Kukhona ukuxilonga okusendlebeni - kuvame kakhulu lokhu kungenxa yokufunda okusebenzayo kwabo nokutholwa okungapheli emkhakheni wokuxilongwa kwabo nokwelashwa kwabo. Manje inzalo ekhethekile yomphakathi ingukuphazamiseka kwe-Autistic Spectrum. I-TV ikhombisa ngezinhlamvu ezinezinhlanga - ngokwesibonelo, i-Theory enkulu "noma" ibhuloho "noma" ibhuloho ", ama-biografikhi abantu abaningi abavelele abukezwa, kucatshangelwa ukuba khona kwezinhlanga eziningi.
Njengoba ubufuna ukufunda le ndatshana nhlobo, kungenzeka ukuthi ufunda ngokwengeziwe mayelana nokugqoka kwe-autistic spectrum, kulapho ucabanga khona ukuthi kukhona nezinhlanga. Noma mhlawumbe uyaqiniseka ngokuxilongwa kwakho sekuqine.
Ngoba futhi uzijwayeza "ukuvuselela" - ukunyakaza okungathandeki ngezandla, unyawo noma amehlo ukususa ukungezwani. Ngoba futhi ungowasemphakathini wezenhlalo noma we-clumsy. Ngoba futhi, noma futhi.
Kepha lapha futhi lapho babhala khona ngabantu abathi "babelalele" ukuxilongwa kwezinhlanga ukuze babonakale bethakazelisa ngokwengeziwe, ukuze bangazibandakanyi ezinkingeni zabo zokusebenza kwengqondo kanye nokuziphatha. Kungaba namahloni njengendoda enamandla okuthola abantu ngalezi zinkinga.
Izinkinga zokuzitholela ukuzitholela ama-ras
Ubunzima obukhulu ukuthi incazelo yempilo yabantu abadala abanokuphazamiseka kwe-autistic spectrum kusuka ekuhlazenisweni kwezenhlalo, okuguqulwe futhi kunxephezelwe. Lokhu kusho ukuthi izimpawu nezinkinga eziningi manje zinempilo futhi zingahlangana nezinkinga ze-neurotype (ezinempilo maqondana nama-vns) abantu abanezinkinga zobuntwana ezibangelwa isipiliyoni sobuntwana ngemuva kokulimala ngokomzimba ngemuva kokulimala ngokomzimba noma abantu abangabuphili bengqondo. Ezweni le-nonostrom.
Ukushaya? Kubandakanyeka kubantu abaphilile esimweni sokukhathazeka - ukukhipha ukungezwani okuncane. Futhi abantu abanokukhathazeka okungapheli futhi badlala ukumamatheka njalo. "Sociophobia" (Iqiniso no-FALSE), Ukuhlaselwa Kwethuka, kuvame ukuhlotshaniswa nabantu abanezinhlanga ezicindezelayo nezisusa zomzimba, ukuhlukaniswa komzimba wabo, konke lokhu kungaba yimikhuba yezinhlanga .
