Ukulungiselela ukubonakala kwengane noma ukunikela, ekugcineni, impilo, umama nezinkundla eziyigugu kubamba izincwadi, omagazini nezinkundla ezizomtshela ukuthi bangavuma kanjani ukuvuma nokukhangisa, njengakukhangiswa kwezikhangisi.
Futhi ngokushesha ubhekene yokuthi izazi zokusebenza kwengqondo mastic, othisha, odokotela zezingane, kanye esibi, kodwa abahlaziyi categorical kakhulu noma ukusakaza wakhe wacabanga, noma bethi ngqo: Mama, wena kuthiwa yiwo abangela sonke isikhathi, kufanele ngaso sonke isikhathi ezimbi ipheshulwa , awukwenzi konke ngakho ufisa ukwenza okungalungile.
Ukugibela kancane, uthanda ukuba ngumama omubi. Okuzenzakalelayo.
Ngokubambisana nalezo zinkinga ezibhekene nowesifazane, impilo iyazenzakalela nakancane, kodwa, kunjalo, ihlukile ngqo. Kubukeka sengathi lapho udinga usizo, uzokunikeza kuphela ukushintshanisa ilungelo lokungena endaweni yakho. Ngakho-ke, ukuphuma kwencwadi entsha yendlu yokushicilela "UGenesise -" Umama uyathandwa. 9 Izinganekwane Mayelana Nokuba Umama ", masinyane futhi ngaphandle kokungabaza kusho umama wakhe - ngiseceleni kwakho, futhi iqembu leli linjalo. Futhi akumangazi! Ngemuva kwakho konke, kwabhalwa omama abafanayo - intatheli u-Elena Bezredova ne-Psychologist tatyana pospelova.
Kunesidingo sesithathu esivele saba khona kumama - amandla okuba ngaphansi kwengane. Ngingathanda ukukukhumbuza ukuthi umama wanamuhla, njengomthetho, uletha ingane kuphela ngobaba. Lokho wukuthi, imvamisa bahlala kude nabazali babo, ngoba ezweni lethu elikhulu kunabantu abambalwa abalingana lapho kwazalwa khona. Ngasikhathi sinye, ubaba uphoqeleka ukuthi asebenze ngale ndlela, isimemezelo senyanga yowesifazane sichitha nengane cishe ngedwa. Futhi kunzima
Akushukumisa - empeleni, kuvame ukudala ukudelela nokuzizwa unecala - izindaba zendaba nokuthi ngangenzeka kanjani, kusho ukuthi nonke. Ngokuphambene nalokho, uMama uLena noTanya basho ngokweqiniso ukuthi bathathe kanjani futhi bakwazi - bukhoma ngemuva kokuqala kwengane impilo yakudala, kube omama abanezinkinga kakhulu nabo bonke isikhathi babhukuda enjabulweni ye umama wabo.
Futhi bathi kungani lokhu kujwayelekile, kusukela ekuphakameni kokuhlangenwe nakho kwabo (noTatiana yena uneminyaka kathathu!), Ngakho-ke ukuthembela kwimininingwane emisha yesayensi, kuveze i-stereotype ye-stereotype kanye nenganekwane ngenxa yenganekwane, okubonakala sengathi kukhiqizwa Ehhovisi eliyimfihlo elilungiselela ukugcotshwa komama nezingane zabo.
Kepha ngangikhathazekile. Kakhulu. Yini ebabazekayo ngokuthi "ukuthuthuka", ukunganaki, ukungabaza nokuhleka. Kungazelelwe, konke lokhu kuyasebenza ngempela, futhi ingane yami ngenxa yesimo sami sengqondo sokuthuthuka kwangaphambili izokhula isiwula ?!
Kepha "Umama uyathandwa!" Kungaba yingxenye ebaluleke kangako uma, ngaphezu kokugcina nokuthoba kowesifazane nengane, akuzange kunikeze izincomo ezingokoqobo ezingasebenza ezimweni ezinzima futhi ezingejwayelekile zezingane nezingane. Yikuphi kwesinye isikhathi ungabheki nakancane izeluleko zomama abakahle bendlela yokuba yindlela efanayo, noma ikakhulukazi hhayi ukucindezela. Vele, azikho injabulo yama-tammounts of Spock noma iKomarovsky, kepha inikezwa lelo lelo yizengelona lula ukufezekisa ezihlotsheni, abanye omama nabeluleki kwi-Intanethi. Ngakho-ke, lindela izincwadi ngezincwadi zamasiko okudla zaseFrance. Uma unengane - noma umama omusha ukhishwe umngani - esinye sezipho ezinhle kakhulu ngemuva kokuthi isibhedlela sezinto ezenziwa ngumama sizoba "umama othandekayo!"
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