Akukhathalekile ukuthi kwenzeka kanjani - umsebenzi kufanele usolwe, umbuzo wezindlu ubelokhu uyisindlu, impilo ayivumeli noma into yomuntu siqu. Kepha kwenzeka nje ukuthi ingane yakho ayihlali nawe, kepha nogogo, umalume noma ubaba.
Futhi uza ukumbona ngempelasonto kuphela, ngezikhwama ezigcwele zezipho kanye nomuzwa wecala. Ungahlala kanjani ngomama ngisho nangesimo esinjalo futhi ungalahlekelwa ukuxhumana nengane?
Dala amasiko
Sengathi wena nengane mayibe yisiko lakho - kuphela kuwe. Isibonelo, funda kusihlwa, dweba umlindo omkhulu wamadolobha angokomfanekiso weWatman noma ulungiselele ndawonye ngezimpelasonto.Lawa masiko azoba yi-ancho, i-tinder eqinile, futhi ingane izokwazi - vumela isibhakabhaka sithathe emhlabathini, kodwa abapheki ngeSonto babaluleke kakhulu, futhi ubenza kube yiwo kuphela.
Musa ukukhotha ukuxhumana
Ngenhlanhla, kulula manje - izingcingo, ama-sms, imilayezo ku-Facebook ne-Povel Letter, kepha - nsuku zonke. Myeke azwe ukuthi phakathi kwempelasonto awuwi ndawo - ulapha, ubalulekile kuwe futhi uhlala ulungele ukusiza. Cha, kungukuzikhethela ngokuphelele ukuhola inkulumo ende ngempilo. Ngisho "ubusuku obuhle" obulula, kepha nsuku zonke kuzokwanela.
Gcina Izithembiso
Uma uthembise ukuthi uzoya e-zoo kule mpelasonto, kubuhlungu ekhekhe, kodwa i-zoo izonikeza. Azikho izizathu zakho zengqondo zengane ngeke zibonakale. Kuzoba nje ukudumazeka okukhulu nokuthuka.
Ungayithengi
Lokhu, okokuqala, akunangqondo ngokuhamba kwesikhathi. Ingane lapho ikhula, izokhohlwa wonke la mathoyizi nezingubo umama wamgqekeza ngempelasonto, kepha nokho uzokhumbula ukuthi wakubona ngempelasonto.Okwesibili, kuyingozi ngokubuka kwesikhashana. Kunobungozi obuzokwazi ngezipho zakho buzoshintsha ube yisonto lamasonto onke uSanta Claus, lapho kungadingeki khona izipho ezingadingeki.
Khombisa kunawe uhlala
Uma ingane isivele ikhulile, zama ukumchazela ukuthi kungani uhlala ngaphandle, kepha - ngokucophelela. Uma isizathu somsebenzi, shintsha ehhovisi lakho, khombisa okwenzayo, - makangakuboni umsebenzi wakho njengomuntu ongaziwa.
Yehlisa umoya
Ungalokothi uvumele ukuklebhula umzwa omubi enganeni, noma ngabe ukhathele, njenge-savara, futhi ngokujwayelekile isonto lalingu-lousy. Ukubona kanye ngesonto, noma ngaphansi, ukulinda, ukukhumbula, futhi lapha uvela, konke lokhu kusesikhaleni.
Kunzima ukubhekana nawe - Hlela indawo ye-buffer phakathi komsebenzi nomndeni. Faka isizungu sehora, uqambe amanga kubhavu, funda incwadi, ekugcineni. Yebo, kususa ihora lokuxhumana nengane. Kepha kuzokubona uzolile futhi ujabule, futhi amahora asele azoba okwakho nowakhe, hhayi ukucasuka kwakho.
Ungatholi abangane
Ngeke azethembe izimfihlo zakho. Uzobethemba kothile osondele njalo - ugogo, noma ubaba, noma umanti, kodwa hhayi wena. Ukuzibophezela ngalokhu futhi ungakukhiphi noma yini kukhokhiswa kuyo. Ukwethembana kuyafundwa iminyaka futhi akunikezwanga ngokufunwa.Ungaphinde ufundise kabusha
Mhlawumbe awukuvumeli okuthile ezindleleni zemfundo kagogo. Kepha lapho-ke udinga ukukhuluma nogogo wami, hhayi ingane. Wayenesithombe sakhe somhlaba ekhanda lakhe, ngemibono ecacile yokuthi akudingekile kanjani.
Futhi uma ugogo evumela ukuthi ukhuphuke ezihlahleni futhi ungadli isobho, futhi ngokuzumayo ungavumeli, futhi uyamemeza, - uphenduka ngokuzenzakalela abe yi-acces yomhlaba. Indlela embi yokuhlala enganeni eduze.