Kungazelelwe uyazi ukuthi umngane wakho nengane wakuthokozela esibhedlela. Udinga ukwenza okuthile! Uthatha ifoni ulenga. Kufanelekile ukuphazamisa? Lapho, mhlawumbe, kungenzeka izinqubo? Kepha ungabizi - ngandlela thile kubi. Uthini kuye? Ngingakusiza kanjani?
Uma umuntu ngokwakhe eduma esibhedlela - imvamisa sinomqondo othile wokuthi yini okufanele siyenze:- I-Light Version: Phuma kanye ngamawolintshi
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Uma umngane wakho elele esibhedlela, khona-ke amawolintshi kungenzeka angadingeki (izingane zivame ukungalali kuzo), nangombuzo wokuthi "uzophendula" ngokuqinisekile, uzophendula: "Yebo, yini ongaphendula ngayo Usizo ...". Uma-ke, kwenqabe, akwenqabe, anikezi igazi.
Futhi lokhu akungenxa yokuthi kulungile futhi kuhle. Futhi ngoba ukuthatha nokuthola ukuthi unezimbobo kuphi futhi yiziphi izimbobo manje, futhi yiziphi kulezi zimbobo ozivalela ubuchwepheshe, futhi okubaluleke kakhulu, yini ongeke uyibuze ukuthi uthole amaphuzu aphelele! Ngakho-ke, uMkhandlu ungowokuqala:
Chaza imibuzo yakhe udinga ukuphendula ngoyebo noma cha
- Akadingi ukuletha noma ukuthatha idokhumenti? Kusuka ekhadini lezingane le-polyclinic? I-fluography yakhe yomtholampilo wabantu abadala? Ingabe izivivinyo zakhe azikwazi ukudlula kuzo, futhi umphumela uyadingeka ukuthola imilenze? Mhlawumbe emsebenzini udinga ukuthatha okuthile ngephuzu futhi ukhombe b, nakho konke lokhu kufakwe?
- Awudingi ukushayela enye ingane yakhe kuphi (izingane?) Ubaba emsebenzini, khona-ke esibhedlela, futhi umculo nokudweba kuvame ukuba yi-PS ngaphansi komsila. Mhlawumbe hamba ngezimpelasonto ndawo thile e-zoo? Futhi mhlawumbe, ngokuvamile, ukususa ugogo komunye muzi, noma uthathe isonto ngokwami - noma yini eyenzekayo.
- Uma kukhona izilo ezenziwe ekhaya, thola ukuthi ngubani owasala ubhekene nazo. Mhlawumbe unekati lekati ngosuku lwesithathu lihlala, izinhlanzi zingafakwanga futhi izimbali azikho ezepolitiki.
- Ngabe udinga ikhaya, hhayi isibhedlela, kepha alithengwanga, ukudla? Isibonelo, isobho lenkukhu entsha. Futhi kwenzeka kanjani? Uma uhlala njalo - kunengqondo ukudala iqembu futhi usakaze ukupheka ngosuku phakathi kwabo bonke abangane nezihlobo, bese kwenzeka kungenalutho, bese kukhulu.
- Ukusebenzisa kabusha izingane esibhedlela zinesithukuthezi kakhulu futhi zikhululekile. Ngabe ingane idinga okuthengisiwe - ipulasitiki, i-lego, izincwadi, ama-diaper? Yini engcono ukuthenga okusha noma ukufika ekhaya ekhaya lakhe ukuze libaluleke kakhulu?
- Ngabe udinga ukuzidla? Ama-gaskets nsuku zonke, iMicellek ejwayelekile, elahlekile ngokuphuthuma ukushaja? I-shampoo encane?
- Mhlawumbe thatha okungcolile, futhi ngosuku olulandelayo kulethwa luhlanzekile futhi lomile? Yebo, uma ubaba noma ugogo enza lokhu. Futhi uma kungenjalo?
Unganikezi futhi ungavumelani, noma ngabe uyabuza
munye. Okuphakelayo, Phuza futhi Uhlabe umyeni oncishwe amathuba.
Okokuqala, yilabo bantu abangakwazi ukuzinakekela empilweni yansuku zonke, imvamisa baqala ukungatholakali komkakhe ogibela kuye ("ubulili - Lolu hlobo lwenkonzo. Unjani futhi? Kungani njengawe ngokwakho? ")
Okwesibili, usakwenza konke okungalungile.
Okwesithathu, ubufazi akwenzi kube kudingekile ukuphatha indoda njengesilwane esenziwe ekhaya - kuyacasula, futhi isidalwa esinengqondo uqobo siyoba sibi kakhulu.
2. Yenza umsebenzi wakhe oyinhloko.
Lapho nje into yokuthatha noma iqhube okuthile ukusayina okuthile - kungenzeka. Kepha ibhizinisi eliyingozi kakhulu ukuhlala ekukhuleni okugcwele. Ngaphandle kokuthi, esimweni esibi kakhulu, lapho behlala nosuku kulo msebenzi nokuningi okuvela kunoma yini, futhi konke kuzokuqeda ukuxoxisana ngandlela thile ngamakhasimende kanye nentombi yakho ngentombi yakho, njengoba kufanele kube njalo ekhishwe esibhedlela.
Ngoba umsebenzi awunasidingo sokwazi ukuthi umngani wakho uyathathelwa indawo.
Ngoba namanje awenzi njengoba kufanele.
Futhi ngubani ozokwenza umsebenzi wakho ngalesi sikhathi?
Kuthunyelwe ngu: Aya Mikheeva