Umthwebuli wezithombe uGabriela Erman kule minyaka emihlanu edlule, ama-portraits awokudubula abantu abazali babo, bobabili noma abangewodwa, abangewona amamodeli abo. Uyachaza: "Umama wami uyisibongo. "Kodwa ngangidinga isikhathi esiningi sokukusho ngokuzwakalayo." Kwa-Erman, inqubo yokwenza ukukhombisa umama wakhe 'kwakuyisikhathi esibuhlungu futhi esinzima. "
Wayengajwayelene nanoma yimuphi omunye umuntu akhuliswe ngesitabane noma ngesibongo. Uthi: "Isihloko kwakunguTaboo ngisho nasemndenini wethu ongajwayelekile futhi ohlanganayo. "Izinhlwathi ezincane zahlangabezana nemizwa efanayo, kodwa sasigwema ingxoxo enenjongo." Ekugcineni, e-Erman uxhumane ne-cologe, umphakathi wezingane zezitabane nezitabane, wathola abantu lapho, abantwana bakabo, inhlanganisela yokuthula nokuhlukaniswa, ukuvikela udumo lwabazali ezinkundleni zokudlala. Izithombe nezingxoxo ezethulwe e-Ersman Erman "lezi zingane" zizama ukubulala ukuthula. Izingane zabazali 'zokuma ezingezinhle' akuzona ezinye "hypothetical", zingokoqobo, futhi zivamile.Ithemba, uRose eNew York emndenini wobaba ababili
Ngakwazi ukubona imindeni yabangane bami no-anti wami noMalume, futhi ngangazi ukuthi abantu banokuthile okubizwa ngokuthi nguMama, kodwa angizange ngibe nami, kodwa angizange ngicabange kanjalo kwabambalwa. Benginesifiso somndeni wami wendabuko, ikakhulukazi umama, kodwa, ngacabanga ukuthi ngikhulela kanjani, angizizwa ngihlupheka. Ngicabanga ukuthi abazali bami basebenza kahle, bakhulisa umfazi oqinile kimi, futhi ngenxa yombuzo, lapho ngafika khona - kwesinye isikhathi ngisaba nesithakazelo, futhi kwesinye isikhathi kuwuhlobo lokungabalulekile.
U-Allison, wakhula eConnewIcut naseVermont noMama nomlingani wakhe
Lapho nje ngithole ukuthi ubungani bama-herosexxialls kanye nobungqingili kungenzeka esikoleni sami esisha esikoleni esisha, ngi ... bekumangalisa, ukwazi ukuthi kukhona ezinye izingane ze-Age yami ... ukuthola ukuthi zisekela i-LGBT. Kwakungeyena owedwa owayazi i-lesbian kanye nezitabane, futhi kwakungeyona imfihlo emnyama, okufanele igcinwe.
U-Kerry, wakhulela eNew Jersey Pope noMama, owabona ukuqondiswa kwakhe lapho indodakazi ineminyaka engu-11
Ngikhumbula ingxoxo nomama lapho esho, njengoba ngithanda ukudala umndeni nomunye umuntu wesifazane. Lapho ngisekuncane kakhulu, ngangifuna ukushada nentombi enhle kakhulu, ngakho-ke ngasho kanjena: "Hhawu, sinoSarah kanjani?" Futhi yena: "Cha, hhayi njengawe noSarah."
UZack, uRose eNew York ngaphansi kokugadwa komama ababili
Emndenini wami, bonke bathola. Benginezinkinga ezinkulu kakhulu ngeqiniso lokuthi omama bangababili kunokuba bazithole wena futhi, uyazi, ngokobuhlanga nobuzwe.
Kwesobunxele: IPaloma, esekhulile eNewton, Massachusetts, emndenini ovela kuyise nonina, owabona ukuqondisisa kwakhe lapho uPaloma eneminyaka engu-13
Kwesokudla: U-Aaron, waseBerkeley, eCalifornia, wakhulela ngomama ababili, ngemuva kwesehlukaniso sabo, nobaba otholwayo
U-Aaron: Omama bami babaleka lapho ngisendaweni ethile eyisikhombisa, ngoba umama wami wezinto eziphilayo wathandana nomuntu. Bengazi ukuthi umndeni wami uhlukile kwabanye, kodwa kwakungekona mehluko omubi, kwakuwuhlobo olukhethekile lomndeni.
UZach, wakhulela e-Iowa ngomama ababili
Ngicabanga ukuthi umndeni wami uchazwa kahle hhayi njenge-LGBT, kodwa njengomndeni. Uma ubheka lowo ongamama, noma umndeni wami wonke, uzobona ukuthi ngibiza omama bami uLesbian Couple Nors hhayi ngaphezu kombhangqwana weqembu labaphathi noma abasebenzi bezempilo. Zonke lezi zincazelo zomama ziyiqiniso ngokulinganayo.
UJamie, wakhula ngaphansi kukamama wakhe kanye nozakwethu
Umama nabalingani bakhe bakhuliswa, futhi abalingani bakhe abaningi futhi izintombi nje ezenzeka empilweni yami, ukuthi ngizizwa sengathi ngingikhulisa abesifazane abaningi.
