Inkinga yeminyaka yengane yilapho kungazelelwe, amamodeli asebenzayo wokuxhumana (= ukuvumela kwezimo eziyinkimbinkimbi) ukuyeka ukusebenza. Okokuqala uyakuqonda ukuthi kukhona okungahambanga kahle, ingane yaphuka, noma ini? Kubonakala sengathi selikwazile ukudingida naye.
Lapho-ke ngokuhlupheka okukhulu noma okuncane kubhekene namandla abo. Futhi-ke kungaba ngengozi, kungaba ukuphelelwa yithemba, noma ngemuva kokufunda izintaba zezincwadi namaGigabytes wezindatshana, noma ngemuva kwengxoxo nochwepheshe owela. Futhi umnyango uvuleka! Kutholwe!
Musa ukuthenga, ungabi nam, hhayi ekhaya!
Angizange ngiqonde ngokushesha ukuthi kwakuyini. Eminyakeni engu-2,5 ubudala, le ndodakazi yasinda i-General Anesthesia. Futhi lapho kungokokuqala (zonke ezinye izinsuku ngemuva kwe-anesthesia), waqala wakhala kusihlwa "hhayi uBai, hhayi uBahi!", Nginqume ukuthi wesaba ukulala. Ngamchazela ukuthi umama wayeseduze kangangokuba akekho noyedwa ongenza noma yini naye, ukuthi silala embhedeni wethu futhi sivuke embhedeni wethu ...
Ngabe sengikholwa nokuthi kunezimpikiswano ezinengqondo ezinganeni, okuzokhuluma - le yindlela engcono kakhulu yokuxhumana, kungakhathalekile ukuthi iminyaka yobudala i-interlocutor.
Ekugcineni, ngathatha indodakazi ezandleni zami, ngaqala ukubhukuda futhi esikhundleni se- "bai-bai" sang "musa u-Bai - akasho lutho. Kubukeka sengathi kuyisisusa sengoma endala ethi "I-Maple Leaf". Futhi intombazane yathula.
Kepha-ke angikaqondi lutho.
Futhi lapho indodakazi esekupheleni kokuhamba yaqala ukumemeza "hhayi ekhaya! Hhayi i-Homeo! ", Ngamncenga, ngamnika ithuba lokubuyela ekhaya - isithandwa eside, okungukuthi, saya endlini. Ukuhamba ubheke endlini - kwakuyindlela ejwayelekile yokuhola ingane ekuhambeni izinyanga ezimbalwa.
Kepha futhi akazange asiza ekuhambeni ngasendlini, le ndodakazi yaqhubeka yakhala: "Hhayi ekhaya!". Lapho sengiqhume: "Hhayi ekhaya, hhayi ukudlala!". Ingane yashaywa ngokushesha: "Ikhaya! Inaliti! ". Waqala ukubheka emehlweni ami: "Ikhaya? Udinga? ".
Kwakuwukuqonda.
Sibe sesikhuluma nezinyanga ezimbalwa ezalandela - "Musa uNam!", "Ukungaqoqi ukuthi ungavakashelwa", "hhayi ukufunda izincwadi." Kuze kube yindodakazi elandelayo "Masya, asizihambeli kujoka!" Angiphendulanga ngathi: "Mama, ngifuna isobho nje!" ("PiOsto Khatsa SUP"). I-UV, idlule kudlule, yadlula i-Atlantic (are noma i-Brasssay, kwesinye isikhathi ku-Doggy), ungakhipha.
Imibhikisho kaMasya
Shintsha izingubo ngaphambi kombhede - impi. Gqoka ukuze uvakashele isihlobo sakho esithandekayo - impi. Geza izandla ngaphambi kokudla - impi. "Hhayi! Hhayi! Nooo !!! "
Iphinde yahlelwa ngokungazelelwe. Ubaba waya egumbini, wangibuza ini? Ngaphendula nge: "Masya imibhikisho!". Ama-Masya isikhathi esimbalwa agwinyiwe, wangibuka, kuyise. Ngemuva kwalokho kwaqala ukubhikisha kabili ngamandla aphindwe kabili, kunomqondo wesikweletu esivele esosweni nasezincomo emehlweni, - Dlala ukudlala!
Bengikhathele kakhulu. Anginendaba, bengifuna ukugqoka kuphela ama-pajama akhe. Futhi ngathi: "Lalela, Masya, ake ngihambe manje, futhi uzokudiselela ngokuhamba kwesikhathi. Sizolala phansi, ngizokutshela, futhi ungihloniphe i-Aibolita, futhi uzomemeza ethi cha, angifuni i-Aibolita, iyaphawula! Woza? "
Into esemqoka kwakungamele ikhohliwe ukumbuza lapho belala phansi, mayelana nomdlalo futhi bafuna imibhikisho endaweni ethenjisiwe.
Isebenze cishe nkinga ayinazinkinga. Okusho ukuthi, ngaphezu kwengxenye yamacala, futhi lokhu, uzovuma, okuningi.
Bese umemeza?
Indodakazi yamemeza, kwabonakala kimi cishe njalo. Ngaso sizathu, nanoma yikuphi ukuvelela kwavula umlomo futhi: "Aaaaaaaaa!". Akekho noma omakhelwane omakhelwane omakhelwane asinda kulokhu ngeke esakwazi. Ikakhulu uma, ngenxa yokukhala, sadutshulwa phansi usuku losuku.
