KusemaCinema amaqhawe kuphela ngemuva kokuhlukaniswa amapuleti amaningi amahle kakhulu amahle kakhulu ngomunye nomunye mayelana nekhanda, kalula futhi kalula embhedeni. Empilweni, yonke into inamafutha amaningi: Ukuze uqale, ngokwesibonelo, kuzofanele ususe izingcezwana.
Ngakho-ke ukuthi kwakungeyona buhlungu kabuhlungu, izithombe.Ru zikulungiselele wena incwadi, ukuthi ungayenza kanjani ilimaza impilo. Kahle, noma ngokulahleka okuncane.Umthetho 10 imizuzwana
AmaShayina akholelwa ukuthi impi engcono kakhulu yimpi yehlulekile. Kwesinye isikhathi ekushiseni kokuxabana kungcono ukuphefumula ngokujulile, ukubala thina kuya ku-10 kuphela ngemuva kwalokho okuqhubekayo ukumemeza, ukufunga nokuphonsa izinto. Ngifuna ngempela. Imvamisa, ngisho nokunyakaza okumfishane kungakusindisa esihlazweni, khona-ke akudingeki ukuthi ubeke phezulu!
Impi eq yamathemba
Uma ukuxabana bekubucayi, khona-ke into yokuqala okudingeka uyenze ipholile phansi. Njengoba i-classic yabhala: "ubuso nobuso. Abantu ababoni. Kubukeka kukuhle kude ", kodwa, akukuqedi kakhulu, kepha ubani obalulekile manje. I-OPHEDE, Phuza iwayini, hamba ungene umoya noma vele ungene kwelinye igumbi / yokugezela / ekhishini. Ukuphupha kungafinyelelwa kudoti ongenakugwemeka nowonakalisayo wokuthi udokotela ububi uyolala ubuthongo ngomona. Nakekela i-villain, makaphile.Musa ukuheha abalandeli
Akunakuvimba, ungadonseli umama, ubaba, ugogo waseStavropol noma eLenyane ongabangani abavela ekilasini lokuqala. Okokuqala, kuphathelene nodwa kuphela wena nobudlelwano bakho, kanti okwesibili, futhi ufuna ukukuxhasa ngezindaba zokuthi imbuzi, abantu bangaphandle bathela uwoyela emlilweni futhi bangenele ingxabano yomndeni - yena kuphela ngiyaxolisa ukushaya!)
Thatha ithuba lokuphumula
Faka eyakhayo! Kwanele ukuzisola nami futhi ucabange ukuthi wakhubeka kanjani nokuthi hlobo luni lwabampofu futhi olungathandeki. Thatha ithuba lesikhashana bese uzama ukwazisa ngokweqiniso ubuhlobo bakho, izizathu zokwenzeka, kanye namathemba ahlanganyelwe ngekusasa. Ungazinikeli - futhi kuphansi. Uma usukulungele ngempela ukuba nalo muntu, akusakaze amasokisi noma izitsha ezingcolile zizokuvimba. Kepha, njengoba uqonda, isimo "muhle kakhulu lapho i-sober" akuyona inketho nhlobo.Nquma imingcele
Noma yikuphi ukubuyisana kuyinto ukuyekethisa. Usavuma ukuthola izinhlanzi - Akaphikisana nale ngubo, ulungiselela ukudla - uyacaphuna nokunye. Kulolu daba, kubalulekile ukuqala ngokwakho imingcele yangaphakathi, ongakwazi ukuyenza ngaphansi kwanoma yiziphi izimo. Isibonelo, awusoze waphila nomama wakhe noma ulibhale ngesikhathi socansi, noma ukubekezelela izinsongo zakhe futhi - kwenqabe - ukushaywa. Kuphela uma nginquma - akunakwenzeka ukunikela nokubonakaliswa, ngakho-ke zama futhi uchaze imingcele enomqondo, hhayi ngoba "umama wathi kwakudingeka."
