Udlame luchitha ubunikazi njengegciwane noma igciwane libhubhise umzimba. Dinga ukwelashwa futhi udinga ukuvuselelwa. Yini abesifazane abanomuzwa ngemuva kokuhlukana nomlingani wokudlwengula? Yini enzima kakhulu kubo ekubuyiselweni? Khuluma abafundi bethu abaphunyuke esihogweni.
Kunzima ukusetshenziselwa ukuthi ngingumuntu omdala
Yini eyayinzima kakhulu ngemuva kokushiya ubuhlobo obunobudlova? Qondisisa ukuthi ngingahlala yedwa. Ukuthi ngingumuntu osemdala, egcwele engqondweni. Ngokuvamile ngiba nesikhathi eside ebudlelwaneni - kwabonakala sengathi nganginohlobo oluthile lwengane enonile, ngakho-ke owayengumphathi wangaphambili uyangiphatha. Ukuthi ngikwazi ukunginikeza futhi ngingafi emgodini ngaso leso sikhathi. Engikwazi ukukwazi kahle amakhono amasha, futhi lezo ezidingekayo empilweni yami nokusinda. Futhi angisakwazi ukukwazi izinto ezintsha ezidinga, ngokwesibonelo, "umsebenzi wamadoda" wohlobo lokulungisa izinhlamvu zemali kwi-simulator. Noma ngifisa ukubiza itekisi uqobo - bekulokhu kwenzeka ngaphambili. Futhi ngisathusa ukuncika ngokuphelele ngokwezezimali. Ngisafunda ukukwenza. Futhi kusakwesabisa ukuthi anginazo izindlu. Futhi, ngokufanele, ngesaba ukuthi angikwazi ukukhokha irenti, nokuthi ngizokwenzanjani-ke? Kunzima kimi ukujwayela ukungabi namakhaya, ukuze ngiqashe izindlu.Ensalweni eyomile, kunzima kimi ukujwayela ukuthi ngingumuntu omdala ongakwazi, ofuna ukuzinakekela.
Ukwahlukaniswa nomngani omkhulu
Kunzima ukuthi inja yethu ijwayelekile, wahlala naye, kodwa kufanele ngiyinakekele lapho kungenjalo, okungukuthi, lapho eshiya. Ngokuvamile uhlala emizini emibili, eshiya njalo emavikini amabili. Kepha ngasikhathi sinye ngiseza lapho ngiyokuthola, ngihambe naye, futhi ekugcineni ngixhumana naye kakhulu. Futhi le yinkinga enkulu, ngoba ukuxhumana kungubuthi kakhulu. Angikwazi ukujwayela iqiniso lokuthi inja ayiphili nami, futhi alikho ithuba lokuligcina.
Ayikwazanga ukuvuka ngombhede
Kungekudala nje ngiphunyuke kuye (okuhle, bekukhona lapho, nganginefulethi lami ngithole ngaphambi komshado), ngabaleka. Ngomqondo ofanele wegama. Kwakunezinsuku lapho ngihluleka ukusukuma embhedeni ekuseni, ngakho-ke ngaphonswa emuva. Ngisho nangaphambi kokuba indlu yangasese ibiyinkinga.Ngihlushwa yi-Besonity
Phuma - uyisiphelo. Ngifuna ngempela ukuphila ngokujwayelekile ... vele ngonyaka ngemuva kokuhlukana nomyeni wami, angicishe ngilale. Ngilala kusihlwa. Bese ngivuka phakathi kwamabili futhi ngingabe ngisalala.
