, okuncane okuhlala ekuqalisweni, kuba yigazi elincane.

Kungani kunjalo?

Kungani Udinga Ukulolwa

Ngemuva kokuqalwa kwabazingeli - abaqoqi, abafana baba ngamalungu ezinhlangano ezibizwa ngokuthi yizinyunyana zabesilisa, bangahlala endlini yesilisa (namanje kwezinye izizwe zamaPolynesia zigcinwe).

Ukuba yilungu lenyunyana, umfana uthole imithwalo yemfanelo ethile, kanye nabo - namalungelo athile (ngokwesibonelo, angashada). Kepha umsebenzi oyinhloko wokuqalisa kwakungeyona ukwethulwa komfana kule nyunyana. Kwakuwumphumela othile kuphela (lokhu kufakazelwa yileqiniso elihlekisayo - kwezinye izizwe okuvele zikutholile ososayensi, imizamo ihambisana namashumi amane acishe abe ngamashumi amane, asevele enemindeni nezingane).

Umsebenzi oyinhloko wokuqalisa kwakuwumandla omlingo wamandla omlingo - inhlanhla ekuzingeleni.

Kungakho ukuqala kwakhiwa njengohambo oluya eMhlabeni Ofile - umhlangano nabafileyo nokubuya okuphephile kusuka lapho kusho ukuthi abafileyo batholwa benecala lomfana, inhlanhla yakhe yakhokhelwa ukuhlupheka negazi. By the way, cishe amaphesenti ayishumi abafana awazange abe nokuqalwa - afele ngenxa yezizathu ezahlukahlukene.

Ngokuthuthukiswa kwempucuko kanye noguquko kwezolimo, inhlanhla yomuntu ngamunye isibaluleke kakhulu, futhi ukuqalwa sekudlule kakhulu isikhundla, ngokwanda kuphenduka.

Umhlaba Wanamuhla

Emhlabeni wanamuhla, ukuqalwa akunakwenzeka - akekho, okokuqala, uhlelo. Uma amaSlavs asendulo enomfana ngemuva kokutholwa okuvame ukuhunyushwa kusuka kuBabi Kuta eya endaweni ejwayelekile, khona-ke akunakwenzeka kumafulethi anamuhla. Ukungasho ukuthi ushintsho lwegama - aluqondakali nje.

Noma lapha - emadolobhaneni amancane abazingeli - abaqoqi noma abalimi wonke umuntu ayazi ukuthi lokhu kwakuwukuqalwa kwalokhu, futhi manje uhlala endlini yesilisa (noma uphume "eBabi Kut"). Edolobheni lanamuhla akunakwenzeka - ngezizathu ezisobala.

Lokhu kufaka nokucindezela komphakathi - abaqondisi abazingeli abadlulisi ukuqalwa, umfana akakwazanga. Kwakuyihlazo, lapho kwakungenakwenzeka ukugeza ngalo. Kepha vele phakathi kwabalimi, isimo sokuqalisa kwaqala ukuguquka - Manje abantu abaningi bambheka njengomunyu wezingane obungenanjongo (okwadala ukwehla okukhulu ekuqaleni).

Futhi impucuko eyengeziwe yathuthukiswa, isidingo esincane sokuqalwa kwayo.

Kuyavela, ukuqala kwezwe lanamuhla akunakwenzeka. Okokuqala, ngobuchwepheshe.

Futhi kulayini wesibili - akudingeki nje.

Yini inkinga?

Ubunzima bamadoda banamuhla abukho konke abangazange baqale. Eminyakeni engamakhulu amathathu edlule, kwakungewona wonke amadolobhana, kodwa ngandlela thile akuzange kuhlupheke. Kunjalo?

Isizathu seProsoSAIC - isithombe sendabuko sobudoda sibhidlikile (noma, uma uthanda, ubudoda).

Emhlanganweni wezezakhiwo ekilasini ngalinye kunowodwa, isithombe esichazwe ngokwengeziwe noma esingaphansi esincanyana sendoda "yangempela." Umlimi kufanele abe kanjena, umpristi uyisikhulu esinjengomkhosi - onjalo. Konke kucacile, konke kugcwele noma kuncane kakhulu, akukho ukungqubuzana okukhethekile.

Manje konke sekushintshile.

Manje sinezithombe eziningi ezahlukahlukene (uma unembile - izinkambiso zendima yabesilisa, bheka imisebenzi kaThompson nePlekka). Lezi zithombe zivame ukungqubuzana namadoda anamuhla anobunzima obukhulu lapho bezama ukuhlangana nazo zonke izinkambiso zendima yabesilisa la madoda ayaziwa.

