Kusukela ebuntwaneni, sijwayele ama-stereotypes athile abuyayo. Kepha izikhathi ziyashintsha, abantu bayashintsha, futhi ama-stereotypes athile asele futhi ahlasele impilo yethu, alethe ukungakhululeki kwangaphakathi futhi alethe izinguquko zawo ebudlelwaneni phakathi kwabantu.
1. "Ukwahlukaniswa" kwabesilisa "kanye" nabesifazane "
Indoda kufanele ihambisane nezinqubo ezenziwa umuntu kuphela. Owesifazane kufanele ahambisane nezinqubo ezingenzeka kowesifazane kuphela. Indoda ingumzingeli, umlingani, kanzima, ongabekezeleli. Owesifazane ungumama, umgcini wezwe elenziwe ekhaya, elibekezelayo, thanda. Akunakwenzeka ukuthwala lolu stereotype.
Uma owesifazane ehola ngaphezulu (kuvela ukuze athole imali) kunendoda, ngakho-ke, ngokwezifanekiso zikahulumeni, lokhu akuseyena umndeni. Njengasefilimu ethi "I-Moscow ayikholelwa izinyembezi." Kungahle kube nokufuna umndeni kanye noKosos onjalo, futhi kubi, indoda ibiza. Yize emndenini onjalo, wonke umuntu wenza lokho aphume kangcono.
Kumuntu ngamunye, kufakwa iqoqo lezimfanelo ezithile, okubhekwa njengelithi "owesilisa" noma "owesifazana", umuntu akufanele avale izinhlangothi zakhe ezinhle, noma ngabe azihambelani nethempulethi elisungulwe yiNhlangano.
2. "Kunoma yikuphi ukungqubuzana kwesokudla, kanti okunye akulungile"
Ngani kuphikisana nanoma iyiphi ingxabano sifuna abanecala neqiniso lokuthi isenzo sakhe (ukwahlulela) asihambelani nombono wethu, sizama ukujezisa futhi sifakazele into yakho? Akukho okulungile nokungalungile. Kunabantu abanemibono ehlukene, izahlulelo, iqoqo lolwazi, izinkolo, njll. Akunakwenzeka ukuthola ukuthi iqiniso likuphi. Futhi hhayi ukuthi kungani. Kuyadingeka ukuqonda lokhu nokwamukela, khona-ke abantu kulula ukuxhumana nabanye.3. "Ukugxekwa kanye nokugxekwa kufanele kwenze umuntu abe ngcono"
Ngasizathu simbe, abantu bayazethemba emphakathini wethu emphakathini wethu, uma ikhala lomuntu futhi emaphutheni akhe, nakanjani lizolungiswa futhi libe ngcono. Kuphela akunjalo. Ungacindezela umuntu kuphela ngokugxeka kwakho nokulahlwa kwakho. Yebo, futhi kungenzeka ukuthi awuphelele. Wonke umuntu angaziphatha ngendlela aziphatha futhi ebheka kudingekile.
4. "Kufanele silalele abadala, ngoba bahlakaniphile futhi bahlakaniphile"
Kwenzeka izindaba ezihlekisayo lapho umama noma umama -zala zinikeza izeluleko zokunakekela nokukhulisa ingane. Kuyiqiniso, abantu bomdabu abacebisi kabi, kepha kwenzeka ukuthi ulwazi namakhono abo kuphelelwe isikhathi kancane futhi ngekhulu lama-21 asasebenzi. Kepha bayaqhubeka nokweluleka ngokuqhubekayo. Futhi awunakulalela, ngoba bazi kangcono.
Bazali nabantu badala kakhulu kunalokho okufanele nihloniphe futhi konke lokho, kepha awuphoqelekile ukulalela umbono wabo uma uhlakazeka ngombono wakho. Usuvele ukhule futhi ube nelungelo lokuphakamisa izingane zakho, ukugqoka, ukuhlanza ifulethi, ukugeza izitsha, njengoba ubheka njengokudingekayo. Bese ukhomba.
5. "I-Society isishayela ohlakeni!"
Imvamisa sicabanga ukuthi: "Yini ezotshela umsebenzi uma ngiyibeka kule ngubo?", "Uyocabanga ukuthi yini uma ngiveza umbono wami?". Sikhathazekile, okokuqala, ukuthi bazothini futhi bacabange uma singenasici somfanekiso womyeni ophelele, umkami, indodakazi, mama. Dwebela noma yini efanele. Kodwa kungani abantu befaka lo "zinhlalo" ngaphezulu?
Umphakathi uyisixuku nje sabantu abanombono wabo uqobo, nokuthi yikuphi, ngezinga elikhulu noma elincane, limphoqe.
Lahla ama-stereotypes afanele eminyakeni eminingi edlule, kepha manje awenzi mqondo. Lapho-ke uzothola ukuvumelana kwangaphakathi nenjabulo ebudlelwaneni nabanye!