Kungani izingane zasithanda isigqoko esibomvu nomfana noKibalchish, futhi manje - umthakathi we-winx-spiderman nohhafu? Kuzobuswa yini amakhathuni aphesheya kanye namaqhawe aphesheya? Ngabe umntwana ufundisa ini i-anime, uzothatha ini ku-batman ne-Harley Queen?
Abaningi babazali ababonwa ngokuvamile, abalingiswa nezindaba zabo abayizingane zabo, bathatha lo mbuzo. Kuxoxwa ngayo kwizithangami nasemihlanganweni yomzali wesikole, ngisho neziza ngazinye zinikezelwe kuye.
Anjani amaqhawe ethu amadala, amnandi ukuncintisana nama-NewST, agqoke ngokukhanyayo njengoba amafilimu ethu namakhathuni ancintisana nemiphumela ekhethekile yokukhiqiza amafilimu yabenzi befilimu nabakhiqizi baseJapan? Ngabe ingane izokwaziswa kuphela waseNtshonalanga? Kukwenzanjani, yini eyenza kudingeke lapho ufuna uchungechunge oluthandayo?
Thina, abadala thina, sinikeza izimpendulo ngomumo. Ngemuva kwakho konke, futhi sasingabantwana abashayisana kanye nomkhakha wamafilimu aphesheya futhi bamhlaba umxhwele. Siyakhumbula ukuthi iRambo kanye ne-terminator bekungamamayela kithi konke okungenzeka 'kutshelwe', futhi izimonyo, ama-aonetity, ama-suaitis amnandi ahehe abalingisi. Asifuni ukuthi ingane icubungule isilinganiso 'sokuphola "kwekhono lomuntu lokulwa nokubulala, futhi sesaba ukuthi ngeke adumazeke ngesikhathi esishaywayo - ngemuva kwakho konke, amafilimu namakhathuni aseba ngaphezulu kukhazimula.
Kepha yini, uma ubuza izingane ngokwakho - kungani banabazali babantu bamaqhawe? Saxoxa nabanye ngezingane - abazali baqonde ukuthi amaqhawe ezizukulwane ngezizukulwane zethu akude kangakanani komunye nomunye.
U-Tim, oneminyaka eyi-11:
"Iqhawe lami engilithandayo nguHarry Potter. Ngifunde ngakho konke. Kwesinye isikhathi ngiyayidlala, ngizofundisa iziphonso ezivela encwadini, ngine-wand magic, futhi ngifuna ukuthenga i-pendant kwiphothifoliyo ngesimo soMsebenzi woVolan. Emhlabelweni wemilingo, uHarry Potter uyakwazisa ukuthi nguyena wedwa owasinda ngemuva kokuvulwa kokufa okusheshayo, kodwa sithanda umlingiswa wakhe, nathi sibangelwa. Futhi sobabili sigqoke izibuko. Umama uHarry Potter uyathanda futhi. "U-Olga, Mama Tima, oneminyaka engama-34, umfazi wendlu, umama omkhulu:
"Ngiyakwazi ukuthi ngokwami ukuthi eminyakeni eyi-11 iqhawe elithile anginalo. KwakunoFreddie Kruger, owayethukile njengobaba, lapho ngineminyaka engaba ngu-4. Futhi ukuze singasabi, "ngenza" umngani wakhe. Yebo, kufana ne-villain nakho konke lokho, kepha ngasizathu simbe akumlimazi, kwesinye isikhathi kuyasiza. Ngakho-ke, nge-grill, manqikanqika, isandla esinjalo sekela phansi ibhola ngenhlonipho "Stupil, babuke lapho uya" kodwa njalo endaweni ethile eduzane.
Ukube ngesaba ukulala, kwangicabanga nako kanye nohlobo lokufana naye ongesabise. Kepha kungenzeka akunjalo impela ...
