Ngisho nangemva kwesifundo sezinyanga ezintathu ngesisekelo se- "Academy of Health", ungathola isihlungi kwiDiploma lapho "udokotela wezengqondo" ezobhalwa. Futhi umnikazi wale Cydulk angasusa kalula ihhovisi nge-ficus futhi aqale ukuzilolonga. Azwelana kakhulu nalabo abagijimela kochwepheshe abanjalo.
Isazi sezengqondo esihle noma i-Therapist ikwazi ukukala ukwazi kwakho ukuze isebenze ngaphandle kokwehluleka iminyaka eminingi. Okubi kuyakwazi ukusakaza kungcosana ezinyangeni ezimbalwa. Inkinga ukuthi nezincwadi ezinhle aziqinisekisi ukuthi phambi kwakho kunguchwepheshe ofanele. Indlela yokubala ubuchopho obubi ensimini. :
Ithembisa ukunquma konke
Ilokho kuphela. Ngabe uhlale phansi ezweni elihlakazekile nalokugcina? Relax, ngonyaka uzoba ne-yacht yomuntu siqu nomkhwenyana omuhle. Udokotela omubi uthanda ukupenda okutholayo ekugcineni, futhi ufihla ngokucacile ibhola lomlingo ephaketheni lami futhi uthembisa ukuthi amaklayenti ami asheshe ashade ngokushesha, futhi uzophuma "(noma ngabe" ushada " Kuhlu lwakho lwezinto eziza kuqala kuwe, akukufanele).Uyakwazi ukubekezelela
Awukakakukwazi ukuvula umlomo wakho, futhi isazi se-psychotherapist sesivele sakha icebo lokwelashwa futhi limemezele ngokuqinile ukuthi "ngemuva kwezinyanga eziyisithupha sizobhekana nalokhu" futhi "kahle, lapha sebenza amaseshini angama-30, kungaphansi. " Uxwayisa ngokuqinile ukuthi uma ugxumela ekwelashweni ngaphambili, zonke izithwali zizophenduka amathanga.
Ufuna ukuba abangane nawe
Hlala itiye, uxoxa nawe ekhishini kuze kube yilapho isikhathi nangemva - nangemva kwalokho - nangezinto ezingahlobene nokubonisana kwakho. Ikhuluma ngaye, ikhala ngesimo sezulu kanye nezindleko zokuqasha ihhovisi. Izipesheli endabeni yokuthi ongayibiza futhi uthele umphefumulo - mahhala, ukuze wena, ucishe ube ngabantu bomdabu. Ngenxa yalokhu, iqala ukucasulwa lapho semukela ukuqedwa kokwelashwa.Uyakugxeka
Vele, unezinkinga nabazali bakho - bheka izinwele zakho zepinki, ungabona ngokushesha osemusha onzima. Ingabe wena 28? Akunandaba, izinwele zepinki zikhulumela zona. Shintsha umbala wezinwele, umsebenzi (udokotela wezengqondo awuvumi isikhundla sokuya, konke kuncipha), indoda (wena, ngokwesimo sezengqondo, ayifanele Mbone, kepha acishe aqiniseke ukuthi yizona ezifanayo ezinezinhlansi ezinobunhlekile.
Uchwepheshe wephrofayili enobubanzi
Udokotela omubi uzama ukukhipha impendulo yombuzo ngezindlela zakhe ("Yebo, okuncane kwalokho, okuncane kwalokhu"), akwenqaba ukusho ngalo imininingwane eminingi ("lezi yizinto eziqeqeshiwe, udinga ukwazi ") Futhi ubhekane ngqo ngaso leso sikhathi - udokotela wezengqondo wezingane, kanye nomeluleki womndeni, kanye ne-cauche, futhi kuyaqashelwa imali, futhi kudlale. Ngendlela, akekho odingwa yinoma yimuphi wabangane bakho?