Isizathu sokukhala kungaba yinoma yini. Babedlala bafihle futhi bafuna futhi bengayifuni le ntombazane ngemuva kwesihlalo, kodwa ngaphansi kwesihlalo, ngenkathi ecashe ngemuva kwezinyawo zikayise. Ayikwazanga ukupakisha ubhanana ku-peel emuva. Bafaka ingane hhayi i-t-shirt noma banikeze isipuni esingalungile (hhayi lowo athi uthule buthule). I-apula kwakungewona umbala, futhi le ncwadi ayizange ivulwe kulelo khasi.
Bhala umbuzo esithangamini somama, ngenxa yalokho kumemeza kwakho okuneminyaka emibili, futhi uthole amakhulu ezindaba ezinjengethu.
Ngamafuphi, kwakudingeka sisindise. Izikhova - Cha. Okwakhe akuzange kukhungathekile futhi akuzange kuphele. Akazange anciphise, hhayi "acishiwe" ngemuva kokukhala. Vele wazamazama futhi waphila. Kepha kungavalwa ngemizuzu engama-20 noma engama-40.
Futhi sathi akudingekile ukumemeza manje, asikhaleli endlini, umama akamemezi, ubaba akazange amemeze. Futhi iMasya ayimemezi. Musa ukumemeza !!! Kepha siyakuya olwandle, bayamemeza lapho, thina base behlala eMoscow hhayi naseRussia). Kepha ake siqhubeke impelasonto ukuhamba, futhi simemeze.
Bekubaluleke kakhulu lapho beya endaweni ephephile, khumbuza intombazane ukuthi udinga ukumemeza. Kudingekile. Wathenjiswa. Krychi, Masya!
Futhi kanye ... Wabuza: "Mama, nanamuhla sizoya olwandle? Ngifuna ukumemeza! " Bengiziqhenya ngayo indodakazi yami ngaleso sikhathi! Futhi ngabona nokuthi, wamisa ukuba yingane, ngokuzumayo - ngobusuku obubodwa - waphenduka nje ingane.
Abazali kumele bamelane nezingane zabo
Kwakuwukuhlangenwe nakho okuqinile kithi. Sifunde ukungabheki ukubonakaliswa kwangaphandle, kepha ekujuleni kokuziphatha kwengane, kodwa ngenxa yalokho izindleko zokuziphatha.
Sakhombisa indodakazi yami ukuthi kungenzeka ingakhathazeki ukuthi konke kulawulwa. Ukuthi sinokwethenjelwa, esimeme, ukuthi sizokwazi ukubekezelela noma yimuphi umgede wakhe. Futhi manje waqhamuka ebuntwaneni bakhe, ubusuku bonke wayeka ukukhuluma ngaye "Masya", waqala wathi "Mina," ukuxhumana nathi nobaba.
Inkinga "cha" kwesinye isikhathi ibizwa ngokuthi yi-PLITITION kokuqala yentando yengane.
Kepha lokhu akunjalo. Le mizamo ngandlela-thile ibhekana nokubhekana nokuvukwa kwabo ngokwahlukana kwabo nabazali, baqonde, bazizwe, baqoke indawo yakho emndenini, indawo yakho ehlukile. Lokhu kungukuqala kwale nkinga okuthiwa yiminyaka emithathu - ubunzima bokuzazi.
Manje indodakazi yami iyisihlanu. Ubonakala sengathi usekwelinye inkinga - ufunda ukuziphatha ngokwawo, ufunda ukubhekana naye ngemizwa nemizwa yawo. Futhi angiphinda futhi ngibe nesikhathi sakhe. Futhi amamodeli ajwayelekile ayeka ukusebenza. Ngisathule phakathi kokushintsha ingqondo yami nokuqonda.
Izolo ngikwazile ukulala ngokujwayelekile, kodwa kwakuyini - ingozi noma etholakala ekugcineni indlela? Angazi okwamanje. Uma lokhu kungeyona ingozi, kanye nokuqonda kwethu naye, ngizokutshela nakanjani ngakho. Ngolunye usuku. Lapho ngikhipha isikhathi esithile futhi ngigxile ... ngolunye usuku ngingakhipha futhi ngigxile. Ngiyakholelwa kukho.
I-Liana Nedroshvili engiyithandayo engiyithandayo yathi: "Abazali kufanele bamelane nezingane zabo." Kubukeka kimi sengathi kujule kakhulu futhi kakhulu. Izingane ziyakhula futhi azikwazi ukubhekana ngaso sonke isikhathi ngokwenzeka kubo, azikwazi ukuzimela njalo, ngaphandle kosizo.
Ngemuva kwalokho kufanele sibhekane nathi, kufanele simelane. Kuphela, sizobasiza ukuba badlule ezinhlangeni zokukhula futhi babe nezingane ezijwayelekile, ezanele, abahle, ongaxoxisana ngazo. Kuze kube yilapho inkinga elandelayo. Futhi inqobo nje uma beba ngabantu abadala. Futhi ukuthi yini abazoba ngabantu abadala - abavuthiwe noma cha - kuya ngokuthi siyakwazi yini ukubavimba noma cha.
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