Abakwa-Lesbians kufanele babhekane nezinkinga nezimo ezifanayo embuthanweni. Kungaba ngcono ukucacisa kusengaphambili, ukuze lapha kunezinto eziyisikhombisa amaLesbians angathanda ukutshela okungenani izingane zazo zobungqingili.
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Lapho uthi akukhona nakancane njengathi, hhayi ukuvelela, kusho ukuthi: Ungakwamukela isithandwa sakho esiteshini, kodwa anginawo omthandayo; Ungaqabula ngosuku epaki, futhi mina - cha; Ungafika ephathini yenhlangano, lapho umenyelwa khona umbhangqwana, futhi ujabule lapho nothandekayo wakho, futhi anginakho okuthandayo.Ubiza ukukhishwa kwezinto ezijwayelekile zomuntu ezivumela ngokwakho, kepha angikwenzi. Akubukeki sengathi "angimelene". Kubukeka kuphambene nalokho. Ngabe siyintombi ngempela?
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Angiqondi ukuthi kungani, ngixoxa ngemishado yobungqingili, ukhuluma kuphela ngocansi lwe-anal kanye neqiniso lokuthi abazali abamukelayo bangase bahlazise izingane. Abazali befilimu futhi ngaphandle kwezitabane ngezikhathi ezithile banamathela ezinganeni (futhi lokhu kubizwa ngokuthi i-pedophilia, hhayi uthando lwezocansi olufanayo), kufanele kulandele izinsizakalo zenhlalo. Futhi umshado wobungqingili ofanayo, okokuqala, hhayi ngobulili besilisa. Ukhuluma ngezinkulungwane zemibhangqwana yabesifazane ebiwodwa abavuka izingane ezivele zikhona futhi bafuna okufanayo nelungelo lokungaxazululwa nabo kwesinye isimo esibucayi. Usemayelana nokuzigcina ngesandla sakhe ekuvuseleleni kabusha, abeke amazwi enduduzo emngcwabeni (ngoba unelungelo!), Ungathathi, ungakuchazela kanjani izikhulu ukuthi umzimba kufanele zikunikeze kolunye lo mzimba. Abantu bocansi bazibandakanye ngokuphelele ngaphandle komshado, babala?
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Kumbhangqwana wethu, akekho owesilisa, uvula amehlo akhe, ibizwa ngokuthi yi-lesbian ngoba sobabili sobabili sabesifazane. Okubi noma okubucayi, komile noma okungokomzwelo, okuhluke ngokuphelele noma okufanayo. Yini enganikezwa ngokuvamile, ukubheka abesifazane ababili, buza ukuthi yimuphi kubo owesilisa? Amagama athi "Anya" no "Lena" abonakala kuwe nani?#Four
Asimelene namanani omndeni. Lapho sifuna ukushada, yikho ngqo ngoba siyizindinganiso zomndeni. Ubungani bemindeni, umshado ezinganeni ezimhlophe, ukukhulisa izingane.
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Uma sithanda abesifazane, akusho ukuthi ngidlwengule ngakunye, lapho ngifika khona. Lokhu kusho ukuthi ngiyakukhathalela ukuthi bonke abantu abajwayelekile. Kubi ukucabanga ukuthi kwenzekani emhlabeni wobungqingili uma unombono ojwayelekile wokudlwengula umuntu ngoba nje uyathandeka. Ngiyethemba ngeke kube yinto evamile.# 6.
Anginendaba ukuthi wena nomyeni wami babona engosini esigabeni esithi "Abase-Lesbians", umnikelo wokufaka ocansini nawe (engingavumelani nalo) Indoda evumayo ayibo .
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Ukuba yi-lesbian akuphathelene nemfashini hhayi ngendwangu. Akukhona lapho ongakudlwengulwa khona, "ukuze uqonde ukuthi uyini umuntu, waphonsa isiwula sakho," noma ushaye phambi kwabantu abaningi ngokuba nabathandekayo bakho nokumomotheka kuye. Hhayi lapho, lapho ibinzana elithi "lesbian elibekelwe kahle kusuka ku-heteosexial akwehlukile" kubhekwa njengobuhlakani futhi obalulekile.
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