Uyatshelwa: Kwanele ukukhala, zithathe ngesandla, ndodakazi yakwaSamurai, ubambe ubuso hhayi. Futhi awulaleli. Ngoba ukukhala, ukukhononda kanye ne-bang empeleni kuwusizo kakhulu.
UNatya ususa ukungezwani
Kuyisicucu bobabili, ngoba umoya othile obuthakathaka uwela ukuncika kokukhala futhi ukhononde nganoma yisiphi isizathu sokungafuni ubunzima. Uyazi, ngisho nobomvu emithanjeni elinganiselayo uqinisa impilo, futhi kusabisa okungenamkhawulo amahloni, i-Hangover kanye nezingcingo zangaphambili.
Asikho lapha ngokuziphatha, kepha nge-Psychology: Ukukhala kusiza ekuzwisweni nasekuzabalaleni izinkathazo zazo. Ukwesaba okuvezwa kwezwakala kuncane futhi kuyalawuleka ngokwengeziwe.
I-Natya isiza ukuthatha isimo ngaphansi kokulawulwa
Ikakhulu uma kungekho enye indlela yesondo lokuqondisa. Isibonelo, yini ongayenza ngomama, okuvela kusukela eminyakeni eyi-18 yakho yengxoxo ngayinye iqala ngamacebo mayelana nabazukulu? Ngomkhwe kamama, okuwukuthi, ukulunywa okudala, akunqikazi ukukuqhathanisa ne-ex-namuhla - "kahle, intombazane enhle"? Kanye nomqashi? Futhi ngemigwaqo esheshayo? Lutho, ngisho ne-akhawunti.
Kepha lokhu akuyeki inkhulumomphendvulwano yaphakade ekhanda lakho, futhi nakhu kungcono ukuveza umsindo obuhlungu ngokuzwakalayo - yize kungeyona impikiswano, futhi othile unobungane. Ngokwezengqondo, lokhu kucishe kufane nangokuthi ungakunikeza i-otloux ngokuphephile kulabo abazizwa sengathi banempi enesibindi ngamalungelo nomuntu olawulwa yikho konke.
I-Natage iqinisa ubuhlobo bomphakathi
Ake siqale ngeqiniso lokuthi akekho umuntu othanda abantu abanenhlanhla, bathukuthele. Banesithukuthezi nabo. Akunakwenzeka ukulalela amahora amaningi, yiziphi izingane zabo ezilalelayo nezinhle, abafundi abahle kakhulu, yeka ukuthi banjani umyeni omuhle, ukuthi balungiswa kanjani emakamelweni abo amathathu enkabeni yawo. Akukho lutho oluzokhuluma ngalo.
Izikhalazo zinikeza ngokushesha isizathu sokukhumbula izinkathazo zazo, sabelane ngokuhlangenwe nakho kwazo, zinikeza umkhandlu ohlakaniphile, ukuze zibe khona lapho zibangelwa futhi ekugcineni zizwe ingxenye yenkampani ebumbene yabantu abanomqondo ofanayo.
Umphakathi uthuthukisa izinqumo
Izikhalazo - okufanayo, eqinisweni, ukukhala kosizo: Ngangenzeka ngishaye, ngisule ngixoshe ngitshele ukuthi ngenzeni. Uma ukhononda ngabantu abalungile - okungukuthi, labo abaqonda izinkinga ezinjalo - ungathola impendulo futhi kufanelekile izeluleko. Futhi ukuziqhenya nokuzola ngezeluleko ngokuvamile azikhuphuki.
Ukubuka kuphakamisa ukuzethemba
Ngo-1996, isazi sezengqondo uRobin Kovalski safunda isifundo sathola ukuthi umuntu okhonondayo uyazithemba kakhulu kunalabo abazwa ukuthula okuthulile. Lapha, eqinisweni, ukuxhumana kwezwe. Ngakolunye uhlangothi, abantu bayazethemba ukuthi bayazethemba ukuthi izinkinga zabo zithakazelisa kakhulu futhi azinamahloni ukubathelela. Ngakolunye uhlangothi, lapho ukhononda, wonke umuntu uyakubuka, evula umlomo, anikine ikhanda futhi athuthumela: "Yebo, konke kubi kakhulu. Ukunakwa okunjalo kuhle kakhulu. Kwakha umuzwa wokuthi ungumuntu obalulekile, hhayi i-ogotie yomphakathi.