"Inkinga ye-Alien ngezandla zakho ukuze uphinde wenze kabusha" - umgomo wanoma yimuphi umkhandlu ongahlangene. Futhi kulungile, ukube bekumayelana nezindaba zezinto ezibonakalayo, kepha muva nje ungene kwimfashini enkulu "ukuze uqonde" kwezengqondo bese ukhuphukela emphefumulweni womunye umuntu. Ngaphandle kwensipho, ngokwemvelo.
Iseluleko esibi kunazo zonke ku-Amateur Psychologists yigama elithi "mane nje", ngaphandle kwalo awehluleki.Ngiyaxolisa nje, kuzoba lula kuwe
Umholi ongaqondakaliyo wesilinganiso sethu. Konke kuthathwa njengokuthethelela noma yini, noma ngubani, noma ngubani, kunoma ngubani: kusuka ekujuleni kodlame lwezocansi noma ngokomzimba, kuze kube nemizamo yokubulala. Ekugcineni, ekugcineni, amanzi ayathwalwa, futhi abantu bahlelwe njengamarobhothi, ngakho-ke ungabi nobuvila, cindezela inkinobho ngaphakathi kwenkinobho ecisha umuzwa wokucasuka, futhi uphile ngenjabulo.
Vele uqoqe
Iseluleko esihle, kwesinye isikhathi siyasiza. Kepha uma ungeza ukusiza noma ukwaba ukukhathazeka ngalokho ongenakho okwenele okuthile kwamabutho ami (isikhathi, imali, ulwazi, impilo), kuzwakala njengokuhlekisa. Vele uqoqe futhi yini? Ukuxilongwa kuzonyamalala, abaqoqi bezinhlobo zobugebengu bazoba yinhlonipho ngokuzumayo futhi bakhange, umalume uzokufa eCanada, angishiye imali eningi eyengeziwe, futhi ezinsukwini ezakhiwe amahora angama-28? Futhi, ngiyaxolisa, uthole malini, Mnu. Counter, yini engiyihlanganisiwe?Vele uzithande
Ngaphila, wahamba iminyaka engamashumi amathathu, futhi anginangqondo lutho. Futhi-ke uphakamise umeluleki omuhle, futhi uzilahlile ebunzini: Semen Semenovich! Kukuphi inkinobho ekufakweni kothando? Isivele igijimisa ukuchotshozwa. Yeka injabulo, ukuthi konke kulula kakhulu!
Vele ube ngaphezulu kwalokhu
Cha, hhayi ngomqondo othile, okuphezulu ukuze uhlebe abanye, ngokwesibonelo. Nangaphezulu kwalokho okucasulwe nguwe. Enye i-asshole engenhla okufanele uthobeke, ayinakuba, kepha kufanele. Kuyathakazelisa ukuthi bangaki abesifazane ababulawa ngabayeni babo bebengaphezu kwe- "zakidov" yabo ngesimo sokushaywa nokuthukwa? Akukhuthazi ngempela!
Cabanga ngento embi kakhulu
Ngamuphi umqondo? Ngabe ufuna ngijabule ngobubi bomuntu noma ukuze kube khona okuphindwe kabili - nangezinhlungu zakhe, futhi izingane zifelwa engxabanweni yamasosha? Noma mhlawumbe, ngoba eNdiya, iningi labantu liyashaywa, isithunzi sami somuntu sizonyamalala ngokushesha noma ukulungisa ngokwako?Cabanga mhlawumbe wena uqobo kufanele usolwe
Uma umeluleki ekholelwa ukuthi asiqapheli ukuthi leli ntshumayelo lithi, "Yebo ukumkhafulela ngokukhala, angizukukusindisa, okungenani ukuzwelana - konke kuhamba nge-Fotic Iwayini! ". Esimweni sokuxineka, kungenzeka singakuqondi okwenzekayo, kepha ukucindezelwa akusikho okuphakade, futhi isimo sethu esihle ngalabo abeluleki naso.
Vele ushade / ushade / uvikele ingane
Futhi uma kungazange kusize, nje ukucindezela umyeni, umfazi noma ingane emgwaqweni futhi azame enye into. Ngabe ubuqonde lokho? Hhayi? Ngokumangazayo, ngani? Konke kufanele kube lula!
Ngaphambi kokuthi kudingeke ukucabanga
Mhlawumbe bekudingeka, kuphela ukusho le nkulumo ngomzuzwana nje lapho udinga usizo nozwela - hhayi okuhle kakhulu. Futhi, hey, empeleni wacabanga ngaphambili. Akungaphansi kwengxenye yokushintsha kwekusasa ngokuvamile akunakwenzeka ukumopha, akekho osulakhanyele isici somuntu, futhi ukulawula indawo yonke kutholakala kalula ngokuziphatha okuyikho - inganekwane emnandi.Vele uyeke isimo
Lesi seluleko sivame ukunikezwa hhayi endaweni esingeke siyikhumbule ngisho nalapho kufanelekile. "Uthisha omangalisayo uyamemeza esemntwaneni wami ukuze alotshwe futhi eqinile, futhi akunakwenzeka ukuguqula isikole lapha, ngoba angikwazi ukuwushintsha umsebenzi wami wesikole ngohlelo lwami lomsebenzi! Kanjani, kanjani, ngingasindisa kanjani ingane? " - "Unobunzima, vele uyeke isimo, konke kuzoba khona lapho." Dashtototh.
Vele uyishayele elinye igama, futhi ubudlelwano buzoshintsha
Yebo, uma isimo singaguquki empandeni, noma asiyingozi enkulu, kungani ungazami. Kepha kungani nisungula ama-euhemisms ngokuxabana, ukuhlasela, ubudlova, ubuvila, nokunye okunjalo nokwenza sengathi ukwenza lokho? Yebo, emva kwakho konke, bayazonda futhi bayakuzonda, ngoba isimo sizohlala siseNadke.
Thatha umthwalo wemfanelo
Kuphakanyiswa kuphela ngesimo se- "senze sengathi umgadli akazange ahlanganyele ekuhlaselweni." ISadavinovat embonweni onenhlonipho. Zidlale ngokwakho, sizovuma. Uma unesibopho sezenzo zakho, akusho ukuthi isenzo esibi somunye umuntu maqondana nani sasingesibi nokuthi lowo owenze ngaso akunasibopho sakhe.Imicabango ihle
Hhayi ngomqondo wokuthi awuyeki futhi ubheke ukuthi yiziphi izinzuzo ezingafundwa kulesi simo noma ukuthi ungaphuma kanjani ekulahlekelweni okuncane kakhulu. Oh cha. Abalandeli bemikhandlu yezengqondo ngemuva kwalesi sisho bayinkomba ebalulekile yokuhlala phansi, basonge izibambo, bajabule ngezimo ezimbi ngokubaluleke kakhulu futhi, okubaluleke kakhulu, ungabacasuli isimo seqiniso lokuthi ukhona ongemukelekile. Futhi uyazi ukuthi yini, usinikeze ukuthi wonke amathiphu afakwe kuhlu anazo zonke izisekelo ezifanayo.
Ngokuvamile, uma umkhandlu uqukethe igama elithi "mane", kuvame ukwenzeka ngisho nokulalela.
Futhi ngendlela. Ama-psychopologists wezeluleko eziqeqeshiwe anganikeli. Mhlawumbe isibonelo sokuzithatha?