Le ngane yayixakile
Ukuhlonza ngempumelelo ngokweqiniso ngokwezinkinga, umuntu omdala, ohlose ukuba athole izinhlanga zakhe ebuntwaneni. Ngokwesibonelo:
- Ungaziphoqa ukuthi udle izinhlobo ezithile zokudla noma ezifayelwe ngendlela ethile yokudla, "ubenezinkinga ezinkulu ezinamakhono okuhlanzeka, kufinyelela ezingozini ezihlala njalo ezindlini zangasese esikoleni noma uphumule ngokuhamba ngamanxeba okopha ukopha - wawungakwazi Dweba iphethini engajwayelekile amahora noma unamathele kwisichazamazwi ngaphandle kwenhloso engokoqobo - ubungeke ucindezele futhi unamahloni emphakathini, kodwana ngokuqondile, kodwa awukwazanga ukumelana nokukhala okuzungezile (ngokwesibonelo, Ukuswakama okuqinile okuhlala isikhathi eside noma ukunyusa okwenziwe ngezitho zangasese) - Uyenzile iphupho elide ngami ukuthi ulithola noma uphonswe ingane, i-Elf noma njengabafokazi, - Ingane yeNdiya "noma yayivame ukubizela" I-Weird nethalente lihambisana nesikhathi esizayo ungazibonakalisa - uqale ukukhuluma sekwephuzile, okwakhelwe ukubhukuda noma ukubekezelela ukuphindaphinda Into efanayo embuthanweni, - Ubize "ingane" ethule ngokungajwayelekile "noma, ngokuhlukile, ukukhala okuncane, - usebuntwaneni, wake wakukhathaza izingubo nganoma yisiphi isikhathi esikahle, futhi lapho ngicabanga ukuya kuma-nudists, - Imidlalo yakho enezinto ezabukeka ziyinqaba: Ukugoqa izinkinobho, ama-cubes aguqukayo, - ulusebenzisa njalo ukulimala, ngokwesibonelo, ukuklwebheka kwesandla sami ebusweni, - Uke wavuka ngokungafanele noma ungakwazi ukuvuka phezulu, hhayi ukukhala, - Izincwadi bezingabangani abangcono kakhulu kunakwezinye izingane - lapho sengisebusheni - lapho usuthole ukuthukuthela futhi, kwabonakala sengathi kunesihluku futhi kwesinye isikhathi kubandakanya izihlobo eziseduzane, - ngokomzimba wakho amabhuleki angenangqondo futhi engqondo "akhuphuke kakhulu lapho kunabantu abaningi noma abanomsindo omkhulu - ubunezinkinga ngombono wamacebo, ukuthambekela okuningana kwemishwana, lapho ke Kuthiwa kwakungamahlaya, "ulandele ukufakwa okushiwo ngeshwa, ukungakunaki ukuhunyushwa okungekho emthethweni nangokungemthetho kulabo ocansini, iminyaka yobudala ngenxa yokuthi ngeke bakwazi ngisho nokubabona.
Ngaphezu kwalokho, kunengqondo ukudonsela ukunakekela kulezi zinto ezilandelayo: - Unemifino eminingi ebuntwaneni noma umama wakho ekukhulelweni ngenani eliphakeme kakhulu le-pesticides, - unezihlobo ezinamandla kakhulu zezinhlanga, - uyihlo Ngesikhathi sokukhulelwa bekungaphezu kweminyaka engama-35.
Kepha ngisho nazo zonke lezi zimo azikwazi ukukhuluma ngokungalingani ngenxa yobukhona bezinhlanga. Ukuhlukaniswa ngomzimba wayo, ngokwesibonelo, kuvame ukubonwa emantombazaneni ngenxa yezici zokuhlalisana kwabo, ezinye izinkinga eziningi zibonisa izingane ezibhekene nobudlova ... kuyiqiniso, zombili izingane ezinemijaho zivame ukuvezwa ngobudlova, ngoba E-Elimian Princess Syndrome - Kunini ingane yakhe ngenxa yezinkinga zempilo yakhe, kubonakala kubazali bethukile, bangaphandle, abangaqondakali, benqatshwa.
Ngakho-ke izinhlanga noma hhayi izinhlanga?
Uma izinkinga zakho zinjalo ngqo (noma zicishe zibe ncamashi), njengabantu abanezinhlanga, kusenokuzixazulula ngale ndlela efanayo, ukuze ubukhona noma ukungabikho kwezinhlanga ebudaleni akunabudala. Iqiniso ngukuthi uma umuntu omdala ekwazi ukungabaza ukuba khona kokuxilongwa okufanayo, khona-ke okubi kakhulu futhi kanzima sekuvele emuva - ebuntwaneni. Mhlawumbe awukwazi ukubizwa ngokuthi okujwayelekile ngokuphelele, kodwa kunalokho okujwayelekile - yebo.
Ungawuphila kanjani umuntu onezinhlanga?
Okokuqala, ukukhohlwa ukufakwa kwe- "tyzhmbolzhevochka" (kanye ne-typmog "- kwabesilisa) futhi bathathe zonke izinyathelo zokunciphisa umthwalo kanye nemizwa engokomzwelo. Ukulala lapho ukukhanya nethelevishini kucishiwe, khetha indlela yokuvuka, okuvumela ukuthi ugweme ukulayisha ngokweqile ezweni lokulahla, vala amafasitela, uma umsindo ovela emgwaqweni uphazamisa ukugxila (kahle, ukuthi "odinga lokho I-IT - izosebenza ngaphansi komsindo "), sebenzisa kuma-headphones omsebenzi.
