Sinezindaba ezimbi kuwe. Ubuhlobo buwumsebenzi. Nsuku zonke, okunengqondo futhi okufanayo okuqinile njengokugeza izitsha. Umsebenzi okufanele wenziwe, noma ngabe ukhathele kakhulu futhi uthukuthele kakhulu. Izindaba Ezinhle - Uma ubona inhlanzeko yokuziphatha eyisisekelo, konke kuzophuma.
Umusa ofanele kanye nokuvuma okubonakalayo ngeke kuvume ukuhlukaniswa, ungabulali omunye nomunye futhi mhlawumbe nokuphila kubazukulu.Ungabi nonya
Konke kulula kakhulu: akunakwenzeka ukuthi ungaxabani. Yonke impilo yomndeni iqedwa yikhaphethi yamasokisi, ihlwanyelwe ngamashubhu angenamikhawulo ezinyongi, egcwele imali esetshenziswe kunoma yikuphi udoti, izingcingo ezingalindelekile ngo-4 ekuseni nezinye izinto, futhi bekungeke kube yinto emangazayo. Kepha kunobuso obuncanyana phakathi kwesidingo sokuxoxa ngezinkinga, isidingo sokukhipha umkhondo we-Couples nosizi. Ngubani ongazange afeze lutho? Ngubani ohlala eshiya izinwele egumbini lokugezela? Ngubani ongakwazi ukwenza imali, apheke i-borsch, shayela isipikili? Ngubani ongayithatheli intombazane lapha, ekugcineni? Lokhu kungukudangatheka okuncane komndeni, okugula ngenani lobuhlanya labantu. Udlame lwasekhaya lwasekhaya lushiya ukulimala, njengesitoko esinesihlabathi noma umkhombandlela wefoni we-chubby. Kepha ungakwenzi lokho.
Noma uqinisile, buyisela emuva
Noma uhlala ulungile. Noma ngabe usuvele watshela amahlandla ayinkulungwane yokuthi konke kuzophela. Noma kunjalo: ngoba, ukumamatheka nokuxolisa. Ngoba lapha namanje namanye amagama amathathu, futhi ngeke kwenzeke ukulungisa isimo nhlobo. Ekugcineni, umuntu kufanele ahlakaniphe, futhi kungani kungenjalo omunye umuntu. Isizathu sengxabano yakho asisisekelo, ngoba into esemqoka, empeleni, uthando kanye nesifiso sokuphila ndawonye. Nokuziqhenya (kanye nemizwa "ngiqinisile" nguye, kunjalo, kungukuthi kunoma ngubani omuhle akazange alethe muntu.Ungalokothi uthi "futhi ngakhuluma!"
Wena ngokwakho usemphelele, futhi uma uhlala phansi ubala phansi ubale inani lokungabi nalutho owenzile ngesikhathi sokubika, kuvela ukuthi okungenani kungaphansi komlingani wakho. Ngoba sonke asiphelele.
Hhayi ukuhlukumeza abanye abangane
Abangani bekungumlingani wakho kuwe. Futhi, uma uqhubeka emthanjeni ofanayo, uzoba ngemuva kwawo. Yebo, lokhu kungukuthi ungubani. Noma lezi yilezi zidakwa, umphefumulo ongewona ubuchwepheshe, onemikhuba eqandisiwe, ama-Gosups ambi kakhulu amantombazane. Ngesizathu esithile, uhhafu wakho wesibili wawakhetha futhi ukholelwa ukuthi bayakusekela. Ngendlela, naye wakhetha wena, kulona uhhafu. Cabanga ngakho.Ungabi nandaba
Akekho umuntu odinga ukuzidela njalo (yize ukufucuza kwansuku zonke kungavimbi muntu), kodwa ukuzulazula ezifisweni, izimiso nezidingo zomlingani - hhayi kunzima kakhulu futhi cishe kusiza kakhulu. Futhi uma ngezikhathi ezithile ukubeka lezi zifiso, izimiso futhi zidinga kancane kunezabo, amanani ngeke abe.
