Kulungiselelwe, sithandwa, futhi, udinga ukukwazi. Ngakho-ke, sacela usizo kudokotela oqeqeshiwe we-psychotherapist, i-adriana izh (MSU, IGIP, Migip, iziqu zobudokotela e-University of Austrian, izincwadi ezi-9 ze-Psychology kanye neminyaka engu-9 yokuhlangenwe nakho - konke kuyindlela yokuzenza Zixube ngothuli bese ushayela umshanelo uye epulazini.
Lokhu kungumyalo kulabo abathanda ukusho ukuthi: "Uma ngingakwazi ukukhahlela, ngeke ngithole lutho." Kulabo ababonakala bekhuluma okuhle ngabo, kuyihlazo. Kuwo wonke umuntu, ocabanga ukuthi azange afeze lutho, ungafinyeleli futhi ungafinyeleli.Impela, usuvele wazama ukuzihlukanisa, kepha uma usacabanga ukuthi kukhona okuhle kuwe, kusho ukuthi akwenzi kahle ngokwanele. Hhayi-ke, akukho lutho, manje sizolungisa konke, futhi uwubhubhise ngokungenakuphikiswa.
Ematheksthi ahlakaniphile amaGestatist Kunezinhlobo ezimbili zezinqubo ezinjalo - ukuphika ngokwazo nokudangala. Uhlala ubalulekile, njengoba kubizwa ngesayensi inqubo ebibambisene kuyo? Yebo, manje uyazi.
Ukuphika kwe-ego. Lokho okwami.
Kwakungeyona nje kimi. Lutho neze. Bengingasondelanga ngisho nalapho.
Kubalulekile ukuqonda - lapho ukwehla, konke kulungile kufanele kubangelwe abanye, nakho konke okubi. Kwakuyi-vase? Ngaphonsa. Uzuze umncintiswano? Kwakungengemi kimi.
Unganjani, igama lakho lokugcina?
Kulula kakhulu. Ungalahli ithemba.
Okokuqala, isibongo, kunjalo, ingeyami. Kepha eceleni kwayo udinga ukubhala igama lothisha. Uhamba phambili, lo ngumsebenzi wakhe, ngaphandle Kwakhe ngangingeke ngime eduze.
Okwesibili, ijaji lalijwayelene futhi linozwela. Kuhle. Noma isiphukuphuku. Ngibeka amamaki aphezulu.
Okwesithathu, into ebengingazelelwe ngezwi lami. Imvamisa ngiyisiwula - isiwula, angikwazi ukuxhuma amagama amabili, ngiwela emideni, isiphukuphuku ku-mathematics. Bese kuthi-ke umkhathi ngandlela thile wasulwa ngandlela thile futhi uhhafu wehora wenza inkanyezi kimi. Ngesinye isikhathi ngeke kube njalo.
Okwesine, imvamisa ingozi. UMasha kwadingeka ahambele kulo mncintiswano, kodwa waphula umlenze, kodwa ngokuvamile uMasha ungigxumela amahlandla ayikhulu, futhi uma uMasha ebezoba njalo, angisoze ngazi.
Okwesihlanu, konke kungumama nobaba. Uma bengangithazanga emaceleni, bengazange bashaye ifosholo ekhanda, bengangingenga ekhasini futhi bengazange bangiqabule ukuthi ngikhuphukile ku-scum, ngangezelela imibuthano emibuthanweni, ngakwenza ungafundi ukuthi ungagobeke kanjani ngokungenakuphikiswa, ngeke ngithole uthando olungenamibandela futhi angizange ngilwelwe khona.
Futhi umncintiswano ubengeke unqobile.
Okwesithupha, zonke izinhlobo zofuzo. Cha, hhayi mina. Izinhlobo zofuzo. Lokhu kungikimi, njengakuma-movie, ugogo uGragnephane Arkadyevna wabuyiselwa. Ngakho-ke wayeseyi-wow. Futhi mina, cha, cha. Kepha ama-5% ama-Agranengene e-Arcadevna kanye ngonyaka adala izimangaliso. Futhi ngokuvamile, ubuchopho abukho okwami, ngathola izinkawu. Nezinyawo ezivela eCaracatia. Ngakho-ke lokhu akusimi, kunjalo.
Hhayi ukunqoba kwami. Futhi unganikeli, angizukuthatha.
Ukwenza
Kukhona elinye idolo, kubalulekile ukuthi ungadideki. Lapha udinga ukubhubhisa lonke inani lalokho okwenzekayo. Vele, uhlanganyele kulo mncintiswano. Futhi wanqoba. Kepha ngeze.
Okokuqala, umncintiswano wawukuthi shit. Okokuziphatha. Akunjalo, kuma-superdabils. Kuzokwazi ukunqoba kuyo ngisho ne-chrome chihuahua, kepha akafikanga, ngakho-ke unqobile.
Okwesibili, amajaji ayengama-idiots. Abazange baqaphele iVasya ekhazimulayo, baphuma ukuthi akazange alungiswe futhi alala phansi adakwe ngaphansi kodumo, ngokuvamile, ithalente acasulwe, anikonile, anikonakele.
Okwesithathu, kusobala, lo mncintiswano owinile, kodwa ngokuvamile uyisifunda. Futhi kukhona isiRashiya wonke. Umhlaba. Allian. Ngokumelene nesizinda sale miqhudelwano, kungukuthi uzwela nje. Futhi lapho, ulahlekile, akukho okucabangayo.
Okwesine, kahle, unqobile - futhi yini? Ukulengisa kuphi le mali? Izindlu sezivele zilukiwe izindonga, futhi zilenga ophahleni, akukho mali engenangezwe kuyo, isikhathi sokuphila asikhuphuki, futhi ngokuvamile, akucaci ukuthi kungani unyusa ukuthi kungani unyusa ukuthi kungani unyusa ukuthi kungani unyusa ukuthi kungani unyusa ukuthi kungani uthuthumela. Kungaba ngcono ukuphambukisa, ngokweqiniso.
Okwesihlanu, lapha, ngendlela, yebo - ngephalishi. Ngenkathi uhlanganyela emiqhudelwaneni yethu lapho, umyeni ongenayo isidlo sakusihlwa, ingane echazwe, futhi umkhwekazi oyithandayo uthwelwe yiphakethe lobisi oluvela esitolo. Lokhu, okokuqala, konke ngenxa yakho (bona iphuzu lokuqala lokuthi konke kubi - kufanele usole), futhi, okwesibili, esikhundleni sokondla umyeni wakhe, ukuzondla abayeni bakhe, basebenzise iphakheji kamezala. Hhayi-ke, noma skronyele ama-bulbs akhanyayo kumkakhe futhi, ukuze aguqule izingane futhi ageze phansi phansi komamezala. Kancane, kungazelelwe ungumfana. Yebo, intombazane enjengeCinderella, inelungelo lokuncintisana kuphela ngemuva kokugcwalisa uhlu lwamacala amashidi amahlanu abhalwe phansi.
Kuhle, abafundi ababizayo, bakhunjulwa, babhalwe phansi? Lapha, manje nonke niyazi, kepha nina, vele, kubalulekile. Ungakhohlwa ukwenza "lokhu akusimi" futhi "konke lokhu kungudoti", noma yini oyenzayo. Futhi-ke uzoqinisekiswa ukuthi ungazithemba okuphansi, inhlala-kahle empofu futhi iphelele, umuzwa ongenamkhawulo wokuthi wena wehlulekile, futhi uphumule noma usuvele ushayiwe.
Jabulela.