Bengikuthanda kakhulu ukufunda izinganekwane. Kwehlukile. Kepha akakaze athande amaqhawe ezinganekwane .. kungekudala kwahamba ngokuhamba kwesikhathi. Eminyakeni engu-14 ngangihlobana ngochungechunge lwekhathuni "Sailomun." Ngiyasola, iningi lako konke ngakuthanda ukuthi amantombazane amahlanu ahlukene abezintombi, babambana, bahambe, ngasikhathi sinye umhlaba bayasindiswa! Futhi bengifuna ngempela ukukholelwa ukuthi kukhona amandla afanayo kukho konke, kudingeka kuphela ukuthola. Futhi ama-Plaxes amaningi kakhulu negwala kungenza lokho okudingayo ukuze usindise abangane bakho. "
Yilokho okuthokozisayo! Cishe sonke, abazali abangenakuphikiswa, kwaleyominyaka, okusho ukuthi besibheka ngoMgqibelo namaSonto ama-Disney Partoon - futhi sasinamathala amnyama, uWillie, uDilly, ongowokuthi ungowokuzalwa lesi silwane esibizwa ngokuthi waphukile. Kancane nobani kithi owadlula i-sailormun - i-analogue yaseJapan ye-WinX yanamuhla, kanye nomthakathi uSally - ngandlela thile uHarry Potter esiketi. Kepha abaningi bethu bakholelwa ukuthi bavuka kuphela kumakhathuni nasezindaweni ezifuywayo, kuPinocchio, aveverers aveveres kanye ne-matroskin yekati.
UVita, oneminyaka engu-13:
"I-heroine yami engiyithandayo - uSophie Hatter evela encwadini Diana W. Jones" Walking Castle ". Unenkani futhi unenkani yakhe. Akalahlekelwa, yize iningi lencwadi laphenduka intokazi. Umzuzu wami engiwuthandayo - lapho uSophie wayefuna ukupheka isidlo sasekuseni ngomlilo omnandi womlingo futhi wamncenga ukuba alalele. Sivela kuSophie omama abafanayo, naye wayengenabubi, kodwa wamxhaphaza. Futhi sobabili siyathanda ukufuna izinhloso zethu. Nami ngiyakuthanda ukupheka futhi. Ngithenge incwadi kamama, ngithanda uSophie. "UNick, umama uVita, oneminyaka engama-42, umlobi:
"Lapho ngineminyaka engu-13, ngazama konke okusemandleni ami ukuba ngilingise amaqhawe akho owathandayo - iZorro no-D'Artagnan, bapende nabo nothango ngezinduku. Iqhawe lami engilithandayo kwakunguSasha Yanovskaya kusuka "emgwaqweni uya eDal", kodwa ngakuzwa njengentombi kunasesampula okufanele ngilandele. "
Kwesinye isikhathi sizama ukuhola okuthandwa yingane. Sigcizelela ukuthi ubuke nathi ifilimu ayithandayo yobuntwana, sithenga eyethu - ebuntwaneni - izincwadi zakho ozithandayo. Impumelelo iyeza! Kepha abazali abaningi bakhalaza: isidina, hhayi esijabulisayo, sihlekisa. Futhi ngokuvamile, indodakazi noma indodana kuphela cinema kanye nemiphumela ekhethekile iyathunyelwa, ngeke kukwenze uthathe, ezigcawini esathunjwa, zawns ...
O, lokhu umuzwa wokungabikho, lapho ingane iseduze, kepha isivele iqhubeke njalo!
Ngiyazibuza ukuthi kwaba kanjani abazali bethu. Phambilini bekungekho i-Intanethi, futhi cishe yonke into ebukeka - yabukeka ndawonye, ku-TV, ngamatende amavidiyo. Lapha ngezincwadi, kubonakala sengathi kunenkinga ethile. Babekhuluma kakhulu ngaye ku-TV efanayo futhi babhala komagazini.
ULouis Philipp, oneminyaka eyi-14:
"Ngingumuntu fan spiderman. Kwakuncane, kwakuthandwa ukuyidlala nini, nganginesudi. Manje ukuqoqa izibalo, ukudweba ... Spiderman - iqhawe eliphakeme, usiza abantu, abasindise. Umzuzu wami engiwuthandayo kwifilimu - lapho esindisa intombazane yakhe ayithandayo. Kepha angifuni ukumlingisa ngokungathi sína, ngiqonde, empilweni yansuku zonke. Ngoba wonke umuntu ubuntu. Umama wami noPapa Spiderman bathi. "U-Igor, uPapa Louis Philippa, oneminyaka engama-48, usomabhizinisi:
"Umfana wayengumuntu omkhulu we-chapaev. Iqhawe lempi, lalwa nalo "mhlophe" ngelethu, lafela lo mbono! Udlale kuye, egijima ezungeze igceke enenduku esikhundleni se-sabers naku-Dodge esikhundleni sikababa. Efilimu okwamanje, lapho emfuleni acwila khona, alimala, inhliziyo yanamathela. "
Uma ulalela izingane ngokwakho, zibathanda ngamaqhawe lezi zimfanelo ezifanayo ezaxosha ebuntwaneni baseSoviet: isifiso sokusiza abantu, ukukhuthazela ekufezeni inhloso. Ungabuza kalula: Futhi amandla okuba abangani? Futhi ubona? Futhi ngokushesha baphendule: amawashi afanayo we-winx - umngani. Ku-anime eningi - ubungani bunquma. Ama-Superheroes kunzima kakhulu ukubiza uMercenary, afihlekile ngisho nasenkazimulweni futhi ikakhulukazi ngenxa yemali isiza abantu.
