Kulungile, ake sithi sifinyelele amalungiselelo athile ongawakwazi futhi yini engenziwa nezingane zakho. Futhi kuthiwani ngabanye?
Abafokazi Izingane zinhle futhi zijabulisa uma zisezithombeni. Khula kufanele, ufunde njalo kahle futhi ungalokothi ukhiphe imisindo. Nikeza ezintathu. Cha, nikeza ikhulu. Lapho ingane yomunye umuntu inemithathi ebukhoneni bakho, amabhuzu akho futhi inesifiso esiphuthumayo kokuqukethwe kwamaphakethe kamama wakho, kuyabonakala - into efana nale ndoda yomunye umuntu ibukeka njengeyakho. Cha, hhayi ubuso hhayi ngisho neziqeshana. Ngokukhipha imiphumela - wena.
Ngasikhathi sinye, noma yiziphi izenzo zakho, ngaphandle kokunganaki okuphelele, ubungozi ukuletha izintambo eziningi.
Esikukhuphuka hhayi ebhizinisini lakho!
Ubani lapha? Ubuzile?
Khuphuka okwakho!
Yebo, ngokuvamile, wena ngokwakho ucabanga ukuthi akukho okumele kwenziwe ekukhulisweni kwezingane (ikakhulukazi, ngokwesibonelo, izingane zakho). Ikakhulu, uma uke wathola kaninginingi nabantu abahlukile, abaphatha ingane engaziwa ngokuvinjelwa okuthile, banikela, njenge-ponaroshka, ukuze bahambisane nabo, khona-ke bayehlela noma yiziphi izinto ezivumelekile ekhaya lakho. "Uyaphi i-puddle ??? Ngabe ufuna ukuminza? " "Kungani udla lokhu kumnandi? Ngubani okunikeze i-COCA-Cola ye-Nightmare? Uzogula futhi ufe! "
Kungazelelwe kuvela ukuthi noma yikuphi ukububula okuqondiswa kwengane yomunye umuntu kuyinto yokuzama ukuthwebula amalungelo abazali bakhe. Qedela ubuhlakani nokuphulwa kwemingcele. Ngakolunye uhlangothi, akekho umuntu okhansele imingcele yakho. Nezingane zabanye abantu, njengoba ezabo, zimane zithanda ngokwanele ukulandelela imingcele kababekazi womunye umuntu. Okufanele ngikwenze
Inketho 1. "Hawu, lo ngumuntu?"
Indlela efanelekayo kunazo zonke yokuphatha i-Drangeager Doteager ukuheha abazali bayo. Isebenza kangcono lapho kunabazali kunokuchofoza. Wena umphathi kababa noma unesibhamu ezandleni zakho. Ngaphandle kwalokho, umphumela uncike ekutheni kungakanani kwalokhu, ngokungangabazeki uHawk, abantu (babeletha okungenani ingane eyodwa) ngokuvamile kunokuqonda abanye abantu abanamalungelo athile nemingcele ethile. Ngaphandle kwalokho, ekukhaleleni "okunamaphini anengane ephuma emanzini olwandle ?!" Sizothola i-lazya "ye-lasya, ungakhohlwa ukugeza imbongolo." Isimanga (Eqinisweni - Cha), kepha izingane ezizikhukhumezayo nezingathandeki zivame ukuba ngabazali abazikhukhumezayo nabangathandeki. Igazi Net Malfoev, konke lokho.
Kepha kungenzeka kube okuphambene. Futhi lokhu kushaywa okungavamile, okuchithekayo nokudla u-ayisikhilimu wakho akunakunakwa ukuze kuhlale ngosizo lwepinki, futhi cishe umuntu okhubazekile okhubazekile ngosizo lwepinki sekuvele kukhulunywa, kepha kusaqonda ukuthi kungenzeka, futhi yini engeyona. (Futhi kwenzeka ukuthi kungakhulumi, maye) ke, kungenzeka kakhulu, abazali baxolise, bazochaza futhi bazame ukukala amathuba okunxephezela kabi nomonakalo.
Mhlawumbe incazelo ethile yokuthula yenkinga yenziwa. Abazali ngobuwula abakwazanga ukulandelela okuthile. Ingane ingadideka futhi yamukelwe ngokungafanele. Noma izinyanga ezimbili, njengoba kwamukelwe futhi kuncane mowgli. Ngakho-ke kuncenga abazali - ngokuvamile, hhayi inketho embi.
Inketho 2. "Umfana, bheka ngihlala"
Ake sithi labo ababhekele ingane ababonakali noma usizo lwabo akufanele balinde. Futhi nale ngane usaxhumana futhi uthintane. Lokhu kungomncane emgodini wakho omncane, noma umakhelwane wakho egumbini, noma ekilasini lengane yakho. Futhi ungaphunyuki noma ulahle indawo yakho, kepha ubekezelele buthule - okungenangqondo. Futhi umama, ngiyaxolisa, ulala. Noma nganoma yisiphi isicelo kufaka phakathi i-hubalka.
Ngaphezu kolaka oluqondile noma olungaqondile, kunezindlela ezimbalwa kakhulu zokwazisa imingcele yemingcele angayifika lapho. Isibonelo, iphrothokholi yezombusazwe. Ngokwesimo, ngobungane futhi ngokuzolile ukuthi kungani ungavumelani nokuthile. Futhi kwimodi efanayo, njengoba ngangichazela ingane yami. Noma uzakwabo. Noma umama. Uma intombazane edlalayo nendodakazi yakho, ihlala ikucela ukuthi ugqoke umakhalekhukhwini wakhe lapho uhlangana - wamcela ukuba aqale iphakethe lezicucu noma isikhwama. Ngoba konke uma umama wakhe embiza lapho eshanela ekujuleni, noma ngokuzumayo uzophazamisa futhi uphonsa lolu cingo - unalo; Kusekupheleni, wonke umuntu kufanele abe nesibopho sezinto zawo. Noma ingane isetshenziswa kweminye imithetho - kahle, ini, akukho ikhaya, nansi indawo yakho. Samukelwe lapha.