Ungalokothi ungene ezindaweni ezinomsindo omkhulu - ezenzakalweni, esitimeleni esise-Rush Hour "- sodwa. Yebo, uma uba yi-clumsy bese uphonsa itafula ngobuciko bomuntu noma ijazi lomunye umuntu ... okungukuthi, akukuhle, kepha akukubi. Futhi uma ukulayisha ngokweqile kufinyelela kangangokuba kwaziwe ukuthi ukwazi kuzoqala ukuhamba ngomkhumbi ngokungathi sína? Lokhu kungenzeka kaningi, kepha kungenzeka ukuthi kusephakeme impela.
Qedela ngendima yomile (noma ngokweqile ngokomzwelo) bese uzama ukungafaki ukunakwa kwenkampani esikhungweni - ushesha kakhulu nabanye nabantu futhi ngeke kube lula ukuyibona. Yenqaba ukuzamisa ukubuyisela isiqephu sefilimu noma isithombe esihlekisayo se-Intanethi (ama-reirelings amafushane - iphuzu labantu ababuthakathaka kakhulu abanezinhlanga) - Lokhu kuzosiza ukugwema ukucasuka okuhloswe ngawe.
Qhubeka nokusebenza ngokuhlalisana kwawo. Khetha iphuzu elibuthakathaka ochungechungeni lobuthakathaka (ungaluthola ngosizo lwenhlolovo engaziwa phakathi kwabantu owaziwa ngawe ekhasini ekhasini lokuxhumana), funda ngalezi zinhlafo, izinzuzo, bonisana nodokotela wezengqondo nomsebenzi. Bese uye kolandelayo. Akwanele kukho konke ngaso leso sikhathi, akukho ukuzithuthukisa okuphelele futhi okuphelele.
Ukunaka kakhulu ukushiywa kokulinyazwa. Yebo, ukuhamba ngaso sonke isikhathi indlela eyodwa imnandi futhi ithobekile, kepha uma ivolula likufa, indlela iyakufanele ngezikhathi ezithile nemenyu yasekuseni futhi. Ngaphandle kwalokho, ekugugeni, lapho zonke izici zomuntu zikhulisa, uzohlushwa ama-jams wakho futhi uhlukumeze abanye, futhi ukusekelwa kwabo kungadinga kakhulu. Futhi izinguquko kwesinye isikhathi ezingagwemeki zingakubulala ngeqiniso lethu!
Naka (Buza uma udinga, abangane), uyabhekana nenhlanzeko yomuntu neyasekhaya. Thatha isenzo uma kungenjalo.
Naka izinhlobo zokushaya, ophendukela kuzo manje. Uma ubheka enye indlela ephephile yokuluma izindebe, ukuhlafuna, ulimi, izipikili neminwe, ukuhlafuna izinwele, imikhuba, kusobala, kucasula imisindo evumelana nayo ngenxa ye, ngokwesibonelo, imisindo evumelana nayo. Omunye usiza ukubhala okuqhubekayo kwencwadi ngaye uqobo njengomuntu ohlukile, ekhanda noma ephepheni, othile - ukunyakaza kwama-motors noma kuhlanganiswe esikhwameni sikabhontshisi.
Thatha ukudansa noma ukubhukuda ukunciphisa ukuhlukaniswa komzimba. Khetha amaqembu amancane wokudansa, esigqikweni sezigaba osithelisela kalula futhi ungalayishe ngokweqile imizwa ngesikhathi sesifundo.
Ukudlula komzimba - abantu abanezinhlanga bavame ukubalekela izidakamizwa eziningi, futhi bazibonakalisa ekuqiniseni izimpawu zokuphazamiseka.
I-Autism ayilashwa
Kepha ngemijaho esebenza kahle, ungaphila njengabantu abakhubazekile noma unyawo oluchithiwe bukhoma - ukuhlela impilo yabo, imizamo yabo, isikhathi sabo, ukusungula amasu anxephezelayo.
Umbhalo Umbhali: Lilith Mazikina
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