Umculi we-makeup kanye nomthwebuli wezithombe uNatalia Galtskaya ukhathele ukulalela abantu, ikakhulukazi abesifazane, njengokuchaza ukubukeka kwabo nomzimba wabo. Ufuna ukukhumbula ukuthi akuyona ubuhle akuyona ububi nhlobo!
Ngenxa yokucaciswa komsebenzi, ngihlala ngisebenzelana nabantu babantu - bobabili baphila nangohlaka. Futhi abantu bangikhulumisa ngami, ngokubukeka kwabo. Futhi bazichaze ngandlela thile, futhi ngaso sonke isikhathi lapho indlela enye indlela yokukhuluma kuphela, iqiniso elithile lakha yedwa. Noma bexoxa ngento efanayo - uma ungabukeki, kodwa ukulalela kuphela, kunemidwebo ehlukene ngokuphelele.
Umbala wezinwele ofanayo ungaba "igundane", futhi mhlawumbe "umlotha".
Izici ezinkulu, eziqinile zowesifazane kowesifazane (ikhala elikhulu, amakhona amakhulu, amakhona aphonsayo emhlathini) onesakhiwo esifanayo ekufundeni okukodwa kube yi- "androgic" (amadoda "( Cishe ngokunyanya), emhlathini wesithathu kulungile, kepha ikhala alisikhala, kodwa i-schnob. Futhi umuntu akavezi lesi sici esithile nganoma iyiphi indlela ngokwehlukana, izinto ezahlukene ngokuphelele ekuhlolweni kwezimpawu zobudala, noma ukulimala ngaphansi kwamehlo, noma isisindo.
Abesifazane ababili bamayelana nobukhulu bami, okungukuthi, endaweni ethile engama-60 kg ngo-170 cm, singagqoka izingubo zomunye nomunye. Kepha eyodwa "Yebo, onamafutha, kepha uma ungagcizeleli lapho kudutshulwa ...", kanti omunye wasindise nje futhi weza nokuqhosha ngokuziqhenya ngokubhekisisa ukuvumelana okutholakele. Uma noma ubani angibuza, ngakho-ke iso lami konke ukwengezwa okuphakathi kwalo, ama-plus-minus anje phakathi kontanga yethu akunjalo.
Ubuso obuyindilinga bungaba ubuso obuyindilinga nje, kungenzeka bungashiwo ngako konke, kepha bungahlukaniswa nge "Chick Cheeks".
Futhi isikhathi eside singaba yinde nje, singahunyushwa njengesiNgisi futhi "cishe isiNgisi", futhi mhlawumbe kukhona "ihhashi elilodwa".
Futhi lokhu ngikhuluma ngezimo ezifanayo zangaphandle, lapho izincazelo ziqine kakhulu.
Into ehlukile - iminyaka. Abaningi bayaqiniseka ukuthi babukeka bemncane kakhulu kuneminyaka yabo, kodwa hhayi ngoba babukeka bencane kakhulu kunabadala, kodwa ngoba isizukulwane sabazali bethu sabuka kudala. Kepha imvamisa imibimbi yokuqala ichazwa njengenhlekelele, kubandakanya nalokhu, kusukela ekude kokuxhumana okunenhlonipho, ngeke kuqaphele ngokungazelele.
Kepha kuwe, kunjalo, qaphela. Ngokuvamile, into enjalo: Abantu bazibheka bebangasesesondele kakhulu, amasentimitha ambalwa, esithombeni esincane, ukuhlwitha amazinyo angalingani, amaphutha wesikhumba, imikhumbi eyengeziwe, ebangela noma yini enye Konke kuhlanganisa le mibimbi, izibazi kanye nezinduna esilevini, kuyini ngempela lokhu okulandelayo. Futhi labo, okokuqala, bona lonke isithombe, ngamandla ashukumisayo, bahambisana nezinkulumo zobuso, ukushukuma komzimba, ukuma kanye nezinye izinto, kanti okwesibili, babheka kude lelo nto, uma kuphela Asivakasheli udokotela wamazinyo.