Kepha kukhona okusaklenuka. Kunzima ukuthatha futhi uvume. Nokho kungenye. Iqiniso?
UNastya, oneminyaka engu-15:
"Ngithanda kakhulu i-Nikki Greenwich evela encwadini ethi" Astrovyanka "Nika Gorka. Unobuhlakani obukhulu, obunenjongo, akaze anikele, ungu-altrust futhi uyakwazi ngempela ukuguqula umhlaba ube ngcono. Ngineziqephu ezimbili eziyizintandokazi - lapho uNikki egcina okubukwayo e-Oberone, ngaphandle kokulalela i-supercomputer robbie futhi esebenzisa izibalo zakhe, futhi lapho enza inethiwekhi "yamakilabhu aluhlaza", okwabizelwa ukufundisa abantu abasha. Impilo yami yonke yawuphanga lokhu kuphangwa kuye (hhayi ngokomzimba), kwangena ngisho nesikole esifanayo, kodwa ngiphuthelwa ukukhuthala nomoya. "U-Inna, Umama Nastya, oneminyaka engama-39, umhumushi:
"Bengithanda i-fistine ngu-d'artagnan, ngokuqondile, ngaleso sikhathi empilweni nokuziphatha, kwathonya okuncane, ngoba isikhathi sasikhathazekile ngezizathu eziningi - ngandlela thile aziphathe ngaso sonke isikhathi. Ngaphandle kokuthi ekuseni kakhulu ebuthweni lokuhlolwa okulandelayo, ngacabanga ukuthi ezinye zezinsuku ezikwi-Duels zazihamba - futhi kwavuselelwa kancane yikhona. "
URita, oneminyaka eyi-11:
"Umlingiswa wami engimthandayo yizindlebe eziluhlaza okwesibhakabhaka ezivela encwadini, ebizwa kanjalo. Ngiyayidweba, futhi nginesifanekiso esisodwa. UMargo wayenobuhlakani futhi ehlekisa, ikakhulukazi izindlebe zawo eziluhlaza okwesibhakabhaka, kodwa futhi futhi nohlamvu. Futhi isimilo sakhe siyahlekisa. Sinaye igama elifanayo. Umama uyathanda futhi ubaba akakaze amzwe. "I-Arkady, uPapa Rita, oneminyaka engama-52, udokotela:
"Esikhathini sobuntu esinonyaka ngibe ngithanda uMowgli, Geclberry Finn, Chingachguk. Ngenxa yabo. "
Izindlebe ze-Margo Buluhlaza kanye ne-Nikki Greenwich - izinhlamvu zababhali ezifuywayo. Ngabe badala amandla amancane? Eqinisweni, abazali kanye nabalingiswa banamuhla baseRussia abantu abambalwa abathandayo. Ngaphezu kwalabo abajwayelene nengane yethu - njengo-Aleshi Popovich noma uMasha ngebhere. Futhi abanye ... Yebo, eyethu. Yebo, izingane ziyaguguzisa ukuphendula, ubuciko, isibindi nokukhuthazela.
Kepha bangabafokazi. Hhayi ukucabanga kwethu, kodwa uqobo kithi.
Sethukile ngezincwadi zezincwadi izingane zethu ezifundwayo. Hhayi amaqhawe amafilimu anenqwaba yemiphumela ekhethekile. Hhayi amakhathuni ngenxa yalokho. Siyesaba kwalasha, okubonakala kunwetshwa phakathi kwezingane zethu.
