Ngonyaka ngamunye, indoda kufanele ithathe izixazululo eziningi ngokwengeziwe zodwa. Lezi zinqumo zabakhathalela abangane, umsebenzi, othandekayo ... nokuthi ungenza kanjani kuleli cala lapho ungazi ukuthi ungenza kanjani ngandlela thile? Noma uma uhlala umuntu onjalo empilweni?
Umbuzo wokungaqiniseki kaningi uvela ebudlelwaneni bezocansi. Intsha eningi isukuma ngaphambi kokukhetha: "Obani ukwakha ubuhlobo?", "Uzama ukusungula ubudlelwane obunobungane nobunobungane kuphela?", "Ungayenqaba kanjani ukucasula?" njll. Abaningi abahlanjululwe kulokhu baphendule izimpilo zabo empini eqinile. Ungenza kanjani ezimweni ezinjalo? Ungakunqoba kanjani okuhlangenwe nakho kwangaphakathi nokungaqiniseki, futhi wenze ukukhetha okulungile?
Okokuqala, kufanelekile ukuhlela ukubhekwa okuqondile. Bukela imizwa yakho, izifiso, imizwa ebudlelwaneni nabantu abasondelene nawe. Zizame ngezindima ezihlukile. Hlaziya ngokucacile, okuqondakalayo, ukuboniswa okwanele kokuphendula ekuziphatheni kwakho.
Abantu bavame ukuhlelwa ngendlela yokuthi ngoshintsho oluncane kakhulu ezintweni zangaphandle, wonke umuntu uvuselela isikhundla sawo emphakathini. Kuyaqabukela, ubani othathwe ukukhomba izici eziyisisekelo zokuziphatha kwabo ngokuhlangana neqembu lonke lembuthano esondelene nabantu. Nayi i-egoism yomuntu. Kepha, ngokuphoqa ukuze abheke umhlaba kusuka ngaphandle, kuvame kakhulu ukwenza izinqumo ngaphakathi kwalomhlaba. Kulesi simo, ungumqapheli ozimele, osindisiwe emizweni, emizweni, ubandlululo.
Yiziphi iziphetho ezingenziwa ngenkathi endimeni yePaparazzi yakho yangasese? Ukubuka ngentengo ebanzi yobudlelwano phakathi kwabantu, ungahle ukwazi ukuzihlola ngemizwa yothando, inzondo, ububi, ukuhaha, uthando, imikhuba emibi, njll. Mhlawumbe umuzwa wenjabulo obhekene nayo, hhayi umuntu oyedwa obuseduze obuhlotshaniswa nabo. Mhlawumbe umngane ohlale esekela, uzinikele kuwe isikhathi sakhe esiningi, ukhokha ukunaka kwawo ngobuqotho futhi kunedayimane elifanayo, ukucaciswa kwalo kwenza iphutha emizweni yabanye abantu empilweni yakho.
Imvamisa, osemusha kwakhiwa umbono onganele wezinto zangempela, njengobungani phakathi kwendoda nowesifazane, ubudlelwano bemali, ubudlelwano bezocansi. Kulelo nalelo nalelo nalelo lalinjalo, kulula. Kunjalo njalo ukuthi umngane ohlale eduzane naye uyakuthanda futhi akunikeze wena uqobo, futhi lowo omthandayo - unikeza ubulili nemali kuphela ... Ngifuna ithuluzi elibulalayo kakhulu kwezocansi ubudlelwano. Ufaka umbhangqwana osemusha echibini lothando olungabonakali futhi wenza ukuba nothando futhi unesifiso esingenakuqhathaniswa. Ngasikhathi sinye, uhlangothi lokuziphatha lobuhlobo luhlala luphumeleli, futhi kaningi luthathelwa indawo ngokuzithoba kwabaphathi besithathu.
Ukuze ungaphuthelwa umzuzwana owenza ukuba uzikhohlise - ulalelisisa imizwa, nobabili nomlingani wakho osondelene naye. Imizwa nemizwa yomuntu ayikhohlisi. Namazwi nokubalwa - kungaba. Ukuqashelwa othandweni kuyinkulungwane ingxenye eyodwa kwezinkulungwane zokubonakaliswa kwemizwa. Uthando lufanele umuzwa ngobukhulu bawo bonke. Uthando ngeke lukubeke esimweni esingesihle. Ngeke akwazi ukukhokhisa iminyaka yokuhlala ndawonye. Uthando ngeke lukwenze ukhethe. Uyikhethile. Ukuqagelwa kwakhe kusemlingani wakho, emikhubeni yayo, imikhuba, umlingiswa. Uthando ngeke luvumele omunye umuntu enhliziyweni yakho, ngoba yinhliziyo yakho.
Umngani, umuntu ojwayelekile, umlingani webhizinisi - wonke umuntu kufanele abe sezikhundleni zezindima zabo empilweni yakho, futhi akekho omunye, ngaphandle kwakho, ngeke esasenza ukusetha kabusha izibalo zazo ebhodini lakho le-chessboard. Uyinkosi, ungumqapheli wakho ozimele, futhi akukho ukungaqiniseki empilweni yakho, ngoba kukhona uthando kuyo!