Lapha, ngaphansi kwalesi sihloko, uPavel Zygmantovich, ngabe sasayinwa ngentokozo ... ukube bekukhona amaphosta. Futhi umane wabelane nawe. Nakhu okungcwele okungcwele.
Izinkinga eziningi empilweni yabantu zenzeka ngenxa yekhanda. Imibono emangazayo ihlala ekhanda, okuthi, lapho usebenzisa abantu, impilo bukhoma. Imibono enjalo kufanele ithintwe kusuka ekhanda ngazo zonke izindlela ezingenzeka, ngaphandle, ngaphandle kokuthi, ukunqunywa.
Isibonelo, amanye amadoda aseNhloko aphila umbono othokozisayo - uma owesifazane ehlala nezingane ekhaya, khona-ke kuphumula ubusuku nemini futhi kuphumula.
Ngale ndoda ilindele ukuthi umfazi ahlangane naye emsebenzini ajabule futhi aphumule ngokungafanele, asha, ahlekiselayo, adinwa yilapho ephumule futhi ephumule. Hlangana, kucacile, isidlo sakusihlwa esihle nokukhishwa kwemilenze, ngokwesiko lasendulo lamaGrikhi. Kulungile, ngasusa imilenze yami, kodwa kwabanye - cha.
Futhi indoda ingaqonda kwenye indawo. Wawela emsebenzini, iningi lemali evela kulesi sigxobo alisebenzisile ngokwakhe mathupha, kodwa kumkakhe nezingane, futhi likholelwa ukuthi wayefanelwe imihawu umkakhe. Lapha, Quote: "Kunjani kuye, noma ini? Ngize ekhaya - mete me, njengoba kufanele! "
Futhi njengoba lona wesifazane akenzi nakaphi kulokhu okungenhla, owesilisa ohlelweni nokudideka. Indlela ephuma kulokho okungaba lula kakhulu ukubhekana nayo: "Akangithandi, akanginiki, alukho uthando kule ndlu!" Ngakho-ke - inkosikazi, isehlukaniso, ubunzima ekuxhumaneni nezingane nokunye, njalonjalo.
Konke lokhu kungagwemeka uma ubheka umhlaba kakhulu (noma, ngendlela ehlukile, faka umgoqo wengqondo).
Ukubukwa okuphambeneyo kuzosikhombisa izikhathi ezibalulekile. Okungukuthi - isihlalo esisesimemelweni sivivinyo esindayo, nzima kakhulu kunomsebenzi.
Okungukuthi, ubuncane bezizathu ezine:
1. Awulawuli lutho. Ukuze uthole injabulo, umuntu ubaluleke kakhulu ukulawula impilo yakhe. Ukulawula impilo yabo (ukugcizelela - ngaphezu kwakho) kuthinta ngqo impilo, injabulo kanye nempumelelo yempilo yomuntu. Kuyini ukulawula? Lokhu ukwamukelwa kwezinqumo zakho nokubalandela.
Owesifazane ohlezi ekhefini lokukhulelwa ngukukhethwa kabi ngokweqile kwamathuba okwenza izinqumo nokuzilandela. Ngakho-ke wacabanga ngesidlo sasemini, ngenkathi ingane elele, yenza izivivinyo zibe yimishini. Futhi ingane yezikhathi ze-R - futhi ayilalanga. Kubukeka sengathi futhi kuhamba, futhi wadla - futhi ingane ayilali, ngokwakhe ihamba ngenjabulo.
Noma, "Nginqume ukubiza umngani, ngenkathi ingane ibandakanyeka emaphethelweni. Kuqale kuphela ingxoxo, njengalapha - fuck! Bach! Kukhona okwephukile, ingane ekhala, kufanele ugcine.
Lokhu empilweni yowesifazane osesimemezelweni kuningi kakhulu kunendoda esebenza, futhi lokhu kukhathele kabi.
2. Awunamphumela. Emsebenzini - isivumelwano, ubanjiwe, osontekile, osontekile, wahamba indlela, nasekhaya - akukho lutho. Owesifazane wageza izitsha - emva kwesigamu sehora, intaba yayinqwabelene ekugezeni imoto. Phansi kwe-Prothella phansi - futhi izingane zichithe ubisi zichithe ubisi futhi zifakwe ipulasitiki. Akunamphumela.
Ngaphezu kwalokho, ngokuvamile owesifazane akakwazi ukuletha lolu daba kuze kube sekupheleni. Ngathola izingubo zangaphansi emshinini, wawungenaso isikhathi sokubola - udinga ukushintsha i-diaper. Ngashintsha - anginaso isikhathi sokubuyela eLingerie, ngoba ingane yabuza lapho. Ugxile - ingane icela ukudlala, ungalamba kanjani? Ekugcineni, uLingerie ulele ePelvis, omaka, ngangokunokwenzeka.