UMark, wakhulela ePennsylvania noMama noYise, owabona ukuqondiswa kwakhe lapho uMark efunda ekolishi
Ubaba uyisitabane. Eqinisweni, kuseyizinqubo zokubona lokhu. Ngijwayele ukucabanga ukuthi ubaba wayeyisitabane kusukela ekuqaleni kwesikhathi. Ngangihlala ngazi ukuthi ngiyi-quir, futhi kuyasiza. Kusukela ebuntwaneni ngabona ukuthi ubaba ufihla ubufazi bakhe njengoba nje nami, kubukeka sengathi izama ukungaweli imilenze futhi ungagxili engxoxweni.
U-Elizabeth wakhula eBoston noMama noYise, owabona ubungqingili bakhe lapho efunda ekolishi
Uthe: "Sekuyisikhathi sokuba ngihlangane ubuso nobuso nobubi bami," futhi ngabuza: "Uyisitabane?", Futhi wathi: "Kahle, angizange ngibe nakho okunjalo ukuze ngiqiniseke." Futhi, kubonakala sengathi la mazwi alandelayo engiwaphule, ebengiwashoyo, ayengubaba, ngiyaqiniseka ukuthi unesiqiniseko sokuthi uyisitabane. "
UJohn, wayehlala eNew England noMama kanye neSatyle nobaba, owabona ukuqondiswa kwakhe lapho uJohane eneminyaka emibili, nomlingani kababa
Okokuqala lapho bekhuluma ngalesi sihloko, yilapho umama ethenga le ncwadi, "Lowo ophila nobaba ndawonye."
Kwesobunxele: UMoshe, uRose eNew York State noMama amabili
Kwesokudla: ULauren, wakhula eKansas, eMissouri, noMama noYise, owamqaphela ubungqingili lapho eneminyaka engu-7
Umlingani : Omama bami bebelokhu besondelene kakhulu, kodwa, kunjalo, kwakukhona isigaba esinjalo sokuthomba, lapho ngizonda umama. Manje usengokwami - ukwesekwa kwangempela, ngaso sonke isikhathi eduzane. Ngiyamthanda.
Ukala uLauren U: Kimi, ukwethuka okuthe xaxa ukuthi abazali bami bavelele kunokuthi ubaba uyisitabane. Ngicabanga ukuthi kuhle ngendodana yami, ukhula nabanqobi ababili futhi akazi ukuthi kukhona okuthile okukhethekile ngakho. Ubaba akasekho umkhulu kunokwekhelwana naye, iNdodana iyakhula, futhi ayilingani ngokuphelele empilweni yakhe njengabaDmkhulu.
UVanessa, wakhulela eVirginia nonina nobaba wakhe, owambona ubungqingili lapho eneminyaka engama-28
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Kithina noSadewethu, umuzwa wokuthi sasingathandeki kakhulu ukuthi sasiqamba amanga isikhathi eside kakhulu kunokuba isimo saphansi saphansi.
UDarnel, wakhulela eMenlo Park, eCalifornia, umama obili nobaba
Ngingasho ukuthi ngangihlala ngizungezwe yi-lesbian ngaso sonke isikhathi futhi kimi sasijwayelekile ngokuphelele. Nginenkumbulo engacacile, njengoba ngilalela umculo emsakazweni futhi kungazelelwe qaphela ukuthi umdlali ubonakala ebuhlanya ngokobulili obufanayo.
IMCCEN, yayihlala eSky Lake, eMichigan, emndenini womama ababili
Abantu bayohlala bengibuza: "Bayini? Kubukeka kanjani? ", Futhi ngikhona, kahle, bangababantu abafanayo. Abanazo ama-Creay noma ifulegi le-rainbow endlini. Sinesidina ngalo mqondo.
UDiana, wakhulela e-Osiining, eNew York, noMama noYise, owabona ubungqingili bakhe lapho efunda ekolishi
Ubaba uthi uma mina angimmbizanga ingxoxo, ngabe wayekade ephila impilo yami yonke, ukucasha. Kubukeka sengathi wayecabanga ukuthi akakaze atshele muntu.
ULucas, wakhuphuka eGainesville, eFlorida, uBaba noMama obuhlanjululwe, owabona ukuqondisisa kwakhe lapho eneminyaka eyi-15
Iqiniso lokuthi umama wami uyisibongo, ngangihlala ngilula kimi, ngoba ngangikhulisa kangangokuba ngathatha bonke abantu. Kwakungajwayelekile, kepha hhayi uthini. Uma isimo sasisibi kakhulu umama wami, uma lesi sebia bekunzima ukuba ngaphezu kwawo manje, ngicabanga ukuthi ngizowunaka kakhulu umzabalazo wamalungelo akhe.
UGabisile, wakhulela eSouth Oregon noyise nonina, owabona ukuqondiswa kwakhe lapho uKaren eneminyaka engamashumi amabili
Isipiliyoni sempilo eNew York kungenze ngabe nomgcini owengeziwe. Kwaba lula ngami ukukhuluma ngakho. Lapho ngakhulela khona, akekho owasho ngalokhu. Kepha lapha cishe wonke umuntu, engijwayelana naye, ubungqingili futhi wonke umuntu ukhuluma ngalokhu futhi konke kukhulu.
Umthombo: zweatlantic.com.