I-Society ifuna ukushayela abesifazane kwaba uhlobo oluthile lwezinhlaka zezigqila. Ogogo lapho umnyango, ozakwabo, abangane babazali, kanye nabadlulayo abangahleliwe - ngokuzibheka nje abathwali bolwazi olungcwele ngempilo, njengoba kubonakala sengathi kudingekile kakhulu futhi kubalulekile imibuzo nezeluleko ezibalulekile nezeluleko kanye nezeluleko , ukuze uhlangabezane nabo masinyane izinganekwane mayelana nokuthi yini okufanele ibe yiyo.
Ukuvuka kwelukuluku okungalawulwa, yonke le mibuzo ecasulayo ecasulayo "Uzoshada nini?", "Lapho uzala i-tattoo?", "Uthola ini?" , "Yini umfana wedijithali?", Ngamunye wethu wazwa okungaphezu kwesisodwa hhayi amabili. Ngazama ukunamathela ngamahloni, ngithule, kepha laba bantu bafana ne-asphalt asphalt - baze bafinyelele - abaqiniseki.
Ukwanele ukubekezelela lokhu! Pics.ru uyazi ukuthi ungabashiya kanjani abeluleki abangenakuphikiswa! Ungathumela ngokushesha i-interlocutor lapho izalwa khona, kepha sikholwa ukuthi empilweni kufanele ngaso sonke isikhathi kube mnandi kakhulu!
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Imibuzo engalungile iyancela, ngoba ikwenza uzizwe ukhathazekile futhi uphoqelekile ukubathethelela empilweni yakho. Musa ukuqhubeka ne-negative, ukhokhe imali yohlamvu lwemali olufanayo! Lapho uzakwethu ongenamqondo futhi ungabaza, kungani ubukeka ukhathele futhi ungazange wehluleke nomuntu wakhe, uhlale phansi kwakhe, ubheke kakhulu emehlweni akhe, ukuklwebheka akle ndabuko bese uqala indaba yami edabukisayo.
Ake ungitshele ukuthi sekuyisikhathi eside ngilindele icala ukuthi lihlanganyele kulo, bengilindele eminyakeni eyi-15 eyedlule, lapho yonke into iqala ukuqeda ... futhi uzakwethule uzakwethu ngokungethukile Bheka iwashi, Qhubeka uqhubeke ukhulume! Ubuzile? Siyaphendula! Mayizisole kakhulu indoda ukuthi yaqala ukukhuluma nawe !! Ukushaqeka uFrankness nakanjani kuzothatha ukuzingela ukukhuluma nezihloko zakho futhi kuzovumela esikhathini esizayo ukugwema noma yimiphi imibuzo.
Indlela 2.
Enye indlela ephumelelayo ukuphazamiseka. Ilungele abantu abangajwayelekile. Cha, bonisa umunwe wakho ngemuva kwe-interlocutor kanye nokumemeza "umlilo!", Akukufanele. Kalula nje, ukuzwa umbuzo ongathandeki, ukuhumusha ngokushesha ngesihloko. Mhlawumbe emfundzi. Uzokubuza ukuthi lapho uthola ingane, futhi uphendula: "Izolo omakhelwane bagcwala izikhukhula ngokuthi banekati epanini ...". Futhi lapha ngasikhathi sinye siyiphi isikhala sokuqhubeka nengxoxo! Ungaxoxa ngezinsizakalo zezindlu kanye nezintengo eziphakeme ze-PRQUET entsha, omakhelwane bomndeni, ukungabi nabulungisa kwezinkampani zabaphathi, ukusheshisa okuzayo - ngokuvamile, konke esihlokweni.
Kodwa-ke, ungaphambukisa noma yini, noma ngabe kuyizinwele zekhanda, izimbuzi ezintsha ze-melodrama noma izimbuzi ekhaya - zingena engxoxweni emnandi yawo wonke udoti, i-interlocutor izokhohlwa ukuthi ubuzile.
