Izizathu ezi-7 zokubeletha izingane ngemuva kweminyaka engama-30

Phrinta lo mbhalo ephepheni elihle ngama-vensels, ukukhuphuka, ukuze kungapheli okuqukethwe kusuka ekusebenzeni njalo, futhi kungakhiphi mpendulo kuwo wonke umuntu ohlekayo ukuze ubelethe ngokushesha, ngaphandle kwalokho isitimela sizohamba. Ubizelwe, futhi impilo yakho ihlala amakati nokuzisola.

Kulula ngawe ukuhlanganisa ukuba ngumama nomsebenzi

Emashumini amabili abhongayo, usanda kuqala umsebenzi wami. Ozakwabo babenomkhuba omubi wokukubiza ngokuthi "ingane yethu" nelithi "nendodakazi yaseshaloyeni." Usebenzele idumela - okungukuthi, kwakubukeka ngaphandle komkhumbi, ngaphuthuma ekufeni futhi ngangiqinisekile ngeBosa. Manje konke sekuguqukile - ngemuva kweminyaka eyishumi ecaleni, wazi kahle ukuthi yini - futhi umphathi wakho uyazi. Unesikhala esithe xaxa sokuqondisa. Ungavuma emsebenzini okukude noma ungisindise isimemezelo esithile samaphrojekthi, unomshuwalense omuhle, kanye namathuba esihlalo sakho esizokulinda ngaphezulu.

Ingabe unayo imali

By the way, izikhathi ezibusisiwe, lapho usebenza emholweni waya emaholweni, futhi, ngemuva - kungenzeka ukuthi unesikhwama esincane sokuzinza, kepha oziqhenyayo. Kuyiqiniso, umndeni uyohlala kukusiza, kepha ngandlela thile kunesimo sokuzola ukuthi awuxhomekile kunoma ngubani futhi akudingeki uchaze noma ngubani ukuthi kungani ingane yakho idinga i-strallite entsha, hhayi i-freak, ithengile kusuka ezandleni zesimemezelo.

Usuvele unombono wezingane

Ngoba uhhafu wezintombi usevele wathola izindlalifa, futhi waba nesikhathi sokubabuka. Uvakashele u-anti kanye nomngani - i-bebisitter, kungcono cabanga ukuthi ulindelwe yini. Futhi ngo-20 isipiliyoni sakho engxenyeni yeMamkin sasilinganiselwe kumdlalo oseHub.

Uzoba ngumama ozolile

Abaphenyi baseDanish University baka-Aarhus balinganisela ukuthi abesifazane ababa omama ngemuva kokubi kakhulu ukuthi kungenzeka bakhale ngenzalo yabo futhi basebenzise inhlolokhona njengendlela yemfundo. Mhlawumbe, ngakho-ke, izingane 'zezinkathi' ezinjalo 'zizinkinga ezingenazinkinga ezineminyaka engu-7, eziyi-11 nengu-15. Ngale ndlela, eDenmark, isilinganiso sobudala bengane yokuqala cishe baneminyaka engama-31 ubudala.

Ugogo uzotholakala

Lapho uneminyaka engu-20, abazali bakho (kanye no-anti nomalume) basebenza namandla futhi babekulungele ukuthandwa ngabazukulu bakhe kunalokho emcabangweni. Manje kungenzeka ukuthi bathathe umhlalaphansi, futhi bakulungele ukubamba iqhaza ngentshiseko ekutshalweni kwesizukulwane esisha.

Futhi intombi futhi

Ngoba at abangu-20 bonke bashaya inselo futhi balinde wena, ekugcineni, basebenzise ama-eyelashes bese baya e-nightclub. Uma ubeletha ngalesosikhathi, uzozizwa uphonswe ohlangothini lwempilo. Manje izintombi ziphinde zishaye inselo egcekeni lokudlala futhi zikulindile ukuthi ujoyine imigqa yazo ethambile. Umama ngemuva kwama-30 ngeke akuvule empilweni yomphakathi - kunalokho, ukuxhumana okuthile okuphumelele ngemuva kokuthi amahlaya kanye nokuphuza abangane asuswe ezindabeni futhi bathola incane, babuyise.

Uzophila isikhathi eside

Ukutadisha amaBrithani, okuhlanganisa izibalo ezinkulu amakhulu amaningi eminyaka (abafana bathatha kabi ibhizinisi!) Kwakhombisa ukuthi abesifazane ababelethe ingane yokuqala ebudaleni, banamathuba amaningi okuphila ekujuleni okujulile. Awuboni abazukulu kuphela, kodwa futhi nabazukulu abakhulu.