I-Flashmob # yaneborcati, lapho amantombazane akhuluma ngamacala ngamacala okudlwengulwa, enza umsindo omningi. Futhi abahlaziyi abaningi bafuna ngempela ukubuza umbuzo "bafana, yini inkinga ngawe?" U-Alexey Hedgehog wazama ukuthola lokho. Ngiyabonga, u-Alexey. Sabelana njengoba sinjalo, ngaphandle kwemali.
# Ngiyabonga uqhwa
NgoJulayi 5, 2016 engxenyeni ekhuluma isiRussia ye-Facebook (kusukela e-Ukraine) yaqala isixuku se-flash ngaphansi kwe-hashteg # yanebolessanc. Amantombazane (kufaka phakathi abangane bami nabangane) ahlukaniswe izindaba ezinolwazi zodlame kubantu. Ukudlwengulwa, umbukiso, i-fretort, udlame lomzimba ...
Lokhu akubhalwanga ngalelizinsi "ezithathiwe" lapho, hhayi izintatheli zifaka i-hype - zibhala amantombazane nabesifazane abajwayelekile. Osebenza nabo, ofunda nabo, izintombi. ULoti.
Bakhuluma ngakho kuqala komunye nomunye, nangokwesibili - nathi, abesilisa. Isihloko se-Flashmob sibuhlungu kakhulu kubabambiqhaza, futhi ngasikhathi sinye kuvela ukuthi besabisa ngamadoda, ngasizathu simbe, emakhanda abanye besifazane abanobuntu.
Amantombazane, abesifazane, siyabonga ngesibindi. Wenza imali enkulu.
Kungiphatha kabi ukufunda amazwi alabo ababhale ngokuhlangenwe nakho kwethu, futhi kube buhlungu kakhulu ukucabanga ngalabo abangakwazanga ukubabhala. Nginamahloni ngokusabela kwabesilisa abaningi. Nginamahloni hhayi ngenxa yokwengqondo kwamadoda, kodwa futhi nangengqondo yesiRussia, ukuze ukwazi ukuzwa nozwela.
Ngemuva kokufunda imibono futhi ngicabange ukuthi izingcezu ze-Kilotonna kumazwana, ngibhala lokhu kungenela ukumane kunikeze isixhumanisi kulo esikhundleni sokuqinisa izimpikiswano ezifanayo. Mhlawumbe ngenhloso efanayo umuntu weza elusizo. Ngakho-ke, kungenzeka ukuthi irekhodi lizenzeke.
Amadoda azizwa
Ngakho-ke, indoda ibona izindaba ezimbalwa zomuntu siqu ku-Ribbon mayelana nodlame olubhekiswe kwabesifazane. Ngoba yizindaba zabantu obajwayele noma abantu obajwayele, indoda ibhekene nenye yale mizwa elandelayo.Uhlu lokuphendula aluphelele, manje angikhulumi ngozwela kwalabo abahlukunyezwa ngodlame, kodwa mayelana nesimo sengqondo esibi noma esingesihle ngenkinga yohlelo oluphakanyisiwe lodlame lwabesifazane jikelele. Yilokho kanye engihlangane naye uqobo ezingxoxweni namanye amadoda.
Ukwesaba noma ukucunula Ngoba isondele kakhulu, kepha akafuni ukubheka le nkinga.
Ukwesaba noma intukuthelo Ngoba uzizwa ungumuntu ekhelini lakhe.
Ukwesaba noma intukuthelo Ngoba unomuzwa wokuthi ufuna ukunciphisa amalungelo ahambisana namandla noma ithonya.
Yebo, laba bantu, naphezu kwezimpikiswano eziningana (eziqondakala kabanzi), sinelungelo elikhulu kakhulu yisiko lezinzalamizi kunabesifazane.
Bro, sicela unikeze i-shutha ukunyanya futhi ufunde irekhodi kuze kube sekupheleni.
