Umama onamandla. Egibele, engqongqoza inhlabathi ngaphansi kwezinyawo zakhe. Umyeni wakhe ongumyeni. Ukujwayela ukujabulisa umphathi ongaphansi. Othile kulaba bantu kungenzeka ukuthi awunayo indlela yokuphonsa empilweni yakho ... okungenani kwabesifazane baseRussia, i-ALAS, isimo esivamile.
Ngakho-ke incwadi yababhali baseNorway, intatheli ka-Aud Dalsegg kanye nabameli unger vesse, yanyatheliswa eRussia ngesikhathi esifanele. Ngaphezu kwalokho, noma yiziphi isikhathi esedlule nazo kuzodingeka, ngoba izinkinga okuxoxwe ngazo encwadini ethi "On the Hook" akuzange kulahlekelwe ukuhambisana.
Futhi umama waqhubeka ehlanganisa impilo yendodakazi yakhe. Ngokubona kwakhe, uNicchlenenene undert Solewiig umane akakwazi ukunakekelwa izingane. Umama wamsiza ezindabeni ezifuywayo, kodwa yilapho kuphela lapho eyokufakazela ububi bendodakazi yakhe ngokuphelelwa yithemba nangesaziso salo.
Sizungezwe ama-psychopaths, ababhali baxwayisa, futhi abasoli naso ngisho naso, ngoba eqinisweni, ama-psychopaths awabulali abantu. Ngaphezu kwalokho, sizungezwe abantu okungeyona i-psychopaths, kodwa baziphatha kahle nje ukuthi akukho ngcono. Babamba izisulu zabo futhi babambeleleni iminyaka yobusuku, njengokungathi kukhona ama-demememers, bazithambisa injabulo yempilo.
Benza thina nabanye bakholelwe ukuthi okwenzekayo kujwayelekile. Kodwa-ke, ubudlelwano lapho izici zobuntu ezinezici ze-psychopathic zisifaka ngokungajwayelekile ngokuphelele. Banobuthi. Ziyingozi.
Wayethathwa njengomuntu omnandi, owayesiphendulayo, futhi uSiturid wayevame ukuzwa ukuthi unenhlanhla kuye.
Waba ngumzali ekhaya. I-SIGGIDID kanye nezingane zahamba eTiptoe kulezo zikhathi lapho ubaba womndeni engayi olwandle. Besaba ukucasula intukuthelo yakhe - ngoba lokhu kwanele ubuncane obuthile. Ukube bekungekho sizathu esisobala, wayengamthola ngaphandle.
Kulabo okungenzeka ukuthi, futhi ngokwakhe abakholwanga, kepha banomuzwa wokuthi ubaboshwe ngobuhlobo bezengqondo, futhi kwalotshwa incwadi.
Okokuqala, ukuze ukhiphe ukungabaza, iqukethe izimo ezijwayelekile ezikhulisa ama-psychopaths kanye nezisulu zazo. Izibonelo zithathwa empilweni ngakho-ke kulula ukuhlanganisa nesipiliyoni sazo.
Uhambo lomshado lwalungelumnandi ikakhulukazi. UHenrik uvame ukuveza ukunganeliseki: Ihhotela, ukudla, idolobha - konke bekukubi.
Ababhali bathi indlela yokubona ubudlelwano obungenampilo, ukuthi banganquma kanjani ukuthi umlingani (noma isihlobo, noma umphathi) akhombisa izici ze-psychopathic zomuntu, ngaphansi kweziphi izisulu ze-psychopaths zikhula nokuthi zithola kanjani igwegwe. Ithiyori ethakazelisayo futhi ewusizo, kepha okubaluleke kakhulu, ababhali bathi bangawathola kanjani amandla okuphuma ebudlelwaneni obungebuhlangene, ukuthi bangakwenza kanjani, yini okufanele balwele amanxeba angenangqondo okungenzi Phulukisa ngokuyisimangaliso kuphela ngoba wenzeni.
Ukunemba nokubumbana kwe-dalsegg ne-vesza kungadliwa kuphela. Umfundi waseRussia wajwayela amaqoqo aqine kakhulu futhi anezigaba "zezindlela zokupheka zezengqondo". Ukunakwa okukhethekile kwababhali kuyakhokha ngokusobala ukugwema ukuhlukunyezwa (ukumangalelwa kwesisulu ngokugeleza kanyekanye kwephutha lephutha lomhlaseli), okuyinto ochwepheshe bezengqondo basakazwa ngakwesokunxele nakwesokudla.
Awuqondi ukuthi muhle noma mubi kangakanani - kusebenza kuwe umhlaseli? Ukukuhlonipha noma ukubanda? Lababantu badideka kalula, bebonisa izinhlangothi ezahlukahlukene ze "Mina" zabo. Eyodwa - enobungane, enhle, enomusa. Okunye ukuthi abantu kuphela abavela ezindlini eziseduze bavame ukubonwa - ukuziphindisela, inzondo ephelele nokugqamile.
Ngempela igxathu negxathu, umugqa ongemuva komugqa uyalile futhi ngokuzethemba, asiza umfundi ukuthi anqume futhi ashiye ubudlelwano obuyingozi ngokulahleka okuncane kakhulu.
Uzizwe ephindaphindwe ngecala lokuthi ubudlelwano bungasondeli. Ucabanga ukuthi kufanele uziphathe ngendlela ehlukile: ukukhombisa ukwethembana okwengeziwe, ukwazi ukulalela, ukuvunyelwa futhi ngokuzikhandla funa ukuzishintsha. ... Kepha awukwazi futhi akufanele ukonga umuntu okhulile ongazibophezeli izimpilo zabo, imizwa nemicabango. Kufanele uzibuze uma ukholelwa ngempela ukuthi umsulwa uzoshintsha.
Ngamafuphi, siyisibonelelo esikhulu esisebenzayo sokuthi kube nesidingo isikhathi eside futhi kakhulu, futhi sethemba ukuthi kuzofika kubafundi bakhe.
Ukuthweswa iziqu: "Ku-hook. Ungawephula kanjani umbuthano wobudlelwano obungesinampilo "Auden Dalsegg, Inger Vesse, translation nargis shinkarenko. Ukushicilela indlu "Alpina Publisher", eMoscow, 2016.