Ufuna unyaka wesikhombisa: Ngabe ukhona nhlobo?

Ngo-1955, uMarilyn Monroe wavuka egqoke umhlophe ophuzi ku-grille yomoya omncane, futhi umhlaba utholwe cishe nge-imvubelo iminyaka eyisikhombisa - "into yesikhombisa." Futhi ngandlela-thile kwamukelwa ngokushesha njengeqiniso lokuthi kwakungunyaka wesikhombisa womshado noma womshado - umngcele, emva kwalokho konke kugoqa eTar-Tarara, kanye noTroastion kuba cishe okungenakugwenywa.

Ngaphambi kokukhululwa kwale filimu ekhona, akekho owezwile ngaleli gama elinjalo, futhi ochwepheshe bezengqondo abatholanga lutho olukhethekile ngonyaka wesikhombisa umshado.

Futhi, empeleni, kunjalo. Kuhlobo lwangempela lomdladla uGeorge Axelrod, umlingiswa ophambili okokuqala ngqa ukuzwa isilingo sokuya kwesobunxele ngemuva kweshumi, hhayi iminyaka eyisikhombisa yomshado. Kepha umlobi wavela ukuthi "okuyisikhombisa" kuzwakala kangcono kune- "tenth", futhi walungisa kancane le ndaba.

Yize izibalo zithi isikhathi esiyiminyaka engama-5-9 sibiza ama-28% wesehlukaniso. Mhlawumbe ngonyaka wesikhombisa impilo yomndeni inokuthile okubulalayo? Cha, uma ubheka okwenzekayo ngaphambi nangemva kwalo. Kuleminyaka eyi-1-4 kubiza ama-38% ehlukanisiwe, futhi u-12% - ngemuva kweminyaka engama-20 emshadweni. Ngaphezu kwalokho, emazweni amaningi athuthukile, abantu, hhayi inkolo, isilinganiso sifana kakhulu nomshado nangesinqumo sesehlukaniso. Ngakho-ke empeleni kungaba yinto efanelekile ukukhuluma nge "ukulunywa konyaka wesine".

Futhi uma cishe ngonyaka wesikhombisa, ososayensi abakwazi ukusho lutho oluqondakalayo, bese kuba nalo lwesine banencazelo. Isazi se-anthropologist uHelen Fisher sikholwa ukuthi nge-homo, ama-sapiens ngokwemvelo abelethe ingane njalo eminyakeni emi-4. Akukhulu kakhulu - umfazi onengane esezilobeni zakhe futhi ayinaminyaka emincane yokuposa e-trailer ngeke akwazi ukuyisa ngemuva kwesizwe sakhe esingama-omadic futhi afe. Kepha iminyaka engu-4, lo mbhangqwana unesizathu sokukhulisa amandla endala ethe xaxa noma ngaphansi futhi uqala ukubheka amaqembu afuna umlingani omusha - konke egameni lokugcina ukwehlukahlukana kofuzo. Uma umuntu ngemuva kwesikhathi, ukuqala izingane nomuntu ofanayo, ubungozi bokudluliselwa kwezifo ifa buzoba buphakeme, futhi asidingi. Futhi i-Fisher ikholelwa ukuthi isithukuthezi ngemuva kweminyaka engu-4 yomshado ihlelwe - kufanele sibe nesithukuthezi, sidumale futhi siqale ukucubungula ezinye izinketho.

Kubalulekile ukuthi okhokho bethu abakude babengenaso isikhathi sokudlula ezinketho eziningi, njengoba bephila kancane kakhulu kunathi. Eminyakeni engama-30 kuya kwengama-3-35 yokuphila, banesikhathi sokushintsha abalingani abangu-4-5, futhi kukhona ukuphela okuhle. Silindele ukuthola umuntu oyedwa esizophila naye ngenjabulo iminyaka engama-40-50.

Ngenhlanhla, manje sinamathuluzi amaningi amaningi okulwa nesithukuthezi kunalokho kwabazingeli nabakwa-Omadic: amakilasi ama-Master on Technique e-Oral Sex, izinhlelo ze-SPA zababili, izinkampani ze-stereol, kanye nama-serials. Esimweni esibi kakhulu - imboni yenkonzo yocansi kanye ne-tinder - ngakho-ke ungakhohlisa nohlelo (nokho, futhi umlingani kuleli kufanele akhohliswe).