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Noma ukuqonda yonke into, noma ngokushesha ukuphonsa - ama-radicality amathiphu enza uzizwe uzizwe udidekile? Yebo, nansi umhlahlandlela omncane ongasiza.
Nazi izimo ezine lapho iphalishi lesilisa ligcwele kakhulu.
Awazi amagama othando - kepha ukhuluma ulimi lwezinto
Kunamadoda abonakala ebanda. Abazi ukuthi bangadudula kanjani, bangabe bengabizi ngamazwi anothando, kodwa "ngiyakuthanda" kubo ukuzokhipha imikhaza kuphela. Emacaleni amakhulu kakhulu, akakwazi ukuba ngowokuqala ukwanga, ushaye ikhanda, ukuxhawula isandla sakhe ngesikhathi.Mhlawumbe akanandaba nawe futhi nje noma yini esetshenziswayo. Noma mhlawumbe unezinkinga ngokubonisa imizwa - khona-ke izinto zizotshela konke.
Indoda enothando ayigcini nje ngokufeza ubuncane bezibopho zabangane nezihlobo maqondana nomunye nje ukuba bahlangane ekuseni kusuka esitimeleni noma balethe itiye elinamakhaza embhedeni. Uyohlala enakekela ama-trifles, lapho umkhathi wenduduzo uyakha khona. Uzokhumbula ukuthi yiliphi itiye olithandayo, elithenga ngalo ama-khekhe akho owathandayo, ngaphandle kwezicelo zokuthenga amabhuthi amasha (noma okungenani alungiselelwe amadala).
Ukuzungeza sengathi sonke isikhathi senza kahle? Ungaqiniseka ngothando lwendoda yakho.
Ayikwazi ukuma ohlangothini lomuntu othile engxabanweni yakho nonina
Uma uhlala nomkhwekazi wami, futhi uphakamisa isandla sakho kuwe, usuku lonke emva kokuhlanjalazwa noma isobho likhala, lisusa indoda yakho ngalesi simo, ngokweqiniso, ngobugebengu. Ensimini yomunye umuntu awukwazi ukuzivikela ngokugcwele, umyeni wami kufanele akunikeze ezokuphepha, okungenani ekudubule ngokwahlukana ngokwahlukana.
Kepha uma unokuvumelanisa nomkhwekazi wami ngaphandle kwezenzo zobudlova noma ngokuvamile ziphila ngokwahlukana, bese kuba owesilisa, njenganoma yimuphi umuntu, ngokuvamile azame ahlale ubudlelwano obuhle naye. Kufaka phakathi ukwenqaba ukudonswa ekushayweni kwabo. Kubonakala kahle yindoda uma efuna ukuba yilowo nalowo amaqembu angahlambalazi ohlangothini lwesibili ebusweni bakhe.
Kepha uma ukuvikela kwakhe kusebenza kuphela kumama, Maye, ucishe ube ngumuntu womunye umuntu.
Wasayina abantu abanyamalale
Isibonelo, ngenxa yokuthi bangabasizi bezocansi, ama-racist noma anti-semites.Emhlabeni ophelele, umuntu wakho ubadlula kubo bonke, kepha ngokoqobo akanakuba yinto ehlehlike futhi egubha bonke abajwayelene nabo, konke anakho kusukela ebuntwaneni noma ebusheni bakhe, futhi abakwazi ukubhekana nobuchopho Ikhulu lamashumi amabili lokuqala.
Into ecacile, asikhulumi ngamacala lapho indoda e-Frextan bonke laba bantu ibangelwa ukukhubazeka kwezintshisekelo nokubukwa esihlokweni (cha) sokulingana kwabantu ezimpawu zokuzala.
Akasizi empilweni yansuku zonke
Abafana abaningi emndenini noma ngamabomu abafundisi inkululeko. Phambilini, omunye umqondo wokuphathwa kwempilo wanikeza ibutho lempi, manje abaningi abakhonzi noma, kuya ngomhlangano, bakhonze ngaphandle kokuthunga umninikhaya nokuhlanza amakamelo.
Uma owesilisa ngemuva kokuchazwa ukuthi isidlo sakusihlwa asizibisi, uwoyela uqobo esiqandisini awubonakali futhi amasokisi ngokwawo awahlambuluki, khona-ke ufunda ngempumelelo ukwenza umndeni, khona-ke usengakwazi ukudala umndeni ngayo. Uma enesiqiniseko sokuthi i-Washer iyaqhubeka, futhi ubudlelwano nowesifazane uyadingeka ukuze kusetshenzwe incekukazi nasekhishini ubusuku nemini kumuntu oyedwa, khona-ke uxhumane nesonto kuphela.