Zoqala phansi
Bekumele ngifunde konke ukuzohamba - ukuxhumana, ukusebenza, ukulala, ukucela usizo, bathembele abantu, akukho lutho olwesaba. Njengabantu ngemuva kokulimala kanzima komgogodla kabusha ukuhambisa izandla nemilenze yabo futhi bahambe bayohlala nokukhubazeka, kwadingeka ngiphathe ukukhubazeka kwezenhlalo.Ubudlova Uroduces
Into enzima kakhulu kuze kube manje ikholelwa ukuthi ngingaba usizo yimina. Inani lami alinqunywa ngentengo (imali engiyitholayo noma engayitholi) nokuthi abanye abantu bangangihlonipha nothando. Akufanele futhi angiphoqelekile ukuthi kufanele ngifanelwe isimo sengqondo esihle, nginelungelo eliyisisekelo lokuhlonipha imingcele yami, imizwa nakho konke okubalulekile kimi. Empeleni, kungani kunzima kangaka ukuphuma ekuhlukunyezweni ngisho nangemva kokuhlukana kuthatha iminyaka - ukululama, ngoba uTiller uphula umnyombo wakho - uzizwa kanjani ngalokho ocabanga ngawe. Imane inobuthi futhi yanxuse umuzwa wokuzethemba, ukuzethemba nokugcina ukuzilungiselela.
Kufanele athule
Kwakunzima kakhulu ukuthola abantu abaphephile abangatshela udaba lwabo ngaphandle kokulahlwa nokuhlekwa. Kwakufanele ngithule iminyaka eminingana, ngoba kwakukhona abantu abanobuthi kuphela abaseduze. Kanye nokulimala ethule kukhula kuphela
Kunzima ukuba munye
Isizungu. Bengingazi ukuthi ukwehlukanisa umhlatshelo yisiqinisekiso sokudlwengula, izinhlamvu zamagama. Futhi-ke kwathusa, ukubona ukuthi kunabangane bakhe kuphela abangizungezile, kodwa angibonanga abangane bami. Ngaleso sikhashana nokwethuka kwakungu, kanye nokudangala.Akasesabi?
Kholwa ukuthi awunakwesaba, ungacabangi ngawo wonke amagama, hhayi ukuba sevikeleni eliyindilinga eliyindilinga.
Konke kuvunyelwe!
Angivunyelwanga umuzwa wokuphuza inkululeko. Angikwazi ukubika kunoma ngubani! Ngingachitha isikhathi njengoba ngifuna! Ngingalala, ngaphandle kokwesaba ukuthi ngizokhangwa ngokungazelelwe ekwenzeni isikweletu somshado! Angikwazi ukupheka! Futhi zenzele isaladi, kepha izingane zeKishkash. Ngiyakwazi ukuthenga izingubo nezicathulo ezintofontofo futhi ezinjengami, mina kuphela! Ngiyakwazi ukuxhumana nanoma ngubani futhi ngingabiki ngale ndlela! Ngingavele ngiye kwikhompyutha ubusuku bonke! Ngiyakwazi ukukhetha ubhiya, i-pizza, i-sushi, ngaphandle kokubheka kunoma yiluphi ubuso obunganeliseki ngaphansi kokubhula "kuyabiza futhi kuyingozi"! Ngingaletha ikhaya njengendoda lapho kungekho zingane, yeboeeee !! UNkulunkulu, yeka injabulo. Nginenhlanhla enkulu kangakanani ukuthi ngamsusa.Akekho omunye umuntu ogoqa ngaphandle
Ngingazithengela izinto ezingithanda ngokwakho, futhi ungacabangi uma zimthanda. Futhi impela ngeke athande lutho. Kuyadabukisa, leli yipulazi elihlangene, lokhu kuyinto enhle, yiBabishechye, lokhu kuyinhlamba, akuyona iminyaka, "ayikho" ukhuluma ngawe "...
Injabulo
Ngaba ne-euphoria kusuka kwinkululeko kuqala. Sengathi kuqhamuka esitokisini.
Ukuphepha kolwazi
Ngisanda kuyeka ukuphulukisa isikhathi ngasinye lapho ngivuka ngenxa yenkampani. Ukwesaba ukuthi uzofunda.Wayengeke abe ngumama kamama
Lapho ngibeletha ingane, angizange ngihlele ukumphakamisa yedwa. Kepha lapho ukuziphatha kwendodakazi kaYise ngefomu elidakwa kwaba yingozi kithina nentombazane, ngahamba. Ingane enkulisa ihlala igula njalo. Ngenxa yalokhu, angikwazi ukuthola umsebenzi unomphela, ngisebenza ekhaya. Akekho ofuna ukuthatha owesifazane onengane encane. Okuthi lokho futhi icala lizoya esibhedlela. Siphila ngesidingo, futhi kunzima kakhulu.