Ungagodli imizwa
Noma iyiphi ingxabano yingcindezi edinga ukusinda. Uma ufuna ukuhlupheka, ukuveza izandla zakho futhi udlale idrama-ndlovukazi - ungazigodli. Uma ufuna ukusweleka umnyango, ngokuziqhenya uye ebusuku ukuyofuna abangane abasha futhi uhlele izinto eziza kuqala, - Qaphela: Ngabe empeleni isifiso sakho noma sizame ukukhohlisa? Uma owesibili engekho konke, kuyasebenza, njengoba lokho kubuya ngezimbali ne-champagne - futhi awukulindile, kuzoba nzima.
Ungazami ukukhohlisa
Ukukhohlisa kubi futhi akudingeki ngokuphelele ebudlelwaneni, ikakhulukazi ngaphansi kwesimo sokusetshenziswa kwe-chaotic. Hhayi-ke, ubani ozothokozela ukwenza lokho engingakufuni, ikakhulukazi uma kuphoqeleka ukuthi kuthuthukiswe ngokudlala ngokwengqondo kobuqili? Futhi akukuvumeli ukuthi uzikhohlise, ungasebenzi kukho konke lokhu "uma ngabe awuzange ube yi-hysterical, ungaxoxa nawe ngokujwayelekile!" - Kuyinto egcwele efomini layo elihlanzekile futhi kuphahlazeka kwangempela eduze.Hhayi blackmail it
I-Blackmail iyindlela yokunge ndawo. Ukungashongo iqiniso lokuthi izitatimende "futhi uma ufika ngokushesha nami, ngizophuma ngiklebhulukwe kuvulandi, ngigungqiwe, ngigule, ngizokufa, futhi nina nizoqonda konke, futhi wena, gad, niyazisola ! " Ngandlela-thile kungumsindo oyisiphukuphuku kusuka kuhlakaniphile futhi okuhle wena (ikakhulukazi uma emgwaqweni +30 emthunzini). Noma "Ngibuya nawe, uma ungithengela lokho kugqoka!" - Hhayi-ke, ngokungathi sína, ubheka noma ugibele ukugqoka okubaluleke kakhulu noma ngokubambisana kwakho?
Ube qotho
Mtshele ukuthi ububi kanjani ngenkathi uxabana, ngitshele ukuthi uzizwe sengathi unesizungu nokuthi wakhathazeka kanjani ngokwenzekile. Ungesabi ukuthi uzokubheka njengobuthakathaka, oyisiphukuphuku noma we-infantile - amandla okukhuluma ngemizwa yakhe ukuze i-interlocutor iqonde, ibeka othandekayo. Kwesinye isikhathi kubukeka ngokujwayelekile ukuthi zonke izinkinga kubantu zenzeka ngenxa yezizathu ezimbili: Okokuqala, abazi ukuthi bafunani, kanti okwesibili, abazi ukuthi bangakhuluma kanjani.
Uma unecala - qaphela umuzwa wecala
Vumelana, kunzima kakhulu. Cishe akunakwenzeka. Kepha kwesinye isikhathi kusafanele ukuhambisa namabutho, woza emphinjeni wengoma yakho nokuthi yini enye evame ukwenziwa futhi usho okuthile okuthi "ngithethelele ngicela, bengingalungile." Akudingekile ukulinda ngokushesha ngemuva kwalokho i-fanfar, i-confetti kanye nokubingelela, nokuthi umlingani wakho okonile uzothinta, uguqule umdanso wesidakamizwa futhi, uphethe izandla, ushaye izandla. Kepha okungenani uzosebenzisa indlela yokubuyisana, futhi lokhu sekuvele kuningi.Uma ecela intethelelo - ngiyaxolisa
Akudingekile ukukuthola ukuze uthole amandla, ukuhlela izivivinyo futhi uluhlukumeze ngokukhethekile ngokwaneliseka okucatshangwayo. Ukuze intethelelo, awekho ama-schemas afana "nalokhu athethelele zonke ezinye izinsuku, futhi ngenxa yalo ngesonto" - thethelela lapho usukulungele ukuxwayisa ngokuthi usakhungathekile futhi awukakulungeli ukulinda kuye i-bra emhlophe njengefulegi. Kepha khumbula ukuthi akwakhekanga, ngokungakhathali, futhi futhi bathi baphathwe emanzini akonile. Kulungile, kunjalo, kodwa sasizwa okuthile ngamakholoni.
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