Iphuzu eliyisihluthulelo lapha liyincazelo ezolile. Awuhlaseli. Awukhuphuli (u-Ozhas) ingane yomunye umuntu, umane wazise ngemithetho esebenza ngohlaka lwakho. Ngaphezu kwakho, ngubani ongakwazisa ngakwengane? Ah, abazali abavumelani yini imithetho yakho? Banelungelo lokuthatha ingane nensimu yakho, konke okuhle, bekumnandi ukuhlangana.
Inketho 3. "Ama-Comrades, ake silandele nje into ethakazelisa kakhulu"
Ake sithi amathuba okuxoxisana nge-fucking encane ngokusobala aphansi, kepha abanabazali eduze noma ababekezelelekile kakhulu ekuhluphekeni, abangenzi. Okuxakile ngokwanele, kuleli cala ukuthi kushicilelwa indlela ephumelela kakhulu.
Isilinganiso esivela ku-FB enobungane, ngemvume yombhali:
"Side emgqeni emtholampilo, umugqa mkhulu, kunezindawo ezimbalwa.
Eduze kwami ngihlala intokazi ekhona. Kusondela ekuphendukeni kwakhe, uyavuka futhi intombazane iwele endaweni yayo, ngeminyaka, eyishumi - ishumi nanye futhi isho ngokucacile:
- NOL, mbonge ubonga uNkulunkulu, ekugcineni othile waphakamisa imbongolo yakhe enamafutha futhi ngihlala phansi.
Nokuthula. Futhi kwanelisa ukugigitheka kwalo muntu.
Ngibheka ku-Heating kuye - nifiga, akukho mpendulo. Ngempela ngiphawula "nokho" futhi uMilf uqala ngokushesha - ukukhathazeka ngokushesha "akungihlaze, cabanga ukuthi bathini," njll. Kepha okuqondile kusobala ukuthi akanamahloni ngamazwi ngokwawo. Unamahloni ngeqiniso lokuthi azwakala "
Asidingi iqonde njengamanje ukuze sichithe ukususwa okunempilo kwayo yonke imbuzi encane, yathola indawo yomphakathi. Kwanele ukukhumbuza iqiniso lokuthi le ndawo isesidlangalaleni. Ngokuyinhloko, le yindlela ebaluleke kunazo zonke abamkhulu emabhentshini asetshenziswa ngamazinga ahlukahlukene okubuswa. Sonke siyakhumbula bonke ubuntwana, yeka indlela eyingozi - konke abakubonayo, ngeke baxazulule lutho ngokuthile.
Lapha, njengasezinguqulweni ezedlule, kufanele uhambe nge-razor blade - futhi ungakhuphuki ebhizinisini lakho (yini ezokhumbula ngokushesha), futhi ungavumeli ukuqhubeka kwemilenze yakho. Cha, angithinti ingane yakho. Yebo, nginelungelo lokuxoxa ngalokho enginakho phambi kwamehlo ami. Yebo, awunakungilalela. Cha, ngeke ungenze ngithule. Cha, awukwazi ukungishiya. Zidle? Can. Ngikufisela inhlanhla.
Okuxakile ngokwanele, akuwona ulaka (yize abantu okuxoxwe ngakho ngeke bavumelane nalokhu). Isikhala somphakathi yindawo - wonke umuntu unelungelo lokuxoxa ngezenzo zomunye nomunye. Kwanele ukuthi ungathinti imibuzo yokubukeka, ubuhlakani, okungenzeka ikusasa, futhi ugcine izenzo kuphela - futhi uyahlaselwa. Njengomletha we-reindeer engibona, ngiyacula.
Ngendlela, izingane - abantu bayashintshashintsha. Ingane ingathatha ngokushesha ukuthi kulo mongo udinga ukuba uziphathe njengoba u-anti makube, futhi uma umongo uthakazelisa, khona-ke kusondele kuwe umashiqela wekhaya nesixwayiso. Konke okudingayo kuyathakazelisa futhi kuchaze ngokucacile ukuthi yini ethathwa njengelungile.
Isibhedlela, engxenyeni ephakathi kwezenhlalo kukholakala ukuthi ingane efundile kufanele iziqagele, ukuthi ingaba mnandi kanjani kwabanye abantu. Wozani, nalokhu nakubantu abadala, akuvamile ukuba babhekane nakho, futhi nakanjani udinga imiyalo nakanjani. Ungabekezeleli futhi ugcine intukuthelo. Izingane zizwa ukungamukeleki kwethu hhayi zimbi kakhulu kuwe, futhi njengomuntu okhishwe ngenxa yenzondo, futhi ethule buthule - sonke sazi konke kusukela ebuntwaneni.
Kucace bha ukuthi akukho kuwo wonke umuntu emhlabeni kungavunyelwana ngakho. Kepha uma kuxolisana ama-Asses amathathu amancane ayishumi futhi amise, umama uzobukwa kanti abathathu bayoba namahloni futhi bathintwa - bese kuthi ntweni eyodwa yokugcina ingakwazi ukubhekana nakho. Isibonelo, ngokubiza amaphoyisa.
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