Ngaphandle kobaba ezolile
Okunzima kakhulu kimi manje isidingo sisasheshe siqale ukuxhumana nayo ngefomethi "ubaba uza ezinganeni." Manje akaza ezintabeni izinyanga ezingaphezu kwezingu-3, kwangilahlile endlini. Futhi kusukela kusidingo sokuqala okusha (ukuxhumana kwezingane kanye naye) Ngiye ngamabhomu "nedaldtski".ISadavonovat
Okubi kakhulu ukuzwa kwabathandekayo - uma ukukushaya, khona-ke kungenzeka ukuthi ungasolwa ngalokhu. Ukuhlukaniswa Kwezenhlalo Uma kukudambisa ukuthi awanele, futhi abantu bamkholwa. Qala ukusebenza nokwenza isenzo - okuwukuphela kwesifiso sokucasha ngaphansi kwengubo bese unyamalala. Izenzo zokwahlulela ziyesabeka, ngoba Azikho izinsiza. Utshani kwi-Intanethi kanye nezinkundla zokuxhumana nabantu, izinsongo, ukulimaza, ukulimaza izinto zomuntu, ukugenca i-imeyili kanye nokuthumela ama-imeyili kumakhasimende ajwayelekile azo zonke izinhlobo ze-vyslazni kusuka ebusweni bami. Ngisaqhubeka nenqubo. Ingxenye eyinkimbinkimbi yamafulethi kanye ne-alimony. Ngokwesihlangothini kubukeka sengathi kunokwesaba iTiran, ohlukunyezwayo oqhekekile evela ku-hook, futhi uzogibela zonke izinkinobho ukubhubhisa isisulu. Noma yikuphi ukusebenzisana nalo muntu kuyesabeka, kunengekayo futhi kuyanengeka. Iyakhubazeka, ibulala ukunambitheka kwempilo, amaphupho, izifiso, amacebo. Zisola ukuthi angikuqedanga ngesikhathi somhlangano wokuqala. Usuvele uphume ejele. Kuyinto yansuku zonke ukubheka izimayini zakhe nabameli ukuze bathathe ifulethi ezinganeni futhi balondoloze ku-alimony. Kuyamangaza ukuthi uqhubeka nokukudonsela ezweni lakhe eligulayo nangokwesomo ngamanani we-curvature. Ukwethusa lapho ngemuva kokuxhumana naye, kusonteka engxenyeni yengxoxo yasekhaya, hhayi ekuboniseni ukuguqulwa kwezinsuku, iphunga lemvula, amaqabunga ekwindla. Kuyesabeka ukucabanga ukuthi awusoze wabuyela empilweni yakho yakudala.
Kusekwethusa, umuzwa wokuphelelwa yithemba, lapho uqonda ukuthi awufuni lutho: Funda le ncwadi, ubhala incwadi, iya kuhambo lwemivubukulo noma wenze nje i-manicure. Kubi kangangokuba lokhu kungasebenzi kwangaphakathi kuguqulwa kalula kube ukucasuka ezinganeni. Ukwesabisa lapho abeluleki abaningi ngemikhandlu nemibono yabo engadingekile: Ngenxa yezingane kwakudingeka ukuba bakhuthazele, wayekade ehlala naye - dana, uyazi ukuthi ubani onjani Iseminyango evaliwe? Ukungazinzi ngokweqiniso, impikiswano ebabazekayo yalowo owayekade - uhlukanisile, ngakho-ke ukuphakelwa kwezingane ngokwakhe. Kubi ukufisa ukufela omunye umuntu, ngoba le yiyona kuphela into engamisa ngokuphelele ukuxhumana lapho ungalokothi uthole umsunguli. Kubi ukuzwa bonke laba bantu bokuhlakanipha okungekho intuthu ngaphandle komlilo, umyeni wakhe nomfazi - omunye uSathane, bobabili kufanele basolwe.
Le ndatshana yalungiselela uNatalia Kalashnikova
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