Khubaza ukuguga - nikeza indlela hhayi uHami. Yeqa endlini yangasese ngaphandle kokuthi ukhulelwe, ungenzi ukuphawula kukamama ngengane engenasici. I-cafe kufanele ikwazi ukungena esihlalweni sabakhubazekile futhi ivakashele indlu yangasese. A, empeleni, kuphi?
Indoda endala nentokazi esekhulile, esitholakele esidinga inhlonipho, ingaphila impilo yazo yonke njengeyisinkwa nokukhohlisa okuncane noma okubi kakhulu. Isisu esikhulelwe asisondelanga, singakuphenduli futhi siphendule. Ngemuva kwale ngane kufanele kulandelwe futhi kungaphazamisi abantu - akazi ukuphazamisa ingane yakhe, vumela indlu ihlala, nomama noma u-nanny, njengoba uthanda. Ngenxa yabantu abakhubazekile, amabhizinisi amancane akufanele ahlupheke - hhayi osomabhizinisi bathathe impilo kulaba bantu
Izimpikiswano ezibonakala zinengqondo noma ezinengqondo noma ezinengqondo, empeleni ziphuthelwa iphuzu elibaluleke kakhulu - kubalulekile, kodwa, kunoma yimuphi umuntu okhule kahle emphakathini nangokomzwelo, okungukuthi: Inhlonipho eyisisekelo yesithunzi somuntu. Okuningi okungafanele kutholakale ngokwahlukana, ukuthi ungayithola kanjani inhlonipho ngochwepheshe noma inhlonipho ngombono wakho embuzweni okhethekile. Lokho okuzelwe kumahloni ajwayelekile, anempilo lapho kubonakala ukuthi isithunzi sabantu siwe kanjani, ikakhulukazi hhayi intando yakhe, futhi ngezenzo zabanye abantu.
Ngokwazi kwakhe, intokazi engwevu bukhoma, manje unenkinga yezempilo, evame ukuhambisana nokuguga, ikakhulukazi abadala abampofu (nokuthi abahola impesheni abaningi bayehlukile?). Akuweli emilenzeni futhi ngeke isebenze, kepha amabutho asindise njengamanje ezindaweni zokuhamba zomphakathi azomnika ithuba lokuhambisa ngokujwayelekile kuze kube kusihlwa hhayi ukuwela ezimweni zobuhlungu nobuthakathaka. Ukhulelwe futhi izingane zilahlekile ethoyilethi hhayi ngoba zinamalungelo azo akhethekile, kodwa ngoba zinzima ukukhuthazela isikhathi eside, futhi uma zingahlupheki, isithunzi sabo sobuntu sizohlupheka, isithunzi sabo somuntu siyohlupheka. Ukusuka ekuthukweni, umama ngeke aqale ukubhekana kangcono nengane, ekhathazeke kakhulu ngengcindezi yokuhamba noma ekhuphuka ngokuzumayo, esimweni esinzima, lo wesifazane usengozini futhi awunakuphendulwa ngolaka olungokomzwelo - oluvele lwenza owokugcina osuke wahlala isithunzi somuntu.
Konke okufanayo kusebenza kubantu abakwi-stroller, ngezinkinga zokubukwa (labo abaningi kakhulu ukuthi intengo ebuza, naphezu kwethegi yentengo) noma ukuzwa. Kuyadingeka ukuthatha ngokujwayelekile ukuthi bafuna impilo evame kakhulu, enekhono lokusebenzisa izinsizakalo ezinikezwe abantu, ngoba bantu. Imvamisa awukwamukeli ubungozi babo.
Kuyiqiniso, konke lokhu kusho ukuthi ogogo nabo abanalo ilungelo lokuhlanekezela nxazonke, futhi umama uyizwi lomyalo wokuqapha abanye ukuba bazisize noma bajabulele ingane. Kepha labo kanye nabanye basadingeka futhi bavame ukweqa ethoyilethi ngaphandle komugqa.
Ukuhlonipha isithunzi somuntu ukuthi futhi futhi ikakhulukazi maqondana nokungasebenzisi futhi ikakhulukazi ukungabungisi amandla okuzivikela komunye nokuba sengozini, hhayi ukuphambuka ngaphansi kwezimo zamanje, ukuthi ungahlambalazi, ungabiki imicabango ecasulayo. Futhi, ngiyaxolisa (yize empeleni angihlose ukucela intethelelo) uma ungamukeli inhlonipho ngesithunzi somuntu njenge-axiom, khona-ke intuthuko yakho yezenhlalo ayifanele. Une-lag. Ngincoma amakilasi okulungiswa anodokotela wezengqondo. Mhlawumbe asikalahlekile.
Umbhalo Umbhali: Lilith Mazikina
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