Ngesikhathi esodwa ukukhala ngokuthi isikhungo somndeni siyabhujiswa, abanye bathi uyavela, baphendule ezinseleleni zesikhathi, futhi bakhumbula ukuthi umndeni sasivame ukubheka inkomba kanye nendabuko, ngesikhathi esisodwa futhi savela esikhundleni solunye uhlobo lomndeni ubudlelwano.
Lapha kungenzeka ukuthi uqale uhambo lomlando, kepha ngeke. Lokhu okwedlule kithi ngeke kusabaleka, kuthakazelisa kakhulu ukulungisa isipho esishintsha ngokushesha. Lapho izabantu bezenhlalo zikhuluma ngohlobo olusha lomndeni, kufika umkhaya womama ongayedwa nengane, omunye - umshado wamahhala, okwesithathu - umshado uyalingana. Kepha kukhona olunye uhlobo olusha. Kwavela ngenxa yokusabalala kwesehlukaniso. Manje, lapho isehlukaniso sixazululwa hhayi kuphela ngenxa yomunye nomunye, owayesebashade sangaphambilini kaningi, sekela imishado emisha, sekela ubudlelwano obuhle nomunye, futhi okuwukuphela komama nobaba wengane kuvame ukuhlala ezindlini ezimbili, ethola uthando oluphelele lwe Bobabili abazali nobungani bobungani nabafowethu nodadewethu abahlanganisiwe.Sicele abesifazane abane ukuba batshele indlela imindeni yabo eyengeziwe evela kwababili kanye nezingane zabo baphila.
IMoscow
Mina nomyeni wami sahlukanisa eminyakeni eyisithupha edlule, eminyakeni emine edlule ngashada, wabe eseshada. Sinamadodakazi amabili naye (11 no-9 ubudala), kumkama omusha wendodana yami yangaphambili (iminyaka engu-8), sonke sicabanga ngezingane ezintsha emishadweni emisha, kodwa asiboni ithuba lezezimali. Yilapho izingane zikhula futhi zizosebenza, ngandlela thile zinikeza izidingo zazo, mhlawumbe, bese ziqala.
Bonke abantu abadala banobuhlobo obuhle, hhayi lolo thando - uthando nobungani bungobungani, simane nje sibhekane nathi emndenini omkhulu, futhi ngisho nabazali bethu bakulungele. Lokhu akusho ukuthi sihlala ndawonye ndawonye: futhi amakamelo kanye nezabelomali esizihlukanisile. Amantombazane ami achitha ubusuku ngempelasonto, ngokuphelele lapho uchitha isikhathi nomfowethu ohlanganisiwe (akanalo "ngeSonto uBaba" Cha).
Sibambe amaholide sonke sindawonye (kuphela enginakho), sonke singahlangana ukusekela umuntu ovela ezinganeni ezikhuluma ngenkulumo, emiqhudelwaneni yezemidlalo. Umyeni wami wasungula ezimweni ezinjalo ukugqoka amabhendi afanayo, kubukeka sengathi siyiqembu labantu abalandeli bezingane. Izingane ziya kwimibuthano efanayo (ukubhukuda, i-Aikido nokumodela ubumba) futhi zigcine zinobungane kakhulu. Mhlawumbe umndeni wethu omkhulu uvame ukuba nobungane kunendabuko yami. Mhlawumbe iqiniso ukuthi sihlala eduze komunye nomunye, nabazali bami nomfowethu - ngakolunye uhlangothi lweMoscow.
Rostov-on-don
Sahlukanisa umyeni wami cishe eminyakeni eyishumi edlule, sinengane evamile (indodana, engu-16) kanye nezingane emishadweni emisha (nginenye indodana, engu-7, ngendodakazi yendodakazi yasemnyakeni engu-5. Yomibili imindeni yethu ingahlelekile, mhlawumbe kuleli cala, kepha kwakulula ngathi ukwamukela ukuthi singalinganiselwa esihlotsheni esithile. Ngaphezu kwalokho, sasheshe sathola ukuthi kuyazuzisa - ukugcina ubudlelwane bemindeni. Okokuqala, thina nomyeni wethu sangaphambilini sasiyindawo yokuhlala; Asikwazanga, kepha amandla ajwayelekile avunyelwe futhi aphumule ehlobo, konke ndawonye, kuhlanganise nendodana yendoda yami yamanje emshadweni wakhe wokuqala (oneminyaka eyi-11).
Lapho uholwa umnotho wokuhlangene, kuvela inzuzo enkulu kakhulu. Into esemqoka ukusabalalisa izindawo zomthwalo wemfanelo, ukuze ungacasuki omunye nomunye, uphishekela ekhishini, ngokwesibonelo. We, njengaseqenjini, sixoxe ngakho konke, masinyane sinqume ukuthi ngubani futhi yini, futhi konke kuhamba kahle. Lapho sikuthola lokho ehlobo, ngokulahlekelwa kokuthenga okuhlanganayo nokupheka ukudla, sisebenzisa imali encane kakhulu, sanquma ukwenza ingxenye yokuthenga unyaka wonke, ngobuningi. Ngaphezu kwalokho, ezinye zezingubo namathoyizi asuka enganeni enganeni, futhi kulula futhi kwezomnotho. Indodana evamile ngempelasonto ayivelanga kimi hhayi kuYise, kodwa ekuvakasheni kogogo nomkhulu - abazali bami, bamthanda kakhulu. Indodana yami yomyeni wami kulezi zinsuku, ngokulandelana, izolala ubusuku. Izingane zihlangana, yize umehluko eminyakeni yobungani be-quadric ukuze uphazamise. Kepha bonke banomuzwa wokuthi banomndeni, abantu babo abayohlala besekela, kubalulekile.