Angisiye ochwepheshe, ngingumuntu ojwayelekile ojwayelekile we-CIS-Gender Mand, amalungelo amnandi ngokungazi, njengawe. Ubuntu besifazane akuwona umzabalazo wami, kungaba umzabalazo wezinyosi eziphikisana noju.
Basabela kanjani amadoda
Le ndoda ayiboni ngokwanele ukubiza imizwa yakhe, futhi ivule ukuze ihlelele enye yezinhlobo ezilandelayo. Izibonelo ezithile zokuhleleka sizobheka okunye.
Nakekela inkinga. Isibonakaliso sokuqala sokuthi le ndoda yaboshwa, - lapho ishiya ukuphawula ukuthi ingamkhathaleli, esikhundleni sokungenzi lutho.
Ukwehlisa isipiliyoni sakho . Ngokubona kwami, lokhu kungenye yezindlela ezimbi kakhulu zokuhleleka. Kufaka phakathi ngoba umane athuke esikhungweni esikhuluma isiRussia. Siyakwazi ukuqhathanisa kuphela nabantu abavela kithi, futhi le yinto esemqoka okudingeka uphume kuyo.
I-Generalization. Umzamo omuhle kakhulu nohlakaniphile, bafo. Kepha akusebenzi, ngoba usosomabhizinisi ovela esihlokweni esithile sengxoxo. Ngenxa yalokhu, ukujwayelekile kubangela ukwehla kwesipiliyoni somuntu siqu.
Ukulandelana okungalungile. Lokhu kungumzamo omuhle, kepha onobuhlakani obufana nokunyathela. Zonke izingxabano ezilungiselelweni ezinjalo zincishiswa ukuba "nabesifazane nabo ...". Akusebenzi ngoba isiko lezinzalamizi libukeke ngokuphoqelelwa nokubukwa kwabesifazane ngamadoda, hhayi okuphambene nalokho.
INDLELA EBANIKELA UKUTHENGA KANYE KUNGANI KUNGANI
Futhi manje sigijimisa ukuphawula kwabesilisa kuye kokuthunyelwe kwe-flashmob.
Izisulu ngokwazo kufanele zisolwe
Lokhu ukunakekelwa okumsulwa kusuka enkingeni. Le ngxabano iphikisana nesihloko esibi kunazo zonke ngengxabano "yilokhu kulimala". Ku-Intanethi, kuvame ukubizwa ngokuthi okuvunyelwe kusuka emazweni aseNgilandi "kuhlukunyezwa", "ukumangalelwa kwezisulu."
Guys, abesifazane banelungelo lokukwenza ngomzimba wabo konke abakufunayo. Faka ama-tattoos, ukubhoboza, ukuhlobisa, hhayi i-epilacia, gqoka umugqa we-epilacia, ukugqoka iziketi ezimfushane noma ama-leggings, ukulala nanoma yiliphi inani labesilisa nabesifazane.
Akukho lutho-ohlwini alunikeli muntu ilungelo lokucabanga ukuthi owesifazane onjalo ubophekile ukulala naye.
"Kungani ahambe emnyama sithandwa," kungani egqoke kanjalo "," kungani engazange afune usizo, "kuguqukela ekhanda eligulayo liphilile. Njalo umdlwenguli / ubugebengu. Noma "engazange aqonde lokho akwenzayo", noma ngabe "yebo, wonke umuntu wenza", noma ngabe "yena uqobo wavuma."
Hhayi-ke, kungubuhlungu?
"Hhayi-ke, ucabanga, bakutshale kancane, hhayi ushukela." Guys, lokhu kuyinto embi kunazo zonke ebaluleke kakhulu, - wehlisa isipiliyoni somuntu siqu. Hhayi abesifazane kuphela, noma ngubani.
Yebo, kungukulimala. Uma owesifazane ebhekene nesipiliyoni esithile njengenselele, akubalulekile, unelungelo eligcwele. Kanjani futhi unelungelo lokuqonda nokuhlala kwesipiliyoni sakho.
Konke okulimele kulimale ukuthi umphakathi uyakhula emphakathini.