Sinamaphoyinti ambalwa okuxhumana. Esikoleni, afundanga nathi futhi safunda - lokhu ngaphambi kokuhlangenwe nakho okuphelele kwabantu abadala kanye nezingane akusekho ukuxhuma isizukulwane somndeni. Futhi asinakwenza lutho ngakho, asilawuli izikole.
Sasazi izingoma zeSoviet zama-forties namashumi ayisithupha - lezo ezazikuBazali bethu ngemfashini. Ngemfashini yethu, bebengekho, kodwa nobasazi. Izingane zethu, iningi lazo - cha, futhi abaningi kubazali bamanje bazamazamisa okwedlule kwabo ekhanda lezingane esikhundleni nje babelane ngalo. Uma kungenjalo ukuthi noma yini ayingenanga lapho, ukube nje kwakukhona okuvamile nathi.
Konke okuvela lapho, okunganikezwa okuhlangenwe nakho okunye ngaphandle kwethu - i-monster yethu, ethatha izingane zethu.
Ngokufanelekile ... sizokwakha ngokwakho ngaphandle kokwazi ukubhekana nokwesaba kwethu kwabazali nosizi ngenye indlela. Kungenzeka yini nhlobo?
Yebo. Usengazama ukwabelana ngama-movie nezincwadi. Ungaxoxa ngobuntwana bakho - cishe okuxakayo ngengane yesimanjemanje ukuba yikho, ukwenqaba umphetho ophelele wendaba ethanda ukuhamba ngesikhathi, ezweni lezinto eziyinqaba. Ukusuka lapho, ibhuloho eliya engxoxweni emayelana namanani likhanyiswa lula futhi lizofika liqinile.
Ungakha isipiliyoni esisha sonke. Funda ngengane, bheka nengane, hamba ngezinyawo noma ubhalisele umbuthano owodwa.
Awukwazi ukuba nobuvila ukujoyina nolwazi lwayo. Ochwepheshe bezengqondo akumangazi: Khuluma nezingane! Ungagcini nje kuphela ukuthi ufunde imibono, ungabheki nje kuphela izifundo nokwakheka kwezingubo, akugcini nje ngokufundisa - ulalele ukwedlula indlela athande ukuthandwa yimifashini ehlekisayo, lokho akwenzayo ukuze afunde ukuthi angazama kanjani ukukwenza (noNkulunkulu Futhi esikoleni nokwakhiwa).
Futhi yebo, kunjalo. Asifuni ukuthanda umuntu-spider futhi sazi nje icebo lefilimu ngokubamba iqhaza kwakhe. Kubaluleke kakhulu ukuthi siqonde ukuthi kungani ingane imthanda. Yilapho ungathola khona ukuthi usunokufana kakhulu.
ULiana Natroshvili, isazi sezingane Psychilogist:
"Ukwesaba abazali kuyaqondakala, kepha ngenhlanhla, abananhlabathi. Kuliqiniso, amaqhawe ezingane zanamuhla ahlukile kumaqhawe obuntwana sethu, nokho, uma bebukeka kakhulu, kuyacaca ukuthi banezimfanelo ezinhle nengane, babheka ukuthi basize babuthakathaka, babone abathandekayo babo, bavikele abathandekayo babo, bavikele ukuba basize, babone abathandekayo babo, bavikele abathandekayo babo. ukwenza imisebenzi emihle.
Ezinye izingane ziyazwelana nabantu abalwa nama-anti - akukho lutho olubi kulokhu. Kulula futhi unesifiso sokucela ingane ngalokho akuthandayo kuleli qhaya. Kwesinye isikhathi izingane zinzima ukuzivikela zikhetha izinhlamvu eziqinile nezinolaka, izingane ezihlushwa ukwesaba ngaphakathi zingakhetha iziza ezimbi namaqhawe anesibindi. Noma iyiphi indaba ingaphendulwa isisetshenziswa sokuxoxisana nokuxhumana.
Ukukhethwa kwamaqhawe owathandayo kufanele noma kubalulekile ingane enezimfanelo ezinhle, noma labo alahleka kakhulu.
Kuyiqiniso, amafilimu ethu awathandayo nezinganekwane ezifanele zithinta ukwakheka kwethu, kodwa futhi kuthinta futhi ubuhlobo emndenini nasezibonelweni ezinikelwe abantu abaseduze. "
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