Isazi sezengqondo saseBelarusian uPavel Zygmantovich sihlanganyela imiphumela yocwaningo ngempilo yomndeni yemibhangqwana futhi sichaza ukuthi zisho ukuthini.
Ezitafuleni zendabuko, maye, usakholelwa ukuthi umsebenzi wabesilisa endlini yizipikili, ama-cranes namakhabethe. Amaphuzu we-Nails, ama-Cranes ukulungisa, shayela ama-wardrobes. Bese ugeza izitsha noma usule phansi - fu, hhayi into yowesilisa. Ithi, thatha indwangu - uzoba yi-rag, ulahlekelwe i-testosterone ne-potency.
Futhi uma umuntu ohlukile evuma ukusula phansi noma uthuli, kwenziwa ngenkulumo enjalo ebusweni ukuthi umfazi akayona into yokubonga - angifuni ukubheka indoda enjalo.
Ngenhlanhla, kunezindaba ezinhle - ungakwazi, ungakhuthaza umyeni wakhe ukuba enze umsebenzi wasendlini.
Amandla Esayensi
Muva nje, ososayensi baseJalimane sebeshicilele isifundo eside esifundweni eside (i-Academic - Longituda) emsebenzini wesikole nangokobulili (ireferensi ocwaningweni).Iminyaka emihlanu, babona ngazinye amadoda nabesifazane abangama-1388 ababesebudlelwaneni besikhathi eside.
Isiphetho esikhulu socwaningo - lapho owesilisa esebenza endlini, ukwaneliseka ngokobulili bobabili kukhula.
Kuliqiniso, akuzona konke okulula kakhulu - akusona uqobo lwayona uqobo lwasendlini. Njengasikhathi sonke, kubaluleke kakhulu ngesimo sengqondo kulo msebenzi.
Isimo esiyinhloko ukuhlolwa kokwahlukaniswa kwabasebenzi ngokufanele. Uma abashadikazi kulo mbuzo bavumelana ngokuphelele, khona-ke azikho izinkinga - wonke umuntu wenza ingxenye yawo yomsebenzi, ngemuva kwalokho alala ngenhliziyo yonke embhedeni, lapho achitha khona isikhathi ngobumnandi obukhulu kubo bonke ababambiqhaza.
Ngigcizelela: Isivumelwano esivumelana kakhulu naso sibaluleke kakhulu ukuthi imisebenzi yasekhaya, izinkinga nomsebenzi zisatshalaliswa kahle. Okusho ukuthi, uma umuntu ecabanga ukuthi unesibindi esivulekile endlini yomkayo, ngakho-ke akudingeki ageze izitsha, bese ubulungisa lapha futhi aliphunga.
Kepha uma owesilisa ecabanga kanjena: "Nansi ikhaya lethu, ngihlala lapha ngendlela efanayo, ngakho-ke ngisesitezi sami. Le yingane yami, ngingumzali waKhe, njengaye, ngakho-ke mina ngiyimbongolo yami, ngixoshe ubuso bami kusuka ku-apula puree, "Enye into! Lokhu kusondele ekuhlukaniseni okulungile kwezibopho.
Esinye isibonelo ukutadisha kukaDaniel L. KASALON abangane. Esampula yemibhangqwana engama-487, bakhombisa ukuthi lapho ingane ihlanganyela kakhulu kumfazi - ayithinti impilo yezocansi. Lapho ingane kuphela ehlanganyela kakhulu kumyeni wakhe - futhi lokhu akukuhle kakhulu. Kepha lapho imisebenzi isatshalaliswa kakhulu noma incane ilingana, bese ubulili buba yinhle (bona imininingwane lapha).
Izenzo zakho
Okokuqala, kudingeka uchaze umyeni wami ukuthi ubulili bami obusempilweni yakhe alwanele ngoba awumthandi, kodwa ngoba ngenxa yezindaba zakho awunawo amandla. Mtshele ukuthi uma egqoka lokhu futhi yilokho (futhi lokhu, yilokho), khona-ke uyoba namandla amaningi, nokukhanuka koMlilo kuzophenduka emphefumulweni wakho.
Isibonelo, ungasho okuthile okufana nokuthi: "Darling, lapho ngilala nezingane, ngikhathele ukube ngizishayele egumbini lokugezela ngishintshe e-pajamas ukuthi amabutho awahlali ngisho nasekuxhumeni komphakathi. Ake silandele ukuhlanzwa kwamazinyo, ukuhlanza amathoyizi nokugqoka ama-pajamas, futhi sengivele ngifunde inganekwane yobusuku. Futhi-ke ngizoba yi-boDra futhi ngiwe, futhi ubusuku bothando buyenzeka namhlanje. "
Vele, angigcizeleli ngqo kulokhu kuhlukaniswa kwalokhu kukhathazeka - ungakhetha enye inketho. Ukunikezwa kwami kungumfanekiso kuphela.
Vele, angikwazi ukuqinisekisa ukuthi indoda yakho izovuma ngokushesha, kepha nokho ukunikezwa kuhle, kuyathandeka. Ngakho-ke kungashisa.
Uma yehluleka kusuka kwesokudla, ungapheli - gcizelela ukukhathala kwakho, gcizelela ukuheha umyeni wakho ocansini futhi uwuthuthukise ukuhlukaniswa okulungile komsebenzi wesikole. Cishe kuzosebenza.
Ukunxusa kubazalwane ku-y-chromosome
Guys, uyini ngempela? Umqhele wakho ngeke uwe uma uzokwenza umsebenzi wesikole. Futhi hhayi ekukhathazekeni, abesifazane abaningi basebenza emsebenzini futhi basebenza ekhaya (lokhu kubizwa ngokuthi "ukushintshwa kwesibili") futhi ngandlela thile kunzima).
Ngakho-ke wafika ekhaya uvela emsebenzini, wageza izandla zami, udangele umshayeli waqala ibhizinisi lasekhaya. Basiza izingane ngezifundo, uthuli uthuli, lwathululela izimbali, luhlungiwe ekhishini, langaphansi langaphansi kokoma.
Yebo, kunzima - yini ongayenza, injalo izimpilo zabantu abadala.
Futhi cha, iqiniso lokuthi owesifazane usekhefini lokukhulelwa akusho ukuthi uyaphumula. Lapho abashadikazi benezingane ezincane (ngakwesokunene), akekho ophumule nakancane. Bobabili abashadikazi basebenza amahora angama-24 ngosuku. Ngakho-ke, akunakuba khona "ngivela emsebenzini, ngikhathele." Nina nobabili nikhathele, kepha uzoba namaholide lapho uthumela izingane kogogo nomkhulu. Okwamanje - udinga ukusebenza zombili.
Angithandi? Bese kunezindlela ezintathu ongakhetha kuzo - noma uzuze okuningi ukuqasha abantu abaqeqeshiwe abagcwalisa konke umsebenzi wesikole, noma abafuni amanyunga kumkami, noma ungashadi nhlobo. Futhi uma ushade, qhubeka nabantu abadala - sebenza eduze kwendlu kanye nowesifazane wakho.
Ingqikithi. Ukuhlukaniswa okulungile komsebenzi osendlini kuthuthuka kakhulu ukuya ocansini. Ngakho-ke, abesilisa babaluleke kakhulu ukuthatha imisebenzi ethile yasekhaya, baxoxisane ngezigaba zabo ezifanele. Okungcono kulokhu kuzoba yikho konke.
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