Abazali abaningi bakholelwa ukuthi banelungelo eligcwele ezinganeni zabo, kanye nezimpilo zabo. Futhi kwesinye isikhathi umzabalazo wokulondolozwa kobukhosi ulwele impilo. Ungakuqonda kanjani ukuthi abazali abakhathazeki ngawe, kepha imingcele yakho yephula - futhi kungani kungeyona izinto ezincane, kepha isikhundla esiyingozi?
Beza ngaphandle kwesimemo
Lapho wawuneminyaka engu-14, abazali bangangena kalula egumbini lakho ngaphandle kokungqongqoza, ngoba "oh, hlobo luni lwezimfihlo olungaba khona." Noma "Empeleni, leli yifulethi lethu." Manje usunefulethi lakho, kepha akukho lutho olushintshile - abazali bafuna ukubanikeza ukhiye ("uma kwenzeka") futhi beza kalula kuwe ukuzothela izimbali, uze ubheke ukuthi uhlala kanjani. Abalindeli izimemo futhi abahlali bexwayisa ngokufika kwabo - bangabazali! Yebo, yebo, futhi uyingane, isuswe ilungelo lobumfihlo.Kungani kuyingozi: Uma nje ungenayo indawo yakho ngaphansi kwelanga, awunalo ithuba lokwakha impilo yakho futhi udlidlize isidleke sakho nomunye umuntu. Ukunikeza ukufinyelela insimu yayo, ukuncisha ilungelo lokuba yinto esemqoka ekhaya lakho. Konke kuzoba kubi kakhulu lapho udliwa nomuntu - kuzohlala kukhona umuntu phakathi kwakho, okungukuthi, umama wakho. Ubehlala eza lapha, kungani ayeyivimba manje?
Kufanele ufihle okuningi kubo
Vele, abazali akudingekile ukwazi ukuthi wenza i-BDSM endimeni yeSabamissive, usebenza njenge-ejenti eyimfihlo noma ngezikhathi ezithile kowesifazane omuhle. Wonke umuntu angaba nezimfihlo zawo. Kubiza ukuqaphela uma izimfihlo ngandlela thize futhi ucasha kuMama nobaba nazo zonke izinhlobo zezinto ezincane - i-tattoo entsha (abayivumeli (futhi abaphumanga ebusheni beshumi nambili ?!), izindleko zengubo (wonke umuntu ngeke zifunde ukuphatha imali) nezingxabano nesoka (futhi ukuxwayise ngokuthi wayengeyena umbhangqwana).
Kungani kuyingozi: Uma usasaba ukusabela kwabo ezintweni ezingenayo lutho, kusho ukuthi ngokwakhe uyakuqonda - abazali basakulawula njengomuntu osemusha, futhi, ophoqelekile ukuba acashe, kanjalo ukungatholi i-atatat ngembongolo yayo eneminyaka engama-30 ubudala. Eqinisweni, basazinqumela wena, okungenzeka, nokuthi yini engenzeki. Futhi usukulungele ukuxabana kuphela uma imiphumela yayo ingafihlwa. Uma kukhulunywa ngesimo lapho kungenzeki ukwanelisa khona - ngokwesibonelo, isehlukaniso nomyeni wakhe noma ukuya kwelinye izwe - awukhishwe ngaphandle, awusizi lokho ocabanga ngakho, kepha akusizi ngalutho umama.
Baphazamisa amasu akho
Umama nobaba babenezinhlelo ezinkulu kuwe, kepha kukhona okungahambanga kahle futhi awuzange uphenduke ikhophi yabo ethuthukisiwe. Awuzange ube ngummeli, kodwa kunalokho, waya kubafundisi be-yoga. Umyeni wakho akekho ekunambithekeni kukamama. Futhi wena usekude nobaba kayise kayise.
Kungani kuyingozi: Izidingo zabazali zishaya izihlalo futhi ziphendukele endodakazini yamaphupho azo azinangozi. Bayakucasula futhi bakuxosha emndenini, balimaza ukwethembana, noma bangqongqoza izinzwa futhi wena, intombazane enhle, ungaqondi ukuthi yini oyifunayo - i-hithiking emthaleni omuhle u-Leshshela kanti phezulu kwezindlalifa .
Ukuhlola kuyakhishwa
Umhlangano ngamunye nomndeni uvivinya, futhi ucishe uqiniseke ukuthi angizange ngikwazi ukubhekana nakho, angelulekile futhi waphuthuma e-passati kakhulu. Noma ngubani wesinqumo sakho uvunyelwe noma cha. Ababelethi banombono oqinile mayelana nalokhu kubiza wena ukusika izinwele zakho noma cha, uzoya kuphi eholidini lapho ushintsha umsebenzi nokuthi yini amathoyizi okuthenga izingane.ILookonov bayavuma, kanye noKare - Cha. Indodakazi kufanele igqoke ingubo. ECrimea - Yebo, Cambodia - ngeze. Kuyaphawuleka ukuthi awuceli umkhandlu, yebo lokhu akusona izeluleko - abazali bayaqhubeka nokuhlola ngisho nalezo zenzo ezingeke zibheke emuva, noma ngabe zinonyaka wonke ukubuya akunakwenzeka.
Kungani kuyingozi: Abazali abakululele ukuxhumana nawe ngokulingana okulinganayo, ngoba akukho zilinganiso, kulilungelo labaphathi. Futhi i-deuce isenza sithethelele futhi sizame ukulungisa, kepha ngasikhathi sinye futhi sizizwe sinecala ngokuzikhethela kwakho - okungukuthi, ngokufunda ukucabanga ngekhanda lakho. Esimweni esinjalo, kungenzeka ukunquma ukuthi kuphephile ukuba yisigqila futhi kungaxazululi lutho, ukudlula kulabo abanamandla.
Ungaphansi kwe-hood
Uma ungaphenduli ngokushesha, uzobe ulinde le ndaba mayelana ne-COUNDOL NOKUXELWA KWEMOTGO. Nomaphi lapho ukhona, kufanele ubike nsuku zonke ngokuphilile, isobho lihambile, isigqoko sasibeka futhi safika ekhaya ngo-9 PM. Kwesinye isikhathi abazali babheka kabusha imininingwane, babize umyeni wakhe futhi udidekile.
Kungani kuyingozi: Kungamanzi ahlanzekile ekukhohlisweni, okuxutshwe nomuzwa wecala, futhi umgomo wawo ukukwehla kwelungelo lokulahla isikhathi sakho bese uthi cha.