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Kukholakala ukuthi uphendule umbuzo ombuzweni omubi, kepha uma isikhathi eside kakhulu ecaleni lakho, akukho okuba khona kwenkulumo. Ngakho-ke zizwe ukhululekile ukubuza imibuzo yokuphendula! "Futhi wawuthola umsebenzi?", "Uzokubuza, futhi uphendula:" Yini oyinikele ekudleni kwakho? " Walulama! " Ngakho-ke ungasinaki isihloko esingathandeki, futhi ojwayelekile wakho uzoqala ukukhathazeka kwangaphakathi kwe-monologue.
Ngalesi sikhathi, ngeke iphazanyiswe ngumsebenzi wakho, izokhathazeka nge-borsch edliwe ebusuku, izinhlangothi eziwile, amapulani ovalo lokunciphisa isisindo, uhambo lwebhizinisi lomyeni olujwayelekile kanye nomakhelwane webhizinisi elijwayelekile. Kepha isifiso sokuqhubeka nawe ingxoxo ngeke ibe ngaso leso sikhathi, futhi uyajabula!
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Enye yezizathu zokukhulisa isithakazelo sabanye empilweni yakho uthando lwakho lokuhleba. Amabhuzu amasha, izingxenye ezijwayelekile, imizwa enhle, sebenza kuze kube sebusuku - qiniseka ukuthi konke lokhu kuyaxoxwa futhi kugxekwa njalo. Ngakho-ke, ukukubuza uhlobo oluthile lombuzo ongalungile, imvamisa i-interlocutor ifuna ukuthola into eyodwa - inhlabathi yenhlebo neziphambano! Ungakuvumeli! Kungcono - masinyane umnikeze umkhiqizo wokugcina. Umbuzo "Ngabe unazo, izinkinga emndenini?" Uzophendula: "Hawu, kepha uJolie nge Pitt ngokuvamile!"
Ukufaka ngamandla ukuthi kufanele uthole kangakanani izingane, noma ngabe ududuzeke kangakanani uBrad, yini uJolie ngowesifazane oqinile - ngokuvamile, enikeza ukudla okuyigugu okubonisiwe futhi ekwazile, eshiya inhlebo, eqinisweni, ayinalutho.
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Lapho, esidlweni sikaKhisimusi sikaKhisimusi, uBridget Jones wabuza ukuthi kungani engakashadi, waphendula wathi ngemuva kokuthi abesifazane bembozwe izikali, ngakho-ke akekho obathatha. Lokhu mhlawumbe akusona isibonelo esihle kakhulu sokuhlekisa okukhazimulayo, kepha wasebenza ngendlela kufanele - washaya zonke izifiso zokukhuluma nezihloko zakhe. Uma usakwazi ukuba nobungane ukubhekana nokuhlaselwa ngobuhlakani bokungabi nalunokuba, ucabanga ngaphambi kokuphendula okunobuhlakani kuyo yonke imibuzo engemihle kakhulu. "Uyini umfino?", "Ngoba ngiyazonda izitshalo", "lapho uhola ingane?", "Mhlawumbe manje!" . Akukho okucacisiwe kusuka kuwe ngeke kufezeke umuntu, ngakho-ke, ithuba ngeke esakuxosha, kukhona.
Indlela 6. Indlela Esebenzayo
Uma zonke izinketho ezingenhla zingasebenzi futhi ukugeleza kwezinkinga ezingenangqondo akuzange kuyeke, zenze ngesibindi futhi ngokungagxili! Uma i-interlocutor iqhubeka njalo inesifiso semininingwane esondele kakhulu yempilo yakho, bheka kuye kahle emehlweni nasekuphenduleni: "Akukukhathazi." Ungesabi ukubonakala kunamabala. Uma ubatshela konke ocabanga ngakho ngokusetshenziswa kwesitoko esibanzi sesilulumagama angcolile, khona-ke kuzoba nzima ngempela, ngakho-ke - pah!
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