Kungenzeka yini ukushiya ingane yesikole ekhaya? Kungani kungenjalo? Futhi malini? Sicele izizukulwane zabesifazane ezikhule "ngesihluthulelo entanyeni", khombisa umbono wabo.
Futhi bacela ukujoyina wonke umuntu. Kufaka phakathi omunye umhloli wengane wangaphambili - ngesithombe esiphelele.Ngeshumi - yebo, ishumi nantathu - cha
EJalimane, ngaphansi koMthetho, iminyaka engafika kwayi-12 ayikwazi ukushiywa, ngokwesibonelo. Anginalutho lokusho lutho olunye ukhonkolo. Konke kuncike kakhulu enganeni uqobo. Indodana yami ekuthuthukisweni kwezinhlanga ezinjalo yayihlasela futhi i-Kickbacks ukuthi eminyakeni eyi-10 ingahamba, kwathi ngo-13 ngangesaba ukuvumela ukuba ngedwa. Ube esebukeka ebuchosheni okuthile okuvaliwe, kusuka kuma-hormone kanye nengcindezi, amakhono amaningi omphakathi acishiwe lapho umgwaqo udlula lapho umgwaqo udlula. Okungukuthi, kwabayisishiyagalombili, wandizela ezitolo uqobo, nasezinkulu zakhe eziyisishiyagalolunye ubaba waphula isandla.
Wigwam
Ngaso sonke isikhathi kwakukholelwa ngokuzolile ukushiya ingane ekhaya yedwa. Kwakhula okungalungile lapho ngifunda indaba yentombi, wahamba ekhaya indodakazi eneminyaka eyishumi nane nomshana omncane, futhi umshana wahlela iWigwam esesofini, naseWigwam washisa umlilo. Indodakazi ikwazile kuphela ukukhipha umfana futhi iphume ngaphandle efulethini, konke kwabanjwa umlilo.Kusuka ekuphakameni kwesipiliyoni
Ngithi njengengane yangaphambili, uBaba noMgogo. Izingane, mhlawumbe, azikufanele, nezingane ezincane zesikole - kungani kungenjalo? Uma-ke, zihlanya futhi ngeke zizishise kanye nendlu.
Unkosikazi watshelwa ukuthi weza kanjani nomfowabo nodadewabo omncane kusukela ekushintsheni kokuqala, futhi umama wabo waya kwesinye isikole, funda eshitjhi lesibili. "Izingane! .." - "Yebo, Mama, angasondeli esitofini."
Ngokuya kokude, konke kukodwa lapha. Kepha yini okufanele uyishiye ingane izinsuku ezintathu, kungcono ukuyithutha kothile.
Kepha izingane zikhanyiselwe ngendlela efanele. Njengoba ngikhumbula: Ngemuva kweminyaka emihlanu ngadlala esihlalweni se-vacuum kusuka kumqambi. Bazifaka esokhethi, bebambe izandla ezimbili. Yebo, ugesi wawungu-127 volts. Umama kamama wawunjalo. Futhi ngokwesibili, futhi, ngesikhathi esifanayo - sathola amalambu aseBengal. Ulindile wedwa. Kwehle phansi. Futhi nginqume ukuthulula uketshezi lokuqala owawa ngaphansi kwengalo - cologne. Kodwa-ke, lapho kugqashuka, umlilo wagcwala wagcwala. Kepha i-subpaline ku-parquet yasala. Ngalesi sikhathi kwakungekho muntu ekhaya.
Indodana ekhathalelayo
Indodakazi yami iminyaka emi-3 nengxenye. Ngeke akhuphuke noma kuphi futhi engenzi lutho. Kepha kungesaba ... futhi kugule okuhlangenwe nakho. Futhi kuleyo minyaka yashiywa kalula. Wahlala buthule wadlala, ngangingcono ekhaya kunanoma iyiphi enye indawo nanoma ngubani.Umfowethu washiywa kusenesikhathi. Lezi zindaba ezimbili zazingaphambi kokuzalwa kwami, kusho ukuthi wayengeyena iminyaka engu-8 ubudala. Unqume ukunakekela umndeni futhi ashise wonke amanzi okugeza (kwakukhona kuphela amanzi abandayo endlini) futhi avule ama-boiler ebhokisini elingenalutho ... kwesinye isikhathi nginqume ukuvumela wonke amakhukhi. Indlela. Yashiswa, ekhishini kwakukhona ukwethuka, kepha ikhukhi, ngokwezwi likaMama, lalimnandi.