Lokhu kungukuphikisana okujwayelekile okulandelayo. Lokhu kungukujwayelekile. Misa, nabesifazane bekhonkolo, obekuhlangenwe nakho okuningi okuhlukumezayo ebuntwaneni nasebusheni, lapho bengakabi namanje "ubuchopho besifazane."
Uzama nje ukuvala amehlo akho futhi unganaki inkinga.
Ukuhunyushwa kwezepolitiki
Mina, angesabi leli gama, i-Onionar ekuhumusheni kwezidumbu ze-Flash Flash endizeni yezepolitiki. "Angesabi ukuthi nginguLuganchanka," uMbuso udlwengule iminyaka engama-25. " Abantu, yini inkinga ngawe ?!
Manje abakhulumi ngezinkinga zamalungelo ezomhlaka kanye nenkululeko, kepha mayelana nodaba lwamazwe omhlaba odlame olubhekiswe kwabesifazane, kungakhathalekile ukuthi babuke bani nemibono yabo yezepolitiki.
Lokhu kukhetho lokujwayelekile. Uzama nje ukuvala amehlo akho futhi unganaki inkinga.
Badinga ukufunda ukuzivikela
Umzamo omuhle kakhulu wokunciphisa ulwazi lomuntu siqu, kepha cha. Noma yimuphi umuntu wesifazane kufanele abe nelungelo lokuphepha. Kuyadingeka ukulwa kuqala kwakho konke ngobugebengu, hhayi ngamakhono anganele ezisulu zokuzivikela.
Enye inkinga yale ngxabano - kuye ngesinyathelo esisodwa kuya "ezihlanjaleke ngokwazo ukusola", abazange bafunde ukuzivikela kusengaphambili.
Angisiye umdlwenguli, kungani bebhala ngetheyipu yami ethokomele?
Bro, uzama ukusuka enkingeni. Ungumkhiqizo wesiko. Ulethe abazali kanye ne-socias, yona, eyakhipha abazali kanye ne-socios yabo engobani. Abakholwa ukuthi yini "abesifazane bangempela" kanye "nabesilisa bangempela" okufanele babe. Labo bantu abasegcekeni, ohleka ngawo, - unabo igazi elilodwa.
Abesifazane baphakamisa umbuzo ngenkinga ehleliwe, ingxenye lapho ukhona, ukuba yingxenye yohlelo lokucindezelwa kwabesifazane abasebenzelana nabesifazane.
Kusukela ngosuku nosuku, kunikeza amahlaya amnandi nabangane, usekela isimo se-CVO. Nginamahloni, kepha ngisanda kunamahloni.
Emigqeni yezimo, uma nje singacabangi ukuthi sikulimaze abesifazane abalimele, abasondele kakhulu, noma ngabe sikhuluma ngodlame oluqondile. Awusona u-Astakhov - awuhlekisi ngama-Drewn ngokuba khona komuntu owaminza eduze?
"Ngabe ngicabanga ngokucabanga kwabesifazane abalimele basenganekwane? Okokuqala, ubona ku-Flashmob, kunabaningi endaweni yakho, abayona izinganekwane. Okwesibili, kungenzeka kakhulu ukwehlisa ulwazi lwabo. Futhi uma kungenjalo, khona-ke uyindoda enesihluku nje. Vuma kulokhu futhi uphile nakho.
Nabesilisa, futhi, ukucasukela nokudlwengula / ubudlova akunabo ubulili
Lokhu kungenye yezinto ezithandwayo ezingalungile emadodeni angakhululeki ukucabanga ngenkinga.
UBro, udlame lwezocansi lwenziwa yiqembu elinelungelo (labesilisa) ngaphezulu (kwabesifazane). Njengoba ngibhale ngenhla, le yinkinga ehleliwe. Cabanga: Ubudlova obungaphezulu kwabesilisa buye buwumphumela wohlelo lwezinzalamizi zokucindezelwa.