Futhi lapho kungekho mphumela, akukho "ukuqiniswa kwe-dopamine" akwenzeki. Kalula nje, umzimba awutholi ukunikela ngomsebenzi wabo, futhi inqubo yakhe ephambene nentandokazi yengenzeki. Yini-ke, yehlisa ugqozi ezimweni ezinjalo. Kepha kusadingekile ukwenza noma kunjalo, akunandaba ukuthi yisiphi isikhuthazo. Lokhu kucindezela futhi kungasiza kalula ekucindezelekeni okungokwemvelo kakhulu.
3. Emsebenzini - ukubonga, kanye nasekhaya - akukho lutho . Yebo, lapho izingane ziningi noma zingaphansi kwabadala futhi zingacabanga ukuthi umama udinga ukubonga. Futhi uma kungenjalo? Ukubonga komuntu kungumzuzu obalulekile wokuqiniswa (kufaka phakathi i-dopamine eshiwo ngenhla). Akukho ngiyabonga - akunasisusa sokwenza okunye okwengeziwe.
Kubi kakhulu uma umyeni engaboni ukuthi owesifazane ekukhuleni kudingeka abonga kathathu ngaphezu kokujwayelekile. Lokhu kunezela imibandela yokuvela kokudangala.
4. Isikhathi somsebenzi - amahora angaphezu kwayishumi nambili. Isimemezelo ngoba hhayi kuphela ngezingane ezidlalayo kanye no-anti. Yindlu kakotini - ukupheka, lapho, ukuhlanza, ukugeza. Futhi ngaphandle kwalokho, futhi sekusebusuku ukusukuma, ngoba umyeni wakhe usekuvukeni ekuseni futhi kubaluleke kakhulu ukulala (nalokhu ngomqondo othile. Ngakho-ke kuvela ukuthi usuku lokusebenza lowesifazane osesimemelweni lude kakhulu kunalomuntu. Yini, njengoba ngibona, ngokungalungile kancane.
5. Ukunciphisa ukuxhumana nokusekelwa. Owesifazane osesimemezeli ukhulumisana kancane. Kubukeka sengathi unezinhlobonhlobo zokuxhumana - ama-milfs afanayo enkundleni yokudlala. Eqinisweni, lesi simo asisingathandeki kangako. Owesifazane, ukuya ekhefini lokubeletha, uphume embuthanweni ojwayelekile wokuxhumana futhi, okokuqala, okwesikhashana uvumelanise nalesi simo, futhi, okwesibili, akunakuthola njalo ukuxhumana, okuzoba okufanayo ngokujula, Kunjalo ngaphambili. Noma kunjalo, amabhida esizeni awahlali avumelane ezingxoxweni ezingasho lutho ngemiphefumulo.
Ngakho-ke kuvela - ukuxhumana, kubonakala sengathi kuningi, kepha ikhwalithi yaso ingaba yi-Chrome ngokuqhathaniswa nalokho okwakukhona (mhlawumbe, kuyenzeka futhi).
Yini umuntu enza ngakho konke lokhu? Yebo, kunezindlela zokukhetha.
1. Ukwazi ukuthi isimemezelo sivivinyo esinzima. Kakade iqiniso lalolu lwazi lisiza ukuphatha kahle bonke ubunzima nobunzima besikhathi.
2. Ukwenza lula impilo kankosikazi ngangokunokwenzeka. Yebo, indoda ngemuva komsebenzi ngifuna ukuphumula, kahle, ngakho-ke lona wesifazane naye ufuna ukuphumula. Kuzobe kucace kahle uma bobabili usuku lokusebenza luzoba inqobo nje lapho wonke umuntu enza ngangokunokwenzeka. Lona ngumzali, ingane, lapha - kanjena.
3. Khumbula ukuthi umfazi ikakhulukazi adinga ukubonga nokusekelwa, futhi anikeze konke lokhu ngangokunokwenzeka.
4. Ukunikeza unkosikazi njalo "ukuxoshwa" kangangokuba kungahlangana nabangane noma ngisho nokuhamba ngepaki (ukuhamba okunjalo, ngendlela, akuyona indlela ebi kunazo zonke yokwandisa indawo yokulawula empilweni yakho - at Ukuhamba okungenani, okungenani isonto, kepha ukulawula!).
5. (Kwabesifazane) banikeze umyeni wakhe ukuba afunde le nothi. Ngokushesha, ngokuqinisekile, ngeke ngivume, kepha-ke, lapho konke kubalwa khona, kuzofika esinqumweni esifanele.
Futhi nginakho konke, ngiyabonga ngokunaka kwakho.