Owayengumenzeli we-ejenti Fbi Jack Schafer wabhala le ncwadi ethi "Faka phakathi I-Charm ngokwendlela yezinsizakalo ezikhethekile." Ngemuva kwakho konke, kwenqatshelwe (okungukuthi, ubuhle!) Konke okuzungezile kuyinto ebalulekile. Kwabo bonke. Ngakho-ke, lalelani futhi khumbula.
I-SHAFER ngokumane isho ngokunengqondo isho ukuthi ungayithola kanjani cishe noma ngubani wobungani, uthando, isaphulelo esiqinile noma ukuzuzisa i-Motherland. Ezinye izindlela ezifanayo zisiza i-FBROVTSU ekuxhumaneni nabathengisi kanye nezinhloli zaseRussia. Asiboni izizathu zokuthi kungani ngeke sibe mata hari, futhi ngaphandle kokunyakaza okungadingekile kwesisu.Amanga Eqiniso
Isimo esibalulekile! Konke ukukhohlisa okunconywe yi-Schafer kwenziwa esifiso esiqotho ukwenza abangane, ukusolwa. Uzwela lwalo lokungaziwa ngenkathi indoda inesigamu. Uma ungenayo, akufanelekile ukuqala. Okokuqala, akukuhle ukukhohlisa, okwesibili, kuseningiza ngokushesha ukuwela ku-mission.
Angilume
Okokuqala udinga ukukhombisa umuntu ophephile. Amadolobhana amaningi kusukela ebuntwaneni afunda ukuhamba nomuntu okhethekile futhi athi "mubi". Amahlombe akhulisiwe, amashiya akhubazekile, izindebe eziphisheke, i-gaity yebhizinisi. Ukubukeka okunjalo kufakazela ukulungela ukulwa nokuxolelwa okunobungane akukufanele. Ngakho-ke, okokuqala, siqondile, siphumule ubuso bakho. Okwesibili, asikhokhi isikhala somuntu siqu. Ake sithi ungahle uguqule ukuze nsuku zonke zigibele ilifti kanye nomlingani omuhle, kodwa ekuqaleni kufanele njalo zime ekhoneni kude nalo.Izimpawu ezinhle
Kukhona ama-microngeries anikeza abantu ukuthi bazi ukuthi unomusa. Lokhu kuphakamisa ngokushesha amashiya, ukudweba isilevu, ukumamatheka okuqotho, iso elifushane esweni, ukwehla kwekhanda kohlangothi, kushukumise izinwele (ngasikhathi sinye ngeso leso). Ngokunemba, kungcono, kunjalo, bheka umfanekiso encwadini. Kepha, ngokuvamile, kuyacaca. Ungena egumbini elilodwa ne- "Object": I-Echebrow ye-Derg, icici lenkanyezi kanye nekhanda lohlangothi, njenge-labrador ehlakaniphile. Ungazijwayeza phambi kwesibuko.
I-barfarious efuna ukwazi
Uma umuntu ongaziwa, esivele ngaso sonke isikhathi emehlweni akhe, siphephile, kepha kuhlala kungaziwa, kuba yimfihlakalo. Umuzwa wemvelo welukuluku ungafuduka, futhi wenza okuthile okuthokozisayo. Ukubuka ku-smartphone akusebenzi kumakilasi alinga. Kepha, ngokwesibonelo, uma uthola incwadi enkulu yokubhalela bese uqala ukudweba, noma uzosonta i-Rubik Cube ezandleni zakho, kungenzeka ukuthi akunikeze amandla imibuzo nezeluleko.Uthando kimi
Ungaqala ingxoxo kuqala. Into ebaluleke kunazo zonke engxoxweni ukuthi ngokushesha ukudlulise ukugxila kwakhe ku-interlocutor. Udinga ukunikeza ithuba kumuntu okufanele ukhulume ngawe, udumise noma uzisole. Isibonelo, kusihlwa, cishe noma ngubani angasho ukuthi "mhlawumbe usuvele ukhathele." Awukhathele? Ngokuphelele! "Kumele sibe nzima kakhulu ukusebenza kakhulu." Manje usezimisile. Futhi esikhundleni sesitsha esibi, ungaphilisa indumiso yomunye umuntu. ("Ngizwe ukuthi umqondisi ekuncomela kanjani")). Enye indlela yokunikeza umuntu ukuyithola - ukwenza iphutha futhi uyivumele ukukulungisa: "Ngakho-ke une-mark-up, ngicabanga ukuthi, wonke ama-200%! - Cha, ngu-150% kuphela "- op, futhi ufunde imininingwane eyimfihlo futhi weqa ukuqhosha komuntu.