Isigameko sami siyazikhandla kusukela eminyakeni emihlanu, akukho lutho olwesabayo, futhi oluzolile. Lapho eneminyaka engu-6 okokuqala ngqa endlini eyodwa yahlala ebusuku. Umama ovela kubadala wahamba waya "ubusuku obukhululekile emnyuziyamu," futhi omncane wayesekhaya, azikho izinkinga. Okuphezulu okungenzeka - leli yiqanda elivuthayo elivuthayo. Kepha lapho isitofu esinokuvikelwa okuphezulu, nomlilo ngeke kwenzeke.
Amapug
Ubaba wazalelwa eminyakeni yama-38, kwaba yilapho kwakuwusuku olungaphambi kwempi. Noma ngaphambi kokufuduka, Baba - Novemba. Okokugcina bekuzochaza ukuthi kungani kwakungekho muntu wokubheka - okunye ukunakekelwa. Ngokuvamile, eminyakeni emithathu yashiywa yedwa. Ugogo wayenomsebenzi ophambene, wabona iwindi nendodana yakhe efasiteleni lakhe. Ingane yasala nezinkinobho, yahlala phansi yabathuthela. Ngiboniswe ngisho naseMaloyaroslavets, lapho la mawindi amabili kwakungu ...
Ushizi we-Cottage
Waqala ukushiya indodakazi eneminyaka eyi-9 ubudala (manje ayishumi). Amaminithi okuqala imizuzu engu-15 - esitolo nasemhlane. Ukhathazekile kakhulu! Bese kuthi kancane kancane futhi isikhathi eside ... e-United States, imithetho yethu iqinile, akunakwenzeka ukuthi uhambe isikhathi eside, kepha kungenamahora amathathu kusekhaya ngokuphelele - futhi izifundo zenza futhi ngisho nangesinye isidlo sakusihlwa esilungiselelwe Me! Obusuku, bengingakakashiyi - ngesibindi. Ngicabanga eminyakeni eyi-15 izokwenzeka, kepha ngizobona okukhula lapho.Kusukela eminyakeni engu-4 kwenye indawo kube ngxenye usuku, kwesokunxele kwashiywa. Enye yezinkumbulo ezikhanyayo zobuntwana - njengoba umama ngaphambi komsebenzi ikhombisa iwashi le-alamu futhi lichaza ukuthi lapho umdubuli omkhulu ulapha futhi emncane lapha, kuyadingeka ukuthi usondele esiqandisini futhi udle ushizi we-cottage.
Indlu eyodwa
Indodakazi yabangane bami eminyakeni eyi-12 yayihleli yedwa ekhaya, yalala no-angina lapho wonke umuntu egubha ekotishi. Ubuke amakhathuni embhedeni ocingweni olusebumnyameni futhi olulodwa lwekhanda. Othile weza efulethini, futhi okokuqala wanquma ukuthi laba bazali babuya, kodwa-ke ngabona ukuthi kunomuntu womunye umuntu. Ubhale iSMS kubazali, wabamba i-katana yokuhlobisa esodongeni futhi wacasha. Lapho umphangi egumbini lakhe efika, esuka kuyo yonke iDudi engenakhefu ukumshaya egibela ikhanda aze ame azame ukusukuma. Ngokuvamile, le ndoda iboshwe amaphoyisa abangelwa ngabazali. Okungaba yilokho uma intombazane ilele noma ibingafunwa kangako, ungahambisa kuphela.
Ukuphawula kwesazi
U-Anna S., Mfundisi, owayengumhloli wezindaba zangaphambili
Izingane zihlukile. Omunye angahlala ngokuphepha ekhaya, othile amasudi athile, asele ngaphandle komama ekilasini likaSepthemba 1, ngosuku lokuqala lwesikole. Ezinsukwini zobuntwana bethu (80-90s), kwamukelwa inkululeko yezingane, eyaboniswa emasikweni amaningi (bheka incwadi ethi "Uncerdor, inja" okungenani, noma ukudluliswa kwe- "radionnai" , "Siza umama"). Izingane ngokwazo zivela kwesibili, futhi othile futhi kusukela kwaqala zaya esikoleni, zathatha abafowethu noma odade bezingane abavela enkulisa, basiza ukuphuma ekhaya, baya esitolo, baya ekusungulweni kwemfundo eyengeziwe. Manje isimo sesishintshile. Emibuthanweni nasezingxenyeni zezingane ezineminyaka yobudala yesikole ezisencane, kanye nasesikoleni, "amanzi". Into eyodwa, lapho komunye umkhawulo wedolobha, noma kusihlwa, ebumnyameni. Okunye - lapho isikole siseduze kwendlu, futhi ikhaya lobuciko bezingane noma umculo ungowokuma kwemihlanu, kanye nomsebenzi phakathi nosuku.