Isibonelo, i-evamile "ithola imali eningi" ngasikhathi ingena emtholampilo ngento ejwayelekile "Yiba ngubaba omuhle" - ngemuva kwakho konke, umsebenzi uthatha isikhathi. Futhi ngosuku kunamahora angamashumi amabili nane kuphela. Udinga ukukhetha okuthile.

Ngokuvamile, amadoda adabula izingxenye futhi azama ukuthola uhlobo oluthile lwesithombe esifanele. Futhi akunakwenzeka ukuyithola - izinkambiso ezimpikiswaneni zendalo yabesilisa kakhulu manje emphakathini wethu.

Ikuphi ukusindiswa?

Eqinisweni, isithombe esifanele singumuntu ngamunye. Akunakwenzeka ukuthola uhlobo oluthile lomfanekiso ofanayo wendoda efanele. Akunakwenzeka ukusho ukuthi indoda efanele ithande ibhola, futhi othanda ama-florinch - ama-botanies aphelile. Umuntu uneminyene kakhulu kunanoma yikuphi okujwayelekile.

Ngamafuphi, "Ungaba yindoda encane futhi ucabange ngogogo wezipikili" (ngendlela, qaphela ukuthi esigabeni sokubhujiswa komphakathi wasekilasini, lapho i-pushkin isebenza, inkinga yokuphikisana kwezindlela ze Indima yabesilisa yayivele iqondiswe ekukhuleni okugcwele).

Ngaphezu kwalokho. Isikhathi eside, phakathi kososayensi, amagama afana nelithi "izimfanelo zowesilisa" kanye "nezimfanelo zabesifazane" azidli. Manje kuyisiko ukukhuluma ngamakhono wensimbi kanye namakhono wokuzwakala.

Ngaphansi kwamakhono wensimbi amakhono ahambisana nokuxazulula izinkinga (ngomqondo obanzi). Futhi ngaphansi kwamakhono okubonisana - ukukhathalela abantu (futhi - ngomqondo obanzi).

Ngokusobala, owesilisa unengqondo ukuba nawo womabili amaqembu amakhono - umane athuthukise ikhwalithi yempilo yakhe, akwenze kusebenze kakhulu. Kepha uhlobo lwemivubelo yala makhono lungakhethwa ngokuzimela ngokuphelele.

Lapho, lapho umuntu ezodinga ukuhlala khona futhi udinga ukucabanga ngenkinga, okwesibili kuzoba lula kakhulu ukuthatha isheke futhi ugijime empini, ukuhlwanyela ikhanda. Akekho noyedwa noma omunye uba abantu abaningi noma abancane. Into esemqoka - baxazulula inkinga.

Ngokufanayo, ngokuzwakalayo. Indoda eyodwa mayilalelisise ngetiye, futhi owesibili waphonsa ikhanda nezinhlamvu zemali: "Ngiyakholelwa ukuthi ungakwazi ukubhekana nakho." Akukho okunye akuveli ekuziphatheni kwabo kwabesilisa noma ngaphansi kwabesilisa. Into esemqoka - bakhombisa ukunakekelwa.

Futhi uma bengayixazululi inkinga futhi abanendaba nabanye abantu, khona-ke sinenkinga yokuzithatha, hhayi izinkambiso zendima yabesilisa. Ngamanye amagama, ezimweni ezinjalo inkinga akuyona ukuthi umuntu akwanele. Inkinga ukuthi akayona eyanele ngokwanele.

Beka kafushane

Akukho ukuqalwa kwabesilisa ezweni lanamuhla, futhi akunakuba khona. Le nsizwa iba ngumuntu hhayi ngale nqubo, kodwa ngenxa yokuthuthuka okuqhubekayo kwemisebenzi yabantu abadala nabantu abadala abahlotshaniswa nabo. Isithombe sikaMascukwinity manje sesiphenduke umuntu ngamunye, futhi lawo madoda aqonda kahle lokhu aphile kahle ngaphandle kwezinkinga ezithile. Uma umuntu ezama ukuxhumanisa izinkambiso eziphikisanayo zendima yabesilisa, ngokungenakugwemeka zingena engxabanweni edlalwa ematsheni, egcwele imiphumela ehlukahlukene engathandeki (kufika ekuhlaselweni kwenhliziyo). Yakha isithombe sakho sobudoda - Into esemqoka ukuthi kwenza impilo yakho ibe ngcono, hhayi kubi kakhulu. Le ukuphela kwenqubomgomo ebaluleke kakhulu endabuko.

Futhi nginakho konke, ngiyabonga ngokunaka kwakho.

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