Okuningi okufanayo
Ukuthola okuthile okufana nomuntu, kwanele ukunaka izingubo. Kuma-T-Shirt Heroes wekhathuni - wow, nami ngiyathanda "i-futurama"! Uma unokukhanya okuvamile, khona-ke isipiliyoni esihlanganyelwe singadalwa. Into esemqoka ukuthi akuyisidina. Abantu bahlanganisa injabulo yonke nosizi olujwayelekile. Ngakho-ke ungaphunyuka kanye nomsebenzi uhhafu wehora kusenesikhathi futhi usonge ngaphezulu u-ayisikhilimu. Noma uye ku-movie ethusayo bese uyicindezela ngelungelo eligcwele ngesikhathi sezikhathi ezesabekayo kakhulu. Zonke izinhlobo zikhona izindiza ku-paraglider nazo ziyinto enhle.
Isimiso Sokubuyisana
Abantu, baze bathi bazwile kakhulu kangangokuba akekho umuntu okufanele abe nakho kunoma ngubani, ngaso sonke isikhathi afune ukulinganisa amaphuzu. Kuyathakazelisa ukuthi kuwusizo nokwenza umuntu abe ngcono, futhi acele usizo uqobo. Kunoma ikuphi, izicelo ezincane nezifanele nokusekelwa kuqinisa ukuxhumana. Ungelula owesilisa etafuleni elingumakhelwane noma weqe kuqala emshinini oneziphuzo. Futhi ku- "Ngiyabonga" Ungaphenduli "Awusiceli", kodwa "Hawu, ubungeke yini ungisize?". Op, okubi kakhulu Noma umcele ukuthi athumele ijakhethi yakho imizuzu embalwa, ubambe isikhwama sama-chips kuwe esitolo - manje ucabanga ukuthi uyimali futhi, ngokungakhathalekile, itholakala ukuqinisa ubuhlobo. Ngemuva kwakho konke, abakweletayo, ngokungafani nababolekisi, ungakhohlwa.Zembula izindlebe
Bambalwa abantu abangalalela ngokucophelela. Siphazanyiswa njalo, bese kuthi umsindo womlayezo wombhalo, bese ngezwi lakho langaphakathi. Uma uzama okungenani okungenani izingxenye ezimbili kwezintathu zesikhathi sokulalela ngokweqiniso izindaba zakhe, khona-ke uzokhombisa umuntu omnandi kakhulu nozwela. Qinisekisa ukunaka kwakho, ngokuhamba kwesikhathi uthi "Yep" no- "Yeah", ebuza imibuzo ecacisa, njenge "ngakho-ke uthi, Sika uqonde ku-traffic traffic ?!" Gobela ku-interlocutor, susa izinto ezisetafuleni ongabelana ngazo, ungathinta kahle izandla zakhe ngokucophelela. Kepha izindebe ezingaphansi zamehlo agijimayo futhi izandla eziwela zizomnika ukuqonda ukuthi akakujabulisi ngokuphelele kuwe. Ngendlela, mhlawumbe, usuvele uqaphele ukuthi wonke amathiphu afakwe kuhlu angasetshenziswa ukuze athukulule futhi asabise abantu. Kuyadingeka kuphela ukwenza okuphambene.
Umthamo UFrankness
Abantu basambulwa lula uma uthatha igxathu elibheke futhi ubonise uFrank uqobo. Kepha noma ngabe uphansi kangakanani ngaphakathi, "uyingxenye yami!", I-FBI isikisela: Akudingekile ukuthela yonke i-biography yami ngasikhathi sinye. Ikakhulukazi kuma-introverts. By the way, izeluleko ezithokozisayo ezivela eshawini, ukuthi ungahlukanisa kanjani i-introvert kusuka kwextrovert. Kuqala ukukhuluma ngaphandle kokuletha umusho kuze kube sekupheleni. Extravert, kungenzeka ukuthi ikuqedele, futhi i-introvert izothula. Ngakho-ke, ngomsebenzi we-introverts. Badinga isikhala somuntu siqu futhi baqiniseke ngokuphepha kwakho isikhathi eside, bese besekela futhi, njengazo zonke ezinye izakhamizi. By the way, incwadi isho ngendlela yokugcina uzwela onqobile, nokuthi ungazivikela kanjani lapho uhlangana nenethiwekhi yokuxhumana nabantu, lapho amaqhinga okuthinta ukushukuma komzimba, lapho kungabi khona ukuthinta komzimba nokubukwa. Ngokuvamile, into ewusizo, lokho kufanele ufunde ukulawula ukunyakaza kwamashiya akho :)