Futhi, ukubuyela esigamani: Isicupho esithile solimi lwesiRussia ukuthi "amabi" akusho-ke ngokoqobo "okungekuhle", okungukuthi, akukuzungezwe uzungeze uhlaka oluncane lwamazinga obuhle obuhle. ISynaniso se- "Ugly" ngeke ibe "ejwayelekile", kepha "imbi", "ethusa". Iqashelwe, ngokungangabazeki kahle nobuhle (uma ubheka ukubona okwamukelwa ngokuvamile lapha, futhi manje amazinga, hhayi ngomuntu othanda umuntu "wonke umuntu muhle") ngakho-ke ubuhle bungabhekwa njengento ehlukile Ivelu kanye nebhonasi ehlukile, lokhu kubonakala kufana nemvelo. Kepha kaningi, abantu, bangazitholi imicabango yobuhle, beshaya umcabango wobuhle, baphume kulokhu kuphuthuma ngokwencazelo ye- "BONKE imbi", kube sengathi kunezigxobo ezimbili kuphela, zero kanye nesigaba, hhayi Bonke laba bantu abaningi ngokubukeka okujwayelekile okutholwa njengokujwayelekile - yize kuyinto enhle. Sonke sisengxenyeni enkulu, ungabheka okubi kakhulu noma okungcono, kepha umuntu obona umuntu wesithathu kuzoba khona nje "konke okulungile", hhayi ukwethuka.
Kepha lobu bumnandi buhle / bubukeka bumnandi ukuze abaningi abakulungele ukuvumelana nganoma yini, ngaphandle kobuhle obuhlukile, futhi ngaphandle kokuzithola buhle, baqoshwa ngokushesha, badlula phambili ekukhangelweni kwezikhalazo. Icala elikhethekile lale ndlela luhlobo lwe-autotreating lapho umuntu ephikisana nokuvezwa kokubonakaliswa esibukweni esibukweni esisesimweni sesithethekile ukuze azikholise yena ukuthi cha, usemuhle kakhulu. Futhi okunye imininingwane kuzojwayela kuye imizwa nasemzimbeni kusukela emibonweni yakhe mayelana nento efanelekile, imizamo eminingi idinga ukulungiswa kokholo ebuhleni babo obuhle - nobudlelwano obunzima nesithombe, ngoba umuntu onjalo, ngoba Umthetho, hlela kuphela izithombe ezise-angle ethile eqondile noma ngokucwengwa okuqinile, lapho kungahle kubukeke khona, kepha ngokusebenza okuthile okufanele.
Futhi kwesinye isikhathi ngifuna ukusho okuthile okufana nokuthile: yebo konke kulungile, konke kuhamba kahle, konke kuhamba kahle: Uma uphuma - ama-asymmetric ama-asyms, ama-asymmetric amashiya, izinhlobo ezahlukene zesikhumba, izibalo ezahlukahlukene , amadoda amaningi aneminyaka yobudala eyimpandla, nabesifazane, ngokwesilinganiso, imilenze imfushane kunaleyo yamadoda, futhi konke lokhu kuyinto evamile, akekho obheka emuva futhi angabheki, abuke! ", Lokhu akwethusa futhi akunengeki ukubona lokhu, futhi lokhu akukhona ukuthi kuyesabeka ukuba nakho. Kunoma yikuphi ukucaciswa kukhona okucacisiwe, amanye ama-chips athokozisayo, angaba mnandi ukubheka futhi okungagxila kuwo, futhi nakho konke lokhu ungabukeka kahle. Noma muhle. Noma kupholile. Noma ekhangayo. Noma vele ubheke ngokujwayelekile. Futhi lolu mbala wezinwele lubizwa ngokuthi "blonde" umane nje "blonde", kuyilapho "izinwele zegundane" yilezo ezikhula ngqo kwigundane.
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