Ukungaqondi akunacalaKunezimo ezithethelela - ziqonde ziyingozi empilweni nokuphila ngokuzayo.
Ukushaya
Lokho akusho emva kwalokho, yazi, isipiliyoni sowesifazane sicishe sazi amacala lapho indoda ethola ukuthi kungenzeka ukuthi ishaye kanye, ayikwenzekanga ukuthi izokwazi ukuyiphindaphinda. Ikakhulu uma ngenxa yokuthethelela kwakho, uyazi ukuthi yini engakhokha, i.e. Ngishayele okuthile okufana nenkonzo ekhokhelwe emnandi.Amadoda amaningi abonakala eqotho lapho ehlela i-honeymoon entsha njengokuxolisa, kepha lokhu kungenxa yokuthi bawukucipha ngokweqiniso wonke imizwa ebukhali, esukela ekufuyeni, ephelile ngezinyembezi ezimnandi zokuphenduka kanye nalokho akuthola futhi. Futhi, uthanda umjikelezo wonke impela, ngakho-ke ngaphandle kwengxenye yokushaywa, ngeke abuye futhi. Ungaphindi futhi ngeke kube njalo.
Uhleka izindaba zokudlwengula
Futhi uthanda ukuphawula ngezindaba eziphathelene nokubulawa noma ukushaywa kwabafazi emoyeni "Udinga kanjani ukuletha umuntu?" Okusho ukuthi, ubheka umbono ojwayelekile lapho umyeni wakhe engathandi okuthile kumkakhe, hhayi ukudivosa, kodwa ukumshaya noma ukukubulala noma ukukubulala noma ukukubulala noma ukukushaya noma ukukushaya noma ukukubulala noma ukukushaya noma ukukushaya noma ukukubulala noma ukukushaya noma ukukushaya. Lokho akucabangayo ngokudlwengulwa, usuvele uqagele. Izwi elivelele kakhulu ubugebengu obunjalo kulwazimagama lakhe "alinangqondo."
Ungazenza uthembele ukuthi uyi-Netakaya futhi uzohlala uziphatha kahle, kepha uNadezhda akazange asindise noma yimuphi umuntu wesifazane.
Ngendlela, banake abantu balolu hlobo baxazululwa ngokubulala noma ukushaywa kanzima lapho bethola ukuthi lona wesifazane uyabashiya. Ngakho-ke akunakwenzeka ukuba uthembeke kubo. Shiya a) Ngokushesha, b) ngaphandle kwencazelo nezixwayiso. Ngemuva kokunakekelwa, zama ukungakhiphi izindawo. Ngenkathi ubugebengu bungenziwa phezu kwakho, umthetho awukuvikeli.
Uphula izinto ngokufutheka
Futhi, uma ubheka, ngaso sonke isikhathi kuhlale kwenzeka izinto zakho (ikakhulukazi izipho zakhe kuwe, eziqhubeka zikucabangela ngempahla yakhe).Okokuqala, kufana nokwenza ubushiqela basekhaya njengesenzo sokusatshiswa. Okwesibili, abaningi abayeki ezintweni, ngakho-ke kokunye kokufutheka kwakhe kungaphulwa ikhala lakho.
Noma abona indlela yokuziphatha kwakhe akwamukeleki ngaphandle kwezaba kanye nokulimala kwemali (futhi ayisaphilisi izigcawu ezinjalo), noma ahlose ukusebenza ngokugcwele njengomashiqela wasekhaya futhi akukho "izinyawo ezingezona" ngeke "zibe nesineke.
Ukuthatha ucezu lwesinkwa
Owesilisa kusukela ekuqaleni, washo ukuthi uyakuzisa ngokuphelele (noma wena nengane), futhi uyaqiniseka ukuyeka umsebenzi, ngakho-ke manje usuyinakekela ngokuphelele indlu - futhi uzokuthatha ngezicelo zemali zepulazi , amathayi, ama-gaskets nezinye izinto ezidingekayo futhi ungakhohlwa ukukukhumbuza ukuthi udla kuphela ngenxa yomusa wakhe? Ubhajwe kulungiselelwe kusengaphambili. Wabalwa negunya lakhe, futhi amandla kuye uwumuthi.
Uyazi ukuthi iyini impahla yanoma yisiphi isidakamizwa? Ukude, kudingeka imithamo emikhulu. Ngakho-ke i-anlaturealecoman izobheka izindlela zokuzwa amandla phezu kwakho (kanye nengane) namandla okuqhubeka nokuqhubeka, futhi izindlela zizoba yingozi ngokwengeziwe.
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