Kusukela ebuntwaneni, ufundiswa ukuhlangana kwemizwa, abazali nasemphakathini. Usetshenziselwa lokhu, ubheka lesi sikhundla sezinto ngokwakho. Kungakho umuntu kufanele aqine, akufanele akhale, kufanele akwazi ukuzivikela nabathandekayo. Manje usunenhloko ekhanda izimpikiswano eziyisigidi mayelana ne-etology kanye ne-biology, ukuzingela izinambuzane, izingane zokuthola amandla nokuvikelwa kwenzalo. Yebo, kulungile, mhlawumbe inzalamizi kungumphumela wesimo sethu sebhayoloji. Kepha sashiya izilwane kude. Eminyakeni eyizinkulungwane ezimbili edlule, iTestamente Elidala eline-Okuphelele "Oco Oko" lathathelwa indawo ngumthetho wegolide wokuziphatha okuhle. "Hamba nabanye ngendlela ofuna ukuza nawe."
Ngokuvamile, udlame olubhekiswe kubantu akulona isizathu sokusebenzisana. Ukhuluma ngenye inkinga, ube kuhle ukungavali amehlo akho.
Laba bantu besifazane bafinyelela ngokwedlulele, manje wonke umuntu kuthiwa uyisigebengu
I-Generalization. Abesifazane abaningi ababhale ngokuhlangenwe nakho kwabo impilo evamile. Ubona abesifazane abakhanyayo futhi abahlaba umxhwele abazenza ingxenye yezimpilo zabo belwa nesimo sezinzalamizi ze-QWO. Ngaphandle kwabo, abangakwazi ukuhamba. Ngaphandle kwabo, abesifazane bakho abajwayele ngeke bavule amehlo akho kulwazi lwakho lobuhlungu.
Futhi, banelungelo eliphelele lokwenza kanjalo, njengoba amaJuda asindile emakamu amaNazi ayenelungelo lombono "Wonke amaJalimane angamaNazi."
Yebo, konke crap, ngokuya ngezibalo kuphela abesifazane be-xxxx kuphela abantu abanezinkulungwane ngonyaka abadlwenguliwe.
Izibalo zinengqondo K-K-combo: ukunakekelwa kusuka enkingeni, ukuhwebelana nokwehla kwesipiliyoni somuntu siqu. Ungakhumbula izikolo mayelana "nokufa kwenhlekelele eyodwa, izigidi - izibalo."
Kepha eqinisweni usondelene nenkinga. Ngenxa ye-flashmob, uma ungavaliwe, kepha vele ufunde izindaba ngoHeSteg, uzobona ukuthi mangaki amacala angabi "ngokudlwengula" ngomqondo osemthethweni, kepha abangela ubuhlungu besifazane. Kunenqwaba yazo endaweni ezungezile, kepha indlela ekhonzayo engenzi nje ukuthi abesifazane bathule, ubenza bacabange ukuthi lokhu kuyinto engahambi kahle ngabo.
Yizwa izibonelo ezithile - manje zisho izibalo ezisemthethweni.
Abesifazane banakho konke okupholile, baqhubeka nabantu, futhi baphila iminyaka eyishumi bende
Futhi yile mpela i-K-K-combo efanayo: ukunakekelwa kusuka enkingeni, ukuhwebelana kanye nokwehla kwesipiliyoni somuntu. Akuwona wonke umuntu ongekho okupholile. Akuwona wonke umuntu ohamba kwabalimi.
Nakulokhu futhi, okukuzungezile abesifazane abaningi balimala futhi besaba ukukhuluma ngokulimala kwabo. Ngokwami, uxhasa lokhu kuvuma okuthule komphakathi ngodlame, ngoba unezingozi ezimbalwa. Uzama ukucasha kule nkinga ethile.
Uma unowesifazane owuthandayo, unkosikazi, odadewethu, amadodakazi, umama - ubazingela emhlanganweni. Khumbula ukuthi uzama ukucasha, kufaka phakathi inkinga yabo.
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