Ukuzimela okunempilo kuyinto edingekayo yemfundo. Ukuzimela kuvunyelwe kuphela phambi kwamakhono athile wokuzilungiselela nokuzisebenzela. Uma uthatha ingane iphilile ngokwengqondo, ngaphandle kokuphambuka ekuthuthukisweni ngokomzimba nangokwengqondo, khona-ke iminyaka ibe ngu-8-10, kufanele alazi igama lakhe, amagama abazali uqobo, izindlela zokuthola izithuthi zomphakathi noma ngezinyawo kusuka endaweni yokutadisha eya endaweni yokuhlala. Kufanele ukwazi ukukhokha esitolo, ukubala ngosizo lwe-Calculator, uthenge ithikithi lokuhamba komphakathi bese ulisebenzisa (ezindaweni lapho umqhubi ungekho).
Kufanele ikwazi ukusebenzisa i-microwave ne-kettle kagesi ukufudumeza isidlo sasemini lapho kungekho ezindlini ezindala. Okokuzilolo kwegesi nezinzilo zikagesi, konke kungokwesinye, ngakho-ke ngabe ngenza noma yimiphi imiyalelo noma imibono lapha. Uyazi ukuthi - Yebo, akazi kanjani ukuthi - hhayi ukwethusa, kukhula, kuzofunda, into esemqoka ukungayibambezeli.
Enye ingane kufanele ibe namakhono okuhlanzeka ngokugcwele, ngaphandle kwezikhumbuzi ukuxubha amazinyo awo, ukugeza nokulwa. Yebo, intombazane kungenzeka ingazi ukuthi i-brainaw i-braid ende, ayithandwa ngabanye, kepha isuse izinwele emsileni izolala. Ingane kufanele ikwazi ukugqoka ngokuzimela, ngokuthepha zonke izintambo bese ifaka zonke izinkinobho.
Futhi ingane kufanele yazi ukuthi kufanele ivelephi uma kwenzeka isimo esiphuthumayo. Izingcingo zokuvikela umlilo, eziphuthumayo, amaphoyisa kufanele ngaso sonke isikhathi abe nengane ezokhumbula, ikakhulukazi manje inombolo. Ngalesi sihloko nengane odinga ukukhuluma ngayo, hhayi ukwesabisa, kepha ukusho iqiniso, lapho kuphila khona izwe nokuthi yini engenzeka.
Maqondana nokushiya ekhaya. Uma umama wami esebenza ebusuku, angizukukweluleka ukuthi ushiye ingane engaphansi kweminyaka eyi-14. Uma kuphela ngoba ingane ingesaba, futhi idinga umuzwa wokuphepha. Kungcono ukucela othile kubantu abadala. Uma umama wami efika sekwephuzile, uma kuzofona futhi abike ukuthi ukuphi, nokuthi kuzoba malini ekhaya.
Ungahamba, njengoba ngicabanga, amahora ku-5-7 ngokuzolile. Ushiya umama wengane yakhe esikoleni. Ukubuya ekhaya, ingane kufanele ize lapho izodla.
Futhi ngenkululeko. Isimo. Umama waqhamuka emsebenzini ngo-11 kusihlwa, futhi ahlala phansi nezifundo zosuku okufanele akwenze, kuze kube ngehora lesibili ekuseni. Ngabe ingane inengane yokufunda, umama? Akukho okuhle ekugcineni. Ngingusikhathi sokujwayela ingane ukuba yenze izifundo ngokwakho, ukuze abazali bababheke kuphela futhi basize, futhi akuyena wonke umuntu owayenziwe ngokugcwele kanye nosuku. Bese ushiya enye elula.
Cabanga nangemntwana ezokwenza ngokungabikho kwakho. Yebo, izifundo zizofunda, zizokwenza isangweji futhi zishise ama-cutlet, zibheke i-TV, bese zikhona? Lokhu sekuvele kungokwakho, omama, ukuqonda. Uyazazi kangcono izingane zakho.
Shiya izingane ezinye bese ushiya kwenye indawo angikweluli. Konke kungenzeka kwenzeke noma yini. Kuyinto: Izingane zivame ukwesaba ukuba wedwa. Futhi-ke kuvela ukuthi umama wabavumele, kepha wahamba, wenza okufunayo. Kuthiwani uma i-ambulensi izodinga? Futhi kungazelelwe ingane izogcwala omakhelwane babo ngengozi (ikhefu lepayipi mhlawumbe, ngokwesibonelo), kuzodingeka ukuthi ufake ngokushesha efulethini ezinsizakalweni eziphuthumayo - nokuthi wenzeni ke? Cabanga ukuthi hlobo luni lwengcindezi mhlawumbe ingane? Lezi yizibonelo ezinkulu kakhulu.
Futhi epulazini ukushiya ngemikhawulo efanelekile futhi udinga. Yize uhhafu wosuku.