Sijwayele ukubala futhi siqoqe ngokunqoba kwethu kanye nokufeza kwethu, kube sengathi kusenza lokho esiyikho. Yize eqinisweni, iziteleka nezinyathelo zokukude zisilungisa kahle kakhulu kunama-buns.
Umshado wakho wawa
Yebo, noma cha umshado, futhi ngenxa yalokho, uma uphila esonweni nasezinhlangothini - akazibalulekanga kangako. Ukuba khona noma ukungabikho kwesitembu akubathinta kakhulu indlela esisabela ngayo engozini yephupho. Kuyiqiniso, umhlangano wakho wawungajabuli futhi yonke le minyaka akufanele ibizwe iphonswe emoyeni, kepha ukuhlukana kungenye yezinsika ezibaluleke kakhulu empilweni yakho.Asikaze sibhajwe eziqongweni zokuzihlaziya ngokujulile, ngokungathi siphuthume. Futhi lokhu ukuzethemba kungakulethela kalula umbono wokuthi kwesinye isikhathi uyimbongolo yangempela. Kwezinye izikhathi kuyasiza ukucabanga ngesihloko esithi "Engingakwenzanga ngakho" futhi ngilinganise amadivayisi ami ukuze ngikwenze. Yazi futhi uqaphele ama-shoals akho nobuthakathaka - isinyathelo esibalulekile sokukhula.
Ngasikhathi sinye, uzokwenza ukucwaningwa kokuziphatha komlingani wangaphambili futhi aqaphele ukuthi kwesinye isikhathi wayengeyona imbongolo, kunokuba uphuphuthekiswe yi-sublimation, ngasizathu simbe kwahlupheka. Ungakholelwa eHollywood, umshado awuguquki abantu. Kepha isehlukaniso - yebo, kwenzeka.
Wawushunqiswa emsebenzini
Ngemuva kwe-Layoff yokuqala, ngifuna ukuwela kusofa futhi ngibe nokwakha iziphindiselo ngomphathi ononya. Kepha yilokhu impela okuyi-tack yamandla namandla okufika kuwo wonke ama-paws amane, adingekayo ekuqaleni kwendlela yomsebenzi. Sekuvele kwenzeka futhi akukho phuzu lokubuza "kuShah ?!" - Kubaluleke kakhulu ukubuyekeza isabelomali, uphonsa izindonga zokudoba ngomsebenzi omusha bese ekugcineni cabanga ukuthi kubaluleke kangakanani ukuba nomcamelo wezimali esimweni salezi zinkomba zesikhathi.
UQHAWULEKILE ISIVIVINYO
Ake sithi unenhlanhla, futhi ushiya lesi simo ngesethi ephelele yezandla nemilenze, uqede ukwethuka okukhanyayo. Hhayi-ke, kulula kanjani: ngokwanele ukushintsha izingubo zangaphansi futhi uphuze ibhodlela lekhwela ukuze lizolise izinzwa, futhi konke kuzolunga.Futhi lapha kulesi simo - ngisho nangaphambi kokugcina i-visar - kuzodingeka ubhekane namaphoyisa, umnikazi wemoto, lapho wenza khona ngempumelelo, inkampani yomshuwalense, i-auto mechanics, ongakwazi ukunquma ukuthi yini okufanele uyitshele Wena - "Makadunyiswe izifunda eziphilayo" noma "ungubani uqeda i-idiot." Siyathembisa, kusukela manje kuqhubeke uzoya ezingeni elisha lokuvuthwa futhi ayeke ukuxoxa kuma-verssergers endleleni, ephethe isondo ngedolo.
Umndeni ucindezele yonke imali oyilondolozile
Futhi uzohamba ushaye ibhange lakho le-piggy njengoba lihle, ngoba umndeni ubaluleke kakhulu kunemali. Kuzwakala kumnandi, kepha kunjalo. Futhi lapho sithi "umndeni" - asisho hhayi kuphela izihlobo zegazi, njengalabo ocabangisisa ngazo "ezethu." Futhi umuzwa wokuthi emnyama ungasekela inkomishi yakho hhayi kuphela inkomishi ye-cocoa eshisayo namagama enduduzo, kukwenza ube ngumdala ngokweqiniso.