Mayelana nabayeni bangaphambili bavame ukuthi abafileyo, kuphela kunalokho: noma kubi, noma lutho. Futhi ngeze ngokuphelele. Ngendlela efanele kwi-projectile (ngomqondo ongokomfanekiso, kungenzeka futhi ukuba ngqo) umyeni wangaphambili - isilwane esiwusizo ngokuphelele (ngomqondo ongokoqobo, kepha kungenzeka, kodwa kungenzeka ukuthi kuphaphathekile).
Kusukela umyeni wangaphambili:
Ikhulisa ngokuphelele ukuzithemba
Yebo, uma ekuqaleni waya emodeni yemfashini esencane, khona-ke ukuzithemba kwamisa kancane ngodonga kuya kuma-smomereens. Kepha bekuyini? Futhi manje usehlanjululwe konke, kungazelelwe kwakudala nemodeli sekuphonswe isikhathi eside. Futhi ulahlekelwe isisindo, ubhulekile, wenza umsebenzi futhi unothando oluncane ngama-roses ne-sushi. Ukubheka okukodwa okwenziwe kwenza isimo sesonto lonke.
Esikhundleni sezingcingo ezingamashumi amabili kuZek
Amadoda ahlelwe ngendlela ekhohlisayo enjalo abangayazi ukuthi bangalungisa kanjani ama-cranes angamanje (amanzi) kuphela (ngalesi sikhathi esigabeni). Kepha lapho owayengubo bacela ukusiza - indoda masinyane yazi kanjani. Ngaphandle kwalapho, kunjalo, okwenziwa izingane zangaphambili, isigodlo kanye nezinso. Futhi, ngendlela, azikho amahlandla angamakhulu amabili ukukhumbuza izikhathi eziyikhulu nezikhathi eziyikhulu zokuhlakulela - kwanele ukubiza kanye.
Isebenza mahhala nanny
Noma yimuphi umama omuhle ngezikhathi ezithile kufanele adakwe, alale ezihlahleni kanye ne- "Yo-HU!" Umama omuhle, ongeyenzeki kusuka ku "Yo-Hu-HU!", Kunalokho uyawohloka ngokushesha futhi uqala ukonakalisa izingane. Uma kungenjalo ingxenye, khona-ke le ndoda ibhekana kahle nendlalifa. Njengoba kungazelelwe inquma ukuthi ungubaba omuhle, futhi ikhuphuka ngokuziqhenya. Bayawuthanda lo muzwa, ngakho-ke makanciphe. Yo-hu!
Ukhonza njenge-vest kamama wakho
Lapho nje umama evula umlomo ukuthi akutshele ukuthi yiliphi i-freak umyeni wakho wamanje, udinga ukububula futhi umtshele lokho, izinsuku nje, u-ex wabhala futhi. Ngokumelene nalesi sizinda, kubukeka njengamanje kufana ne-batman, futhi umama wehlela umusi. Futhi wonke umuntu muhle.
Isiza ngokwezimali
Abanye abesikade benza njalo. Kuliqiniso, kucishe kube yizidalwa ezinganekwane, njengama-unicorns. Kepha, ecaleni elibi ngokweqile, ake sivumele ukucekelwa phansi futhi sibe puleke, umyeni wakhe wangaphambilini angasiza. Ngakho-ke abayeni bakho abedlule, amathuba akho aphakeme ukuba angafanga nendlala ngonyaka onzima.
Udonsela izifiso eziyimfihlo
Uma uqoqa egumbini elilodwa langaphambili, elilodwa futhi liwabuke, libukeka kahle kanjani baphuza ubhiya, kunomuzwa wokusebenzisa iphupho eliyimfihlo le-harem, lapho wonke umuntu ekuthanda khona. Futhi isibuko sibheke ngokuzumayo ebuhleni bedwala, kungakhathalekile ukuthi isisindo, ubudala nezinye izici zobuchwepheshe nezobuchwepheshe.
Ithatha indawo ye-psychotheratist
Ehlombe lesikhathi sangaphambilini ungahlala ukhalela - okwedlule akuzwakali yingozi (ngoba akunjalo), ulalele ngokucophelela futhi nezeluleko zinikeza. Kwesinye isikhathi - kuhle impela. Ngendlela, akunandaba ukuthi ubani okhalayo ihlombe. Uma ukhalela ehlombe lakhe - kukuhlupha ekhanda nasekuzisole. Uma esekwakho - umshaye ekhanda lakho ucabange: "I-ha ha, kanjalo wena, imbuzi, futhi kunesidingo." Ngokuvamile, i-psychotherapy eyodwa eqinile.
Iqinisekisa ukukhohlisa
Akukho lutho oluthuthukisa ubudlelwano nendoda efanelekile njengezinto ezimbi ezedlule zempilo yomndeni. Usuvele wazi kahle ukuthi yini okufanele uyilinde, kungani ungalindi, kungani ungadingi ukumemeza, Hlobo luni lweZakydon oluthethelela, futhi luyini. Uma umyeni wakhe wangaphambili evela emkhakheni wakho wokubuka kuze kube manje, usebenza njengesikhumbuzo esihle kakhulu, engcono kunanoma yimuphi ugesi.
Isiza ukuzwa i-vertex
Sinezintombi eziningi ezimangalisayo nawe. Ezihlakaniphile, zinhle, kodwa zodwa. Futhi yikuphi esibhakabhakeni nasengilazini yewayini ekhishini lakho: "Futhi kuphi, jikelele, wonke amadoda?" Imvamisa abahleli be-internocuutor ekuphenduleni kuphela ukububula (kanye nesibhakabhaka). Kepha ungakhetha ukuphindaphinda okwengeziwe, ukuze ujwayelani, ukufundisa intombi ukuze usebenzise lo msebenzi wangaphambili, wonke umuntu uzojabula, futhi usazoba inganekwane enhle.