Ukuba ngumama, wafunda ukuthi yiluphi uthando nesisa. Futhi ngifunde ukuthi udinga ukuphazamiseka, akukho okuncane kakhulu okufanele usinde. Ngemuva kokudlula isifundo sanyanga zonke "Yazhem!" Ungavele uqhoshe okuthile. Futhi inkambo yonyaka owodwa izokwenza indoda, uPah, mama. Yebo, umama.
Ukuqwasha kwe-Insomnia? Cha, awuzwanga!
Ufunde ukulala ngaso leso sikhathi kunoma yisiphi isikhundla - ukuhlala, ukuma, ukuqamba amanga futhi lapho endla. Ukhohliwe ukuthi yini "ukungalali" "nokuthi abantu abajwayelekile abakwazi ukulala kanjani. Unenye inkinga - Ungasithola kanjani isikhathi sokulala. Ngoba okokugcina umyeni ehamba kuwe esuka egumbini lokugezela elipholile, lapho ushiye khona amanga ngokoqobo imizuzu eyi-10. Ngokuvamile, ibinzana elithi "ngingezelela imizuzu emihlanu" uhlala ujika nento efanayo - ngehora usazobe usaba khona, ngoba udinga isifuba.Manje noma ungalokothi
"Ngizokwenza ngandlela thile kamuva" ngolimi lwakho kuhunyushwa ngokuthi "akukaze." Ngoba "khona-ke" kungenzeka kungabi njalo. Ingane ingalala isikhathi eside, ilala kancane, ivuka ngokukhala noma nhlobo ukumemezela isiteleka. Ngakho-ke, uma ungazange uthathe ithuba lokuphuza iwayini ukuze ugeze i-mug ngokushesha, ngokushesha nje lapho uphuza itiye, amathuba wokuthi kusasa uzophuza itiye kulo futhi. Ngokuvamile, kungenxa yalesi sizathu ukuthi uzama ukwenza konke ngaso leso sikhathi. Bese kuthi kungazelelwe ithuba lokungangenisi.
Ulwazi olusha
Kuyavela, iminyaka emine yonyaka ihlukile komunye nomunye. Ngokuhlukile kuhluke. Ngokubambisana nokuqala kwengane empilweni yakho kuhlanganisa nokuvunyelwa nsuku zonke amahora amathathu. Uhamba ngepaki eliseduzane, uyawathanda futhi ugcine ibhulogi lemvelo elincane le-Instagram. Futhi izintombi zakho ezingenazingane ziyamangala lapho uthola khona ubuhle obunjalo. Vele ufunde ukubheka nxazonke. Ukusuka efasiteleni lehhovisi, umhlaba ozungezile ubukeka uthambile.
Kuthule!
Umusa igama lakho lesibili. Ufunde ngokuthula buthule ezungeze ifulethi futhi uhambise ifenisha. Ninja sobs kusuka kumona we-dexterity yakho. Ngoba uma kungazelelwe kwaqala phansi, imizuzu engama-40 ye-tech kanye nesigqi esichichima "i-bai bayshki-bay" izophinda futhi, futhi awukwazi ukumelana nakho!Yizwa?
Ufunde ukulala ngamehlo avulekile. Futhi ngisazwa ukunyakaza okuncane kakhulu esikhondweni futhi ngikhomba umlingiswa wabo. Ngasikhathi sinye, unganciphisa kalula futhi ulale ngokuthula ngisho nase-Rock Band Concert. Ngisho nokuma phambi kwesigameko noma ukuqabulana nesipika. Kepha ngasikhathi sinye wagxuma ngokushesha nje lapho amaCuba alele noma anciphise eCrib.
Njengasephusheni
Kwesinye isikhathi uyakhathala ukuthi awukhumbuli ukuthi ngabe ufike yini enganeni ebusuku. Okungukuthi, uyakuqonda ukuthi ngasukuma. Kepha ngasiphi isikhathi, mangaki imfihlakalo. Ngakho-ke, onakho nasekhaya lasekhaya elilungisa ukuvuka kwakho. Ngasikhathi sinye, uzomangala ngokwakho okungeke wavuka kuphela, kodwa futhi wakwazi ukondla, ukuhambisa i-diaper futhi wanyakazisa eCrib. Ah, yebo, ubulili nomyeni wakhe nabo babekhona, njengoba kuvela. Futhi wawungumqalisi.
Ngejubane lomsindo
Ngokufika kwengane, uqala ukwazisa isikhathi somuntu siqu. Ngakho-ke, manje wenza konke ngokushesha - udla ngokushesha, geza ngokushesha futhi, mayelana nesimangaliso, uzoshesha injabulo nenjabulo yomyeni wami. Yini enye? AmaCubs angavuka nganoma yisiphi isikhathi, ngakho-ke awukwazi ukulahlekelwa okwesibili. Ngaphezu kwalokho, ubonile ukuthi ngokushesha nje lapho wenza ngokushesha futhi wahlala ngesizotha ukuphuza itiye, kuzwakala sengathi ukukhala kwezingane. Umthetho wempilo.
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