Kungaba kuhle kakhulu ukuthi maduze nje uzoqala ukubheka ama-storefronts ezitolo ngama-sprainders futhi kungazelelwe uthole ukuthi izingane, zivame ukuvela izidalwa ezinhle kakhulu. Akekho okhansele amandla e-Mimi, kepha isithunzi esisodwa lapho kubona izithende nezimpungushe akwanele ukuba ngumzali omuhle. Zihlole bese kuthi munye oseduze - Mhlawumbe kukhona kuphela izimbangi zabanye izingane, zihlehlisela ukuzalwa kwakhe ngaleso sikhathi?
Usukulungele ukudela izintshisekelo zakho.
Ngemuva kokuzalwa kwengane, nina nobabili niyeka ukuba yinhloko lapha. Okuphambili kuzoba. Manje akunandaba ukuthi ufunani - nje lokho akufunayo, futhi bobabili kuzofanela bavumelane nalokhu. Ngaphandle kwalokho, isikhathi eside, ubude bamashumishumi eminyaka buzoqala, ingoma umuntu aye enqatshiwe ngenxa yomndeni futhi manje umndeni kufanele ube yiyo.
Unemali eyanele
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The Whetched, Nishchebrodskaya futhi uzama ukuqasha umusho mayelana ne-bunny kanye notshani akusebenzi. Ingane ayibangwanga, noma ngabe ungenawo izicathulo zesilika kanye nezicathulo ze-Moraine Oak. Uzodinga inqwaba yezinto zokudla, ezinhle (ezinhle ngempela!) Umshuwalense, imali ye-nanny, enkulisa, isikole kanye neyunivesithi. Ake sithi unamaqhawe futhi ulungele ukuzilungiselela wena ngokwakho ulaka - welulela kade kangakanani kule modi? Ingane idinga ukuqina kwezezimali, hhayi manje kuphela, kepha impilo yakhe yonke.
Unobudlelwano obuzinzile
Mhlawumbe uyathanda ukuthi ezothando zakho zinyakazisa futhi ziphonsa ngenxa yalokho uNkulunkulu. Kepha uma kunjalo, lena akuyona indawo engcono kakhulu yengane. Lokhu, ake sithi iqonde, indawo yeLousy. Uma lo mbhangqwana unezinkinga ezithile, ukuvela komuntu obambe iqhaza obomvana obudlelwano kuzobenza baba kubi. Okubi kakhulu. Abazali badinga amandla okuxoxisana, isimo esithule nesinomusa endlini, ukubambisana futhi, efiseleka, nemibono efanayo ekukhulisweni kwezingane.Nina nobabili abadala
Hhayi ngomqondo wepasipoti. Ngomqondo wekhanda. Awuziphathi enganeni, nobabili ninomthwalo wemfanelo futhi awunangqondo. Uma udinga ukwenza okuthile, ungena ngaphandle kwezikhumbuzi, amahlazo, amabala nokukhaza "Kungani ngiqinisile?".
IHhovisi Lakho Lase-Humane kuYoung Omama
Lesi akusona iphuzu lokuqala elifika engqondweni lapho kukhulelwa ukukhumbula, kepha kufanele acabange ngakho. Kumele ucabange ngokusobala ukuthi ihhovisi lendabuko likulungele kangakanani ukukuvumela ukuthi uye enkambeni nokuthi uzokukhokhela kanjani, kodwa ukude, futhi yini enye u-foreeki enikeza omama aba Inkampani. Konke lokhu akufanele kuvunyelwene, kepha kuchazwe ngokucacile, noma ngabe wena nomqashi - abangane - amathuli, umlilo wokugcina, wamanzi kanye nethusi.Ulungele ibhodi yokufaka kanye nezisulu
"Hawu, konke okungenangqondo, ukulala kwami ngomoya ophansi!" Kuhle kakhulu ukuthi abanye omama banenhlanhla. Lokhu akusho ukuthi uzoba nenhlanhla. Umama ubeka ama-panda ayinkulungwane ngemibuthano ngaphansi kwamehlo. Nobaba nami. Kunzima ukulala lapho i-siren yomkhumbi isebenza ngaphansi kwendlebe. Futhi ukuntuleka kokulala akuyona ukuphela kokukhahlela kusuka endaweni yokunethezeka. Bobabili kufanele bazi ukuthi injabulo encane yokuphila - njengamaSonto amade anokulala, amathoyizi athule emathangi nasemibuthanweni enkulu nabangane kuvulandi - kuzoba sesikhathini esedlule, kungahle kube yilapho kungathandeki.
Unendawo eyanele efulethini lakho
Noma kalula, ngaphandle kokuwohloka kwezezimali, ungahambisa endaweni ethe xaxa. Ngoba ingane izodinga isikhala - okokuqala embhedeni, bese kuba negumbi lomuntu siqu. Angifuni ngisho nokuchaza ukuthi kungani ubuthongo busefulethini elinamakamelo elilodwa, elihlukaniswe amakhabethe namakhethini - akuyona inketho nendlela yokulimala kwengqondo kuwo wonke umuntu.Awudingi uthando oluningi
Izingane zivame ukuzala ukuze zivikele uthando noma zithathe indawo ethile - abazali noma i-ex. Kepha ukuba ngumzali akusho "ukutholwa", cishe kungu-100% mayelana "nokupha".
Awusemncane kakhulu
Kukhona isikhafu: Odokotela bathi munye, odokotela bezengqondo - okwengeziwe. Okodokotela kusenesikhathi, Yebo, kungcono - izicubu zinwebeka ngokwengeziwe, inhliziyo iyimoto evuthayo, umzimba wonke unamandla futhi unamandla. Kepha ikhanda lisengafanele. Futhi uma idwengulwe izinyanga ezimbalwa, ukulimala kwengqondo kungakulandela ebhodini lebhokisi. Abesifazane ababelethe ingane yokuqala iminyaka engama-23 ubudala, bavame ukuhlushwa ukucindezelwa kwangemva kokuphela, i-neurosis kanye nomqondo wecala, kuyaphazamisa.Niyifuna
Ukubeka ubandlululo - into yokugcina. Awukwazi ukwazi ukuthi yini okungcono kuye. Futhi uma engafuni izingane, ithuba lokuthi ngemuva kokuzalwa kwendlalifa, uzoguqulwa waba ubaba ofanele, omncane - le ndaba iyazi izibonelo ezanele. Akekho onelungelo lokuxazulula okunye, ukuze abe ngumzali noma cha.