Isidoda
Ngibe nomyeni onzima kakhulu, kodwa ngokushesha ngathola udadewabo nodadewabo womndeni, bonke bavulekile, bejabule futhi banobungane, kubandakanya nabazali bakadadewabo womyeni wakhe nomshana wami. Nginomyeni wami, sahlukana kabi kakhulu, futhi angikadili naYe, futhi akamhumeli ukuxhumana nendodakazi yethu (eneminyaka eyisithupha). Kepha ngemuva kwesehlukaniso, udadewabo wangaphambili wathi ngihlala umngani wakhe nonina wabashana bakhe futhi ngiyojabula uma ngihlala nezingane zakhe (ndodakazi eyodwa - enye iminyaka emithathu ubudala). Futhi udadewabo wangaphambili nomndeni wakhe wonke wasisiza futhi asisize futhi asisize, hhayi kuphela ngokwezimali (ngithola okuncane, ngashada ngo-18, ngangisebenza emshadweni, khona-ke ngaqala ukuhlala nengane - khona-ke Ayikho imfundo futhi), kodwa futhi.
Sivame ukuya komunye nomunye emnganeni, siphila ngokoqobo ezindlini ezingomakhelwane, sisizane ukuba siphume. Sinesidlo sakusihlwa nendodakazi yami ngesonto lapho, isidlo sakusihlwa kanye nodadewethu nonina nonina nonina nonina kanye nonina kanye nonina bahlangana, nixoxe ngezindaba. Cishe ezinyangeni ezimbili ezedlule, ngaba nesoka, futhi wamukelwa ngemfudumalo, kwesinye isikhathi uyangena kimi ukuvakashela umndeni kadadewethu ngempelasonto. Hhayi kunoma yimuphi umndeni omkhulu ube muhle, ngicabanga, kodwa ngampela futhi ngijabule kakhulu, kanjena - injabulo yangempela. Ngonyaka olandelayo, amadodakazi ethu azohamba aye esikoleni, sifuna ukubaqopha esigabeni esisodwa.
ISt. Petersburg
Sinendaba engajwayelekile ngokujwayelekile. Umyeni wami wangaphambili nowamanje wake waba abangane abangcono, base beshada, ke ... eminyakeni embalwa bathandana nabafazi bomunye nomunye, okungukuthi, umyeni wami wakudala ushade nomyeni wami wangaphambi. Ekuqaleni, isimo sasisesabekayo, ngaso sonke isikhathi sasiqondakala, kepha ngandlela thile wehlisa umoya, uhlukanise futhi washaya ngempama. Futhi babona ukuthi asifuni ukulahlekelwana, ngoba sonke singabantu abalungile okudingeka baphathwe.
Emshadweni wakuqala, sasingenazingane, manje sesize sazala ingane, nginentombazane, e-Ex-ex wami, cishe iminyaka emithathu. Sonke sihlala egcekeni elifanayo, futhi ngokushesha nomkankosikazi wami savumelana nokunakekela izingane, sanikeza ithuba lokuphumula. Amadoda asanda kuvumelana nokupheka. Ngaphezu kwalokho, senza ingxenye yokuthenga sindawonye, ngokwesibonelo, amakati ethu kulula ukuthenga ukudla ngobuningi, imikhiqizo futhi ilula futhi ishibhile ukuthenga amaqembu amakhulu. Lapho izingane zikhula, sihlela ukuhamba sihlale ndawonye endaweni ethile, ngakho-ke kufanele kube eshibhile. Ababelethi bethu bamangala ekuqaleni, kodwa abazali bamanje futhi bangaphambilini babengabangane isikhathi eside, futhi nabafazi bami bangaphambili banquma ukuthi izwe elincanyana lingcono kunengxabano enhle, futhi lasungulwa nobudlelwano nathi wonke umuntu. Ngeke basisize kakhulu, futhi sisenaso futhi.
U-New Year Sizohlangabezana Negayidi: Mina, umyeni wami, umyeni wami wangaphambili, umfazi wami wangaphambili (ungumyeni wami) nezingane. Eqinisweni, kuzoba unyaka wokuqala omusha, ngamunye wethu ongeke ahlangane naye ngaphandle komndeni wabazali. Ngiyethemba ukuthi lokhu kuzoba yisiqalo sesiko lomndeni elinomusa. Kwesinye isikhathi siyacelwa ukuthi singaqhubeki yini ukulala nakulo kwangaphambili, kodwa sekuyisikhathi eside sihlelwe ngobudlelwano, asisiniki. Asenze nje nabanye abantu futhi sifuna ukuba sihlale.
I-athikili isilungisile: Lilith Mazikina