Yini abesifazane abayifunayo ... noma ngabe bafuna babuze ngakho, noma bafuna ukunikeza isikhathi esithe xaxa sokwakha ubudlelwano. Lapho bavela khona abahamba phambili bemood, ukuthi bathukuthele namuhla ... yonke le mibuzo "ingabika" ubuchopho bomuntu. Futhi lokhu akuyona imfihlo.
Kepha abamele ubulili obuthakathaka ngokuqinisekile bazomangaza ukuthi amadoda angaba yimfihlo futhi "angaqondakali." Engqondweni yabesilisa kunezimfihlo eziningi ezingathanda ukwembula noma yimuphi umuntu wesifazane, ngoba azi lezi zimfihlo, uzokwazi ukuqonda kangcono umuntu wakhe. Ngakho-ke, ngenkathi umuntu ezama ukuthola isizathu sokushintsha okubukhali esimweni sowesifazane wakhe, kufanele abe nokufunda okuncane ngobuntu bakhe ukuze kube nokuhambisana kwakhe kangcono. Sinikeza uhlu lwezimfihlo ukuthi wonke umuntu wesifazane azaziyo ngamadoda.1. Uthanda ukwanga
Akasoze asho lokhu, futhi mhlawumbe uyakuthanda "ukuvalelisa" hhayi njengengxenye yakhe, kepha amadoda athande ngempela ukwanga. Kungaba nzima ngaye ukuvuma ngoba emphakathini imvamisa umbono wokuthi ukwangana kuyinto "yabesifazane" eyengeziwe. Noma kunjalo, iqiniso ukuthi izingalo zinikeza "ukuxhumana" kwamadoda nomlingani wabo eqinisweni ngaphandle kwezinhloso zokuxoxa.
2. Akafuni ukuba namandla ngaso sonke isikhathi
Amadoda athi "aqine" futhi ayayithanda. Ukuvakashela ejimini kanye nemibukiso yezemidlalo kubanikeza ukufunwa okudingekayo kwe-adrenaline, okwenza ukuzizwa kuqinile. Yize bathanda ukuthatha umthwalo wemfanelo wokuphepha nenhlala-kahle yowesifazane wazo, indawo eqinile nayo idinga ukwesekwa okuncane okuvela kuye. Naphezu kweqiniso lokuthi amadoda athi "aqine" ebudlelwaneni, kwesinye isikhathi kungaba nezikhathi lapho zifisa ukusekelwa ngokomzwelo. Ngakho-ke, wonke umuntu wesifazane osebudlelwaneni kufanele anake izidingo ezingokomzwelo zendoda yakhe.
3. Uthanda owesifazane wakhe izinto eziningi angasoli ngaye
Le yimfihlo enkulu abantu abayaziyo ngabantu. Ukusuka ekutheni ugcwalisa kanjani izinwele zakhe ngaphambi kokuba ancike esandleni sakhe lapho egudluza umgwaqo ... Kukhona "izinto ezincane" eziningi ezingezinhle "azihlanyise ngokoqobo ngalona wesifazane," futhi akazange asole ngakho. Amadoda akhuthaza abesifazane nokuthi benzani, kanye nokuthamba kwabo nokuqonda kwabo.4. Uthanda "amantombazane" ama-TV akhombisa namafilimu abukeka. Ngesinye isikhathi
Mhlawumbe wayehlala egibela umbono wokubuka "uchungechunge lwezinyembezi" ngeSonto elinamanye, kodwa kwesinye isikhathi angathanda izici eziboniswe kumafilimu othando anjalo. Akaze aqaphele lokhu, kepha ngasese angalilahla izinyembezi, abukele izindlebe ezithandana nezinhlamvu.
5. Usaba futhi "lezi"
Yize indoda ayidingi ukubekezelela ukubekezelela ama-spasms okuya esikhathini, ikhanda kanye nokushintshwa kwemizwa okuhambisana ne-Prebold Syndrome, ngokuqinisekile kuzoba nokuthile okufanele ukwesaba. Lokhu kusobala ngoba kufanele futhi aphile izinto eziningi ezimbi 'kulezi zinsuku' zabesifazane bakhe. Lokhu kufaka phakathi ukubandakanyeka ezingxabanweni, angeke aze anqobe, ukumangalela kukho konke okungadingekile, ukuthenga amakhilogremu amakhilogremu noma kuzo zonke izinhlamba nezinye izinyembezi nezinyembezi.6. Uthanda nezincomo
Njengoba abesilisa bethanda ukuhlala "ngaphakathi kwegobolondo", ngemuva kwegobolondo elingangeneki, abesifazane bahlala benomuzwa wokuthi amadoda awathandi lapho enza izincomo ngokubukeka kwazo. Kepha iqiniso liphambene ngokuphelele nalokhu. Amadoda athanda ukuncoma kanye nabesifazane. Uma owesifazane emtshela ukuthi ubukeka muhle, 'uzokwenza ngosuku' futhi avuse ukuzethemba kwakhe ezindaweni eziphakeme.
7. Uzama ukukujabulisa
Uma enye intombazane icabanga ukuthi izipho ezithandekayo, izimbali ezinhle noma ushokoledi omuhle yikho konke umuntu angenza umbono ngowesifazane, kuye, ngokuqinisekile, kuzoba yisambulo sokuthola lokhu okulandelayo: cishe konke akwenzayo Kuyahlabeka umxhwele. Kungabonakala sengathi iziphatha ngokwemvelo, kepha ekujuleni komphefumlo kukhona ithuba lokuthi iziphatha ngendlela ethile, kuphela ukuheha ukunakwa kowesifazane futhi kuvunyelwa ukuvunyelwa.