Ochwepheshe bezengqondo, bafunda izinhlangothi ezimbi zomuntu, bathola lokho ngokuvamile, bangahlukaniswa ngamaqembu amathathu: i-narcissism, i-magiavellism ne-psychopathy. Ngokubambisana bakha "i-read triad". Abantu bozinkulungwane ezimnyama baphanga imindeni yabo kanye nezifundazo zabo zonke, ziphinda zibuyise amajele futhi ... ibhodi labaqondisi. Ngokuvamile, kufanelekile ukwazi ukuthi bangobani ukuze bangahlupheki.
Narcissism
Babhala nge-narcissions kakhulu, kepha, ngendlela engajwayelekile ngokwanele, leli yicala elilula. Ezinye zazo zivame ukuzilimaza kakhulu kunabanye. Ngaphezu kwalokho, kusukela esifisweni sokuhlaba umxhwele, bangathola impumelelo enkulu esikoleni nasemsebenzini. Ukusuka kude ku-narcissus, ungavuma. Kepha eduze kwakhe kungekudala noma kamuva wafuna ukulengiswa. Uhlala njalo "ebeka wonke umuntu endaweni," akaze aqaphele amaphutha akhe, wathela abanye icala futhi akholelwe ukuthi konke kufanele nakho konke kufanele kube njalo. Unenkinga ngemingcele, futhi abantu kuye noma ngokushesha "ama-halves" noma izitha. Futhi bonke ngoba akazi ukuthi baluthande kanjani. I-Narcissus iyinkanyezi yesigameko, esihlala iphunwa ngemuva kwesondo, nokuchoboza umuntu, ifuna ukuthi wonke umuntu azisole. UNarcissus ungumuntu obukekayo ongumfana omuhle, ngaso sonke isikhathi esidumaza kunkulunkulukazi omusha othandekayo futhi oshelelayo, aze azizwe njengoNkulunkulu wokugcina.
I-Macialelesm
Umuntu onesici esinjenge-machiavelism, i-zinicic kanye nokubala. Kuvela kubantu Akafuni ukuba bathande, kodwa izinzuzo. Ngakho-ke, amabutho achitha kuphela emadodeni amancane awusizo. Akasekho njengeNarcissus, kepha imvamisa uyazi ukuthi ungamthinta kanjani futhi uzivumelanise ne-interlocutor ebalulekile. Isiqubulo sakhe, kunjalo, "umgomo uyathethelela imali." Ngeke kube namahloni ngenxa yokuzijabulisa, kepha ngeke asigcine isithembiso uma ungathola inzuzo yesikhashana ekwephule kwakhe. Ukuphonsa okungenani isixuku samandla, kudinga ukuhanjiswa okuphelele futhi kukholelwa ukuthi kufanelekile isihlalo salo esihlokweni. I- "Makiavelli" iyinduna ye-dodgy nomngane onengekayo. Akunandaba ukuthi ngabe usezweni lakhe noma i-veveach kule ndima edlula, uhlala esonta futhi amahlaya, ahlabelela abantu kanye namaqembu, asindise kakhulu ebhange lakhe le-piggy. Amasongo nganoma yisiphi isikhathi.
Ukuhlekiswa kwengqondo
Ama-Psychopaths adabuke ngokuphelele. Abakwazi ukuzwa ukuzwelana nabantu, abangenalo uzwela. Abantu babo yizinto, okusho ukuthi konke kuvunyelwe ngempela. Vele, ama-psychopaths angakwazi isikhathi eside futhi afihla kahle isimo sawo sengqondo. Labo abayiziphukuphuku ngokwengeziwe, bazithola masinyane emajele noma nhlobo emathuneni. Bona, njengomthetho, bahlolwa kakhulu, bayaphoqeka, balawule kabi izifiso zabo futhi banonya ngokweqile. Icala elibi kakhulu le-psychopathy liyi-maniac, umbulali we-serial. Okwengeziwe noma okuncane, lo ngumqashi noma uthisha, lapho wonke umuntu aphuma khona ancishiswe kalamula ngomcabango "Wellyuga!" Isibonelo somuntu lapho zonke izingxenye ezintathu zama-Triads zixhunyiwe - UTed Bundy. UNarcissism wamsiza ukuba abukeke kahle futhi aveze umbono omuhle kubantu, ama-machiavelism wasiza ekufezeni isikhundla esiphakeme emphakathini, futhi wathumela amanye abesifazane abanenjabulo ye-psychopathic.
Bheka eVillain
Ukuhlolwa okulula kwencazelo yomunye noma izimpawu zokuthathu ezimnyama ziqukethe amaphuzu ayi-12. Vele ubona lezo zifanele.
- Lo muntu udlulisa abanye.
- Musa ukuzwa ukuphenduka
- Finyelela ukuthandwa okuzungezile
- Ayikhathazeki ngohlangothi lokuziphatha lwezenzo zalo
- Amanga, akhohlisa ukufezekiswa kwezinhloso zakhe
- Inserble noma inenkani
- Ukunambitheka kubantu ukuze bazisebenzise
- Ifuna isimo noma ihlonishwayo
- Ukugxekwa
- Isebenza abantu
- Ilinde ubuhlobo babo
- Ilangazelela abanye
Ukwenza umphumela ngokunembe, impendulo ngayinye kufanele yaziswe esikalini ukusuka ku-1 kuye ku-7, lapho into eyodwa ingavumelani ngokuphelele, futhi 7 - vuma ngokuphelele. Umphumela ojwayelekile womuntu ojwayelekile cishe ngamaphuzu angama-36. Ngamaphuzu angama-45 sekufanelekile ukucabanga ngokuziphatha kwabo nokuxhumana nochwepheshe. Futhi uma ukulinganiselwa okungenhla kwamaphuzu angama-45 kuthola ukwazana kwakho, qaphela naye!