Musa ukumboza umlingani
Akunasidingo sokulindela lokho, ake sithi, ngaso sonke isikhathi siyopheka. Futhi uzohlala ekhokhela izinsiza. Futhi wenze imali. Futhi unqobe izinzipho. Bese ushayela imoto. Bese ugeza phansi. Bese ulenga ishalofu. Bese kuthi okunye okunye. Ekugcineni, okumnandi kuzogula futhi kufanele kudle ama-dumplings, kulandelwe esitolo. Noma abagulayo muhle, futhi akekho ozolengisa ishalofu, enze imali, akhokhe izikweletu, aqhube izipikili futhi ageze phansi. Yebo, noma ngokushesha nje, othile uyisimo esikhathele lapho kukholakala khona ukuthi "kufanele" ngeqiniso elilodwa lobukhona bakho.... entabeni nasenjabulweni
Noma ngubani uyazi ukuthi angamsekela kanjani umlingani lapho impilo yakhe inesihluthulelo emsebenzini, ukukhuphuka kufanele kuthuthukiswe, amaphrojekthi ayaphumelela futhi konke kuthengiswa ngempempe. Noma kunjalo, akuyena wonke umuntu, ngoba isimo esinjalo sivame ukuhlotshaniswa nezinsuku zokusebenza amahora ayi-12, izinzwa kanye nokunganakwa. Kepha zama ukusekela umuntu osondele ekuxoshweni, ekucindezelekeni, inqobo nje uma umphathi ungumuntu onamahloni, futhi abangaphansi banobuhle futhi benobuhlakani be-lazy. Kuyacaca ukuthi ukusabela kokuqala kudumazeka futhi "futhi ngakhuluma!". Manje kungumzuzu impela lapho kungabonakali kakhulu ukukhumbula izifungo zomshado.
Qabula. Isivinini. Ilasa
Okungenani nsuku zonke. Uma ungakwenzi lokhu - omunye umuntu uzokwenza.I-Romance yindlela yokufaka uphawu isipikili bese ulengisa ishalofu
Funa ukuthi bekunjalo, nokuthi kwakukuhle - zenzele.
Thula kancane
Kwesinye isikhathi udinga nje ukuphuma bese uvala umnyango ngemuva kwakho - kodwa bese ubuyela. Inkinga ukuthi kunzima kakhulu ukuyenza ngobuchwepheshe. Ngoba ngasikhathi sinye kuzovela ukuthi "ngiye kumama," Kokunye - "kufanele siphuze nabafana" futhi ekugcineni ngeke sixazulule izinkinga, kodwa mhlawumbe size sengeze. Futhi nokho ukuhlukana, ukwenza okuthile okuhluke kakhulu, cabanga futhi kuthule kwesinye isikhathi kwenzeka ngokuphelele. Izindlela ezinhle kakhulu zokusiza uhambo lwebhizinisi olude. Ukusebenza Kwezikhathi Esitekelweni se-Steppe of the Inter Mongolia, ukwethulwa kwesitshalo esisha eSiberia, ukwakhiwa kwepayipi legesi eNtshonalanga India.Pheka, noma ngabe akukho mandla
Uma ufike ekhaya isikhathi se-semi, ngoba umphathi uyisidididi esibi, kanye nabangaphansi - abangaphansi - abantu abavilaphayo nabangenangqondo, ngakho-ke ngokuqinisekile kuvela ukuthi umlingani wakho ube mubi kakhulu. Futhi awenziwanga ngokuqondile, kungumthetho nje wobuntu. Futhi lapha udinga ukuphefumula, ukucwilisa amazinyo akho futhi ngasikhathi sinye ukumamatheka ngobumnene, ulethe itiye, ukwanga, ikhonsoli bese ujabule. Ngoba ngolunye usuku into efanayo izokwenza nawe.
Thola Isikhathi
Umatasa? Umsebenzi omningi kakhulu? Konke okufanayo, udinga ukuba nesikhathi sokunaka umlingani. Ukudla kwakusihlwa nokwenziwa amakhandlela noma, ngokwesibonelo, ukulala embhedeni futhi kuhlangene - okungenani nje ukuthola izindleko zokuhlala nengxenye yesibili ungakhohlwa ukuthi ukhona emhlabeni.Isikhatha
Futhi iphuzu lapha alikho ecansini kuphela, yize nalo. Ekuqaleni kobudlelwano obuniqhaqhazela injabulo ukuze nje ube seduze futhi ubambele isibambo (kahle, noma enye ingxenye ethile yomzimba). Lo muzwa kufanele ukhunjulwe ngezikhathi ezithile futhi uphinde uphinde (kepha ungalingisi!).
Ekhuluma
Vele udinga ukukhuluma ngangokunokwenzeka. Mayelana nomsebenzi, mayelana nesipikili nokupenda ishalofu, mayelana nezinhlelo nezinkumbulo, mayelana nothando nezinhlobonhlobo zekhofi. Ekugcineni, nobani ongakusho okuthile?