Mashi - ngenyanga lapho abesifazane bezwa ikakhulukazi abesifazane. Mashi 8, lapho zigcwele izincomo nezimbali, zizungeze ukunakekelwa kanye nokunakekelwa ... Futhi zonke izinsuku ezilandelayo, lapho ukhumbula ngokwehlukile futhi uzizwa uphikile, njengoba impilo yowesifazane waseRussia empeleni ihlelwe.
Kancane kancane, ubuvale bombono buzokwahlukaniswa, futhi bonke abacasulayo, abangalungile futhi sebesindayo nje bazophinde babe jwayelekile. Okwamanje, akwenzekanga, sekuyisikhathi sokufunda izincwadi, ukubeka emashalofini, konke ngoMashi kusemiphefumulweni yakho.
"Umgogodla uVasilisa, noma ngingedwa," ekaterina mikhailova
Ingxenye yesibili yegama iyesabisa abaningi: Kubukeka njengencwajana evela ochungechungeni oluthi "Ungaba kanjani bitch ekahle futhi uthenge izingubo eziningi." Futhi nokho, uvula le ncwadi futhi ngeke udumazeke.
Akukho ukuhlaziywa kohlelo lwe-anthropological noma yefilosofi. Ayikho imiklamo eyinkimbinkimbi kanye nemigomo, ngesimo sokuthi umuzwa wokuthi le nkulumo ifundwa, ngemuva kwalokho ukuhlolwa kuzoba khona.
Incwadi ikhuluma amagama alula. Mayelana nawe. Mayelana noMama wakho. Ugogo. Abesifazane nxazonke. Mayelana nakho konke obekusebenza - futhi yini, lapho uzwakala ngokuzemalelayo, ngangifuna ukuxoxa.
Indlala. Impi. Udlame lwenhlala-kahle yangaphandle enokuthula okunokuthula. Ukudlwengula nemizamo yabo. Ukukhipha isisu. Izingane ezifiselekayo nezifile. Isehlukaniso sabazali. Sonke isikhathi abavukelayo, sishiya ngenxa yokulawula umzimba: khona-ke unenyanga njalo, ke i-migraine, khona-ke ikhuluphele, khona-ke umqubuko ... Ubaba waphupha umfana. Umama wagxeka ngaso sonke isikhathi.
Amathambo kwikhabethe, izizukulwane izizukulwane ngesizukulwane. Ubuhlungu obabumba ngaphakathi kuwe njengomjovo waphakade, esikhundleni sokuhlanza isilonda bese umnika ukubambezeleka.
Bathi akusekho umfazi wazisola ngokuthi ufunda le ncwadi. Futhi abaningi ngemuva kokugcina bathola ukwesekwa kwangaphakathi.
Ngenxa yokuthi wonke umuntu wayesesihogweni, akakaze ayeke ukuba yisihogo.
"Inganekwane yobuhle. Ama-stereotypes ngokumelene nabesifazane ", uNawomi Wulf
Ngifuna ukuba muhle. Imfashini elungiselelwe kahle, imfashini noma okungenani isitayela. Ubukhulu! Kepha awusiye uBarbie, awunaso isikhathi futhi wenze imali eba yimali, futhi uthukuthelele kakhulu ukuthi amadoda ayamangala futhi atholwe wena ngowesifazane ophilayo, hhayi imodeli eyengeziwe. Konke, uyazi ngentengo yalolu buhle bokufakelwa ... futhi namanje awukwazi ukujoyina lo mjaho we-herrow, ubuhle kanye nethemba eliphakade ebusweni.Ujwayelene?
Umlobi waseMelika uzokutshela okwenzekayo nawe, izitini ezingemuva kwesitini zizokwehlela umbhoshongo wenganekwane enkulu ngobuhle, ziveze umnyombo wakhe, zenze isembozo sedolobhana kanye nokukhangisa kwe-charm.
Akunakwenzeka ukuthi uzoyeka ngokushesha izicathulo futhi usebenzise izimonyo, kepha uzoqonda kakhulu, kakhulu.
Owesifazane uwina lapho evumela yena nabanye besifazane kukhona okuthile futhi lapho ufuna ukuba se-sexy, ukuguga, ukugqoka okusebenzayo, ukugqokwa okuvela esitolo se-balenciaga, ku-manot esitolo sezempi noma amabhuzu ezempi; gqoka noma uhambe ucishe wangenalutho; Ukwenza konke okuthokozisayo, ukulandela imibono yayo mayelana nama-aesthetics noma ungazinaki. Owesifazane uwina lapho ezwa ukuthi iqiniso lokuthi wonke umuntu wesifazane wenza ngomzimba wakhe - ngaphandle kobudlova nokuphoqelela, kuyindaba yakhe yomuntu uqobo.
"Isibili Paul", Simon de Bovar
Incwadi yomunye wezazi zefilosofi ezaziwayo kakhulu zekhulu lamashumi amabili nangobudala kanye nenhlangano yesifazane ikakhulukazi idinga ithuba lokufunda, ukucabanga ukuthula nokuphumula. Ngo-1949, waba yinto efana nebhomu lefilosofi ... futhi lingaba okufanayo nakuwe ngo-2017.
Okokuqala, umbono wokuba nokuba namandla awukwazi ukuhunyushwa ngokufanele; Eqinisweni, akekho noyedwa owake waba nalutho futhi akekho; Ngakho-ke, abantu bazama ukukusebenzisa kabi; Indlela ebabazekayo yokugcizelela ukuthi enye impahla ingeyami ukuvikela abanye ukuba bayisebenzise.
"Imfihlakalo Yobufazi", Betty Freidan
Ukuba ngumama nonkosikazi ofanele, muhle ngaso sonke isikhathi, uhlala emuhle, wonke aphumelela, ngakho konke umabhalane. Uma ungafuni, kufanele namanje. Uma ungacabangi ukuthi kufanele, khona-ke ufuna noma kunjalo.
Yimaphi abesifazane abahle kumamagazini angamashumi ayisihlanu! Njalo ku-parade, ukumamatheka njalo, nendlu
Simply. Makube konke. Iphelele.
Ngizokhuluma ngakho nothile, futhi uyazi ukuthi akekho umuntu ophoqayo.
Ukumemezela ukuthi ngeke ubambe iqhaza kulo mjaho, futhi uzothola ukuthi yini okufanele.
Incwadi ebhalwe nguMelika YaseMelika izoba fanele ngokungazelelwe kuwe namuhla futhi, njengabanye balolu hlu, izosiza kakhulu, ekugcineni ibone futhi iqonde.
Ukuba ngaso sonke isikhathi phambi kwezingane - akusho ukuba wusizo kubo; Kwesinye isikhathi ngokwanele ngomzuzwana ukwenza okuthile okubaluleke kakhulu kubo.