IPoland Pavl Zygmantich inikeza izeluleko ezilula, ezisebenzayo, ukuthi ungalugcina kanjani uthando emshadweni.
Kungenzeka yini ukuthi uphile emshadweni wegolide? Kungenzeka yini ukushada kanye naphakade? Imibuzo enjalo ivame ukuza - kokuqeqeshwa, nase-webinars, naseposini.
Impendulo yami iyindinganiso. Vele, ungakwenza.
Ukulondolozwa ngokuyisisekelo kothando ngaphezu kweminyaka emithathu kanye nomshado ohlala isikhathi eside ngokuphila - kungenzeka. Kuyadingeka kuphela ukwazi ezinye zezici zokuziphatha komuntu, futhi lezi zici zicabanga.
Namuhla ngizokutshela ngokuvimbela okulula kwengxenye yezinhlekelele zomndeni (isehlukaniso, amahlazo, izingxabano). Le ndlela itholakala kakhulu kubuningi babantu.
Ake siqale ngeqiniso lokuthi ukuba khona koMuntu osondele eduze kwethu kuhle. Empeleni, kungenxa yokuthi kusondele ukuthi siyajabula ngokuba khona kwakhe eduze. Noma - ukuze ukwazi ukusho - kungenxa yokuthi kuhle lokho.
Ngasikhathi sinye, ukuba khona komunye umuntu kuyibeka kithi eminye imisebenzi eyengeziwe. Okungukuthi - kuyadingeka ukubheka izintshisekelo zakhe.
Isibonelo esilula. Indoda isebenze kakhulu isonto lonke, kwathi ngoMgqibelo ifuna ukulala kuze kube kusihlwa. Futhi unkosikazi ufuna ukuba bahambe nabazali bakhe - basize ezweni.
Futhi iphazili liqala. Ukuyinika? Wakhe? Ngubani ozoshintsha isifiso sabo, futhi ngubani osebenzisa eyabo? Njalo lapho konke sekuxazululwa ngawodwana ngawodwana. Njengoba besho - "Kuzo zonke izindlu zakho."
Bangani, kubaluleke kakhulu ukuqonda: impilo nge-pair (futhi nangaphezulu emndenini) ihlala ihambisana nokuxhumeka kwezifiso zazo nezifiso zabathandekayo. Ngaphandle kwalokho, lapho nje umuntu eyeka ukuhlala isikhathi eside, ubuhlobo buphela ngokushesha nezinhlekelele zomndeni zizungeza.
Futhi uma ngaso sonke isikhathi lapho kufanele uphakamise izintshisekelo zakho ezithokozisayo nezintshisakalo zabathandekayo, kusho ukuthi ngaso sonke isikhathi kufanele uluqedele ama-Gyms bese ucabanga kakhulu. Kufanele uvimbele lezo zingqina noma ezinye izikhonkwane. Kuyadingeka ukusesha lokhu kugxila kakhulu noma kungaphephile kulezo zindlela ezizungezile zokubonisa.
Uyini umphumela? Ukukhathala.
Kwesinye isikhathi lesi simo sibizwa ngokuthi "impilo yendlu." Hhayi empilweni. Iqiniso ngukuthi ngesinye isikhathi umuntu ukhathele ngokuhlale okumangazayo noLinake. Ngasikhathi esithile, kubonakala ubuhlungu emazinyweni, isifiso sokulahla isikhathi sabo ngokuzimela, ngaphandle kokubheka abanye.
Kwesinye isikhathi isifiso esinjalo sivame ukuvalelisa futhi umuntu ngeke esakwazi ukuhlala emndenini futhi ahlabe ikhanda kwesobunxele, avutha amabhuloho nezitshalo. Ngithi, konke kukhathele, ngithi, ngifuna impilo yamahhala! Nikeza!
Kodwa-ke, kuyenzeka ukuhlukana, kepha vele - sekwephuzile.
Kungani isifiso esinjalo sivela? Lokhu kungukubonakaliswa kwento ejulile (kungenzeka - eyisisekelo) yento yomuntu - isimo esibalulekile senjabulo yomuntu Lawula impilo yakho . Esimweni lapho kuhlalwa khona njalo futhi kuxhunyaniswa, ukulawula okunjalo kuncishiswe kakhulu njengoba uqonda.
Ungaba kanjani? Ungalethi kanjani usizi, kwesehlukaniso, ngaphambi kokungalungiseki.
Impendulo ebusweni ukuhlanganyela ekuvinjelweni. Okungukuthi - zinike "izinsuku ezimbili zokuthula."
Izinsuku ezimbili zokulawula
Mayelana nokuthula kungokwengqondo ebomvu, futhi izinsuku ezimbili isikhathi esicacile. Ngiyachaza.
Ihora noma amabili asetshenziswe ebuhlotsheni angashiwo - kuphela, indoda ayivamile ngokwanele ukululama. Imvamisa idinga okuningi. Futhi hhayi ekhaya, ngenkathi ubuthongo bakho bonke, kodwa kwenye indawo endaweni ehluke ngokuphelele. Emgodini, ngokwesibonelo. Ku-sanatorium. E-resort. Ekuhambeni kwelinye idolobha.
Lokho wukuthi, ngokoqobo - kanye njalo ezinyangeni eziyisithupha kunengqondo ukuqoqa ipotimende lomgwaqo futhi kunciphise izinsuku ezimbili kude nomndeni.
Kungani izinsuku ezimbili? Ukuze umlingani (owakwakheni) akakhathazeki ngesihloko sokukopela. Izinsuku ezimbili zokuqala noma ezintathu (futhi kwesinye isikhathi ezine), umuntu nje "amasudi". Amaphutha olwandle, ahamba ngokwezinqubo, alala ukuphefumula, izingodo emigwaqweni nasekucindezelweni lapho kubona. Into esemqoka ukuthi awudingi lutho ukuxhumanisa noma ngubani, isikhathi sakho singokwakho kanye nokwakho kuphela. Ukulawula phezu kwakho kungokwakho ngokuphelele. Ekugcineni!
Intshisekelo kwi-adventure yothando ivuka (uma ivuka) kuphela ezinsukwini zesihlanu-eziyisithupha zokuphumula yedwa.
Kuvela ukuthi zonke izinsuku ezimbili noma ngaphansi ngokwanele, nakulowo nalowo ovukela umbuso - cha. Ukuvimbela kuhlala kuwusizo emshadweni futhi ngasikhathi sinye siphephile.
Kunengqondo nini ukuqala ukuvimba okunjalo? Isincomo esijwayelekile - Ngemuva kweminyaka emithathu emshadweni. Esimweni ngasinye, kunjalo, izinsuku ezingaphansi zingashintsha, kodwa ngokuvamile - eminyakeni emithathu.
Ngubani onezingane - unyaka ngemuva kokuzalwa, udinga ukuqala ngqo. Ngaphezu kwalokho, abantu "amadwenu" nezikhathi nobude bubalwa ngokwahlukile.
Umbuzo wokugcina ukuthi ngabe ukuvimbela okunjalo kwePanacea? Cha, kunjalo, akayona. Kepha uma kungenziwanga, khona-ke uthando lothando luningi, lunzima kakhulu.
